Mistis thoughts-15th March 2011

Phuljhari=Radhika

Bumbum=Dev

Kabutarni=Maheshwari

This Purohit house is one dysfunctional family…or is it really a family?…..no wonder the kids have developed their own coping mechanism…🤔….the daughter lives in Mumbai, anyway what's the use of her coming back home when she does not even know that she has been kicked out of her room ………the eldest son has realized that if he does not throw a tantrum then he won't get anything……🤔..I don't blame him with a mother like his what else can he do……..the middle one Rohan prefers to keep himself away from the family stuff and enjoys girls………….don't blame him to who wants to live in this house………..the youngest one Dev keeps on smiling and doing stuff……..but does not get involved………I mean I do not feel as if he is a part of this family,…🤔…..he is friendly with Rohan and tells him stuff …..stays in his own dream world……..I mean the flute, sketches and sculpturing…looking or dreaming for a face that he can paint....the face that calls him and touches something inside.....that why his sketches usually don't have faces. I mean the ones that they showed before…….and now he has met this girl whom he liked a lot.......thinks that she is someone known to him and he has decided that he in in love.....…..is looking or searching for something that will make him belong to someone or someplace?……Bumbum feels that this girl was stranger but not a stranger…… says that he has never known/felt what is love…is he only talking about romantic love? Or does that mean that he does not think that amma does not love him as a son?…..or that dadaji does not love him as a grandson?…or that Rohan does not love him as a friend? I mean all these are also relationships based on the feeling or emotion called love.. .Now coming to the adults kabutarni the greatest lunatic in the house………she keeps on justifying her actions to herself…🤪…..I mean is she trying to convince the audience or herself. 😆😆The amount of time she mumbles to herself I am starting to get a feeling that she is telling herself or reminding herself…😆😆…if I do not do this then this will not happen…🤔..if I do this then this will happen………🤔…….uffo Chunnu munnu how many times do I have to listen to the same dialogues from her………..its either about changing will dialogue…🤔or patting someone's head dialogue 🤔or putting a syringe in her FILS rear end dialogue…🤪……but today she got a bit frazzled when she realized that Bumbum has taken the dadaji before she could sing his lullaby to him …🤔……and chunnu munnu I know amma was interested but I am not interested in ammas looks……..If she wants to say something regarding her actions then I will be interested otherwise not.

But in comparison Phuljharis family…….something that I can understand. 👏Phuljhari is happy in her dreamworld and smiling and coming back home…….the thought of mothers anger is out of her head…😊..returns home and father is waiting for her……..on being asked whether she is hungry she promptly says yes………….and then the brother also comes out. Liked the brother-sister banter …her daily talks with Kanha…….I mean she knows that mother is angry but she carries on …..and next day knowing that the mother is angry, she asks the sister and brother to go with her……….the mother throws a fit and the brother gets irritated and takes the mother away from the house. Phuljhari knows that she was late and she shouldn't have been late………so she decided not to go alone because wants to calm the mother and the father steps in saying that nothing will stop her education…….and Phuljhari nods and leaves smiling……………..Interesting family where the father is adamant about his daughter studying and is her main support……….well there are step mums like her who expect more from the adopted child than from their own birth kids…I don't know whether it is expectation or not but there is some sort of waryness from both towards each other…….has an ego and gets hurt pretty quickly…the mother thinks that no one in the family listens to her while the fatherhas got the goal of the daughters educaton set in his head and will not let anything come in front of it.….Give me this family over the Purohits anyday.

Misti luved u brief analysis.... 👏... one question dear..."Dev bumbumbhole se bumbum ban gaye kyun ?......😆

Today 's episode was a good one to me!!...luved the relation n conversation btween Dev n Rohan .... they wre lookin sooo friendly.... even find sumthing diffrnc when Dev winks his eyes at his Dadaji.....i mean we got 2 c the actual relation btwn Dev n Dadaji they r free with one another which even can used as a positive side of the show later on...all over l luved over Dev's performance 2day....
Commin to Phuljharis one ..... today i got ensured one thing that Chenu will never cause harm to Radhika or to her luv..... realy luved the realtion between them.... Ashanti was also good today....
n anothr thing i want frm Chunnumunnu that they should show sumthing more of Padma rather than showin her only a supporive charecter of kabutarni...🤔

Misti, very good analysis.

Originally posted by: misti73

Angie thats why I wrote regarding Bumbum that he is searching for something that will give him something that is lacking in his life.....I mean his hobbies are all solitary hobbies..........his sketches don't have faces ....maybe he is looking for the unconditional love that a child requires.......his interaction with his dadaji was that of a kid........I also feel that this feeling that he has developed is a crush or infatuation and he is calling that as love. I am not sure whether he actually knows the meaning of the term love. Since he has not experienced unconditional love as a child........he will be needy and he might want that love as an adult which only a very mature and confident person can give him.......

Just based on last two week's characterization of Dev (discounting that first introduction episode where he showed his puppet behavior), they are keeping Dev as this innocent character who is also a loner. He only got love from Amma and Dadaji. Dadaji treated him like a grandson and Amma was there as a mentor more than a mother. A mother would have fought to get food for her son and she didn't fight as she couldn't disobey the DIL being a servant. So he is close to Amma but doesn't confide in her about his feelings. He does so with Rohan at a superficial basis as adult Rohan is acting like a friend to him. Otherwise he is a loner as you mentioned all his activities (body building, sculpting, sketching and flute playing). He does his work and spends the rest of his time in his hobbies. He was shown very eager to find a dream girl. Radhika fits his imagination and hence his infatuation. She is the mature one in this relationship and he would fall properly in love once he gets to know her.

He is not shown to be close to Padma or having any feeling about any other PF member. The only clear relationship they have shown is with Viraath where Bumbum knows about Viraath and prefers to ignore him. Hence his advice for phuljhari to do the same. I am okay with that characterization as long as they don't suddenly make him chummy with Padma and others.

I agree that his interaction with Dadaji was similar to the one he used to have with Dadi and it was more like a kid and Dadaji's look was also of an indulgent grandfather who wanted his grandson to get his wish. I just wish they would show this gradual realization of love and also realization on Radhika's part that Dev needs her also to fulfil a deficiency in his life. They showed that blossoming in Radhika after she experienced that unconditional love from Dev in CB1 and they need to show that groW*H in Bumbum too in CB2. Unfortunately they are rushing this "divine" love to make their deadline of "Holi" so that they can show twists and turns which includes their favorite track of triangles and rectangles. Wish they could think a little bit outside the box.

Yes........they are still not sure of the future tracks and hence this ambiguity in the Purohits.As for the longetivity the side characters need a story of their own........if the story only revolves around Dev and Radhika........there won't be much to tell and again artificial twists and turns will start.

Sometimes I wonder if DJs are interested in longevity of any of their shows. They seem to have no love for their products and care only for 1 year return which they get by initial promos and initial ratings. After the triangles are over, they drag the story for another 6 months where all the beloved characters are destroyed and side characters are reduced to caricatures. Then they close the show.

They also have not learned that it is the same audience that were treated the same way regarding Abhays looks.......so why will they be interested in ammas looks.

Agree with that completely. Even if they don't show Padma for now, show at least Amma's doubts and her justification for installing respect for Kabutarni in Dev's mind in the privacy of her room.

Today they showed Kabutarni getting angry as things didn't go her way. So they are showing that she starts behaving like her old self when she doesn't get her way. Otherwise she is sweet as sugar. How is it possible that she didn't lose her cool in 12 years. There have to be incidents where she was powerless and had to be shown angry. Her husband is rarely shown and she hides her feelings towards him. He used to know her too and would run away when she would get into her tantrums. Now they are hiding him. Well probably they will pay more attention to PF when holi gets over and Kabutarni chooses Radhika. Just hope that PF turns out to be half as interesting as Phuljhari's family. Otherwise, the show would become tedious as the action would soon move to PB.

Misti,

Originally posted by: RADEV1000

Misti luved u brief analysis.... 👏... one question dear..."Dev bumbumbhole se bumbum ban gaye kyun ?......😆

Today 's episode was a good one to me!!...luved the relation n conversation btween Dev n Rohan .... they wre lookin sooo friendly.... even find sumthing diffrnc when Dev winks his eyes at his Dadaji.....i mean we got 2 c the actual relation btwn Dev n Dadaji they r free with one another which even can used as a positive side of the show later on...all over l luved over Dev's performance 2day....
Commin to Phuljharis one ..... today i got ensured one thing that Chenu will never cause harm to Radhika or to her luv..... realy luved the realtion between them.... Ashanti was also good today....
n anothr thing i want frm Chunnumunnu that they should show sumthing more of Padma rather than showin her only a supporive charecter of kabutarni...🤔

Thanks RADEV1000.........The credit for the Bumbum name goes to Angie....she used the shortened version and I liked it so decided to use it. As for the epsiode, for me it was interesting in bits and not interesting in bits.........so a mix and match episode for me.

Originally posted by: misti73

Thanks RADEV1000.........The credit for the Bumbum name goes to Angie....she used the shortened version and I liked it so decided to use it. As for the epsiode, for me it was interesting in bits and not interesting in bits.........so a mix and match episode for me.

Misti, I love all your names and you are a genius in coming up with them. I actually want to see Bumbumbhole roop when he finds out that Kabutarni pushed Dadaji. For now he was Bumbum because I think of him as a loveable bum based on his reactions to Radhika (of course I am ignoring his puppet behavior as that brings anguthachoos image back).

Originally posted by: misti73

Just based on last two week's characterization of Dev (discounting that first introduction episode where he showed his puppet behavior), they are keeping Dev as this innocent character who is also a loner. He only got love from Amma and Dadaji. Dadaji treated him like a grandson and Amma was there as a mentor more than a mother. A mother would have fought to get food for her son and she didn't fight as she couldn't disobey the DIL being a servant. So he is close to Amma but doesn't confide in her about his feelings. He does so with Rohan at a superficial basis as adult Rohan is acting like a friend to him. Otherwise he is a loner as you mentioned all his activities (body building, sculpting, sketching and flute playing). He does his work and spends the rest of his time in his hobbies. He was shown very eager to find a dream girl. Radhika fits his imagination and hence his infatuation. She is the mature one in this relationship and he would fall properly in love once he gets to know her.

Yes I noticed today that Bumbum confided to dadaji about the dreamgirl but chose not to tell amma...so there is a bit of boundary between them....maybe from amma because she knows that he is also the grandchild of this family so in that way she is also working for him...........ad thats why she maintained some distance and Bumbum just took it as normal........I mean as a kid he might not have questioned it and just continued with it. Rohan-Bumbum relation is also a very superficial one to me and they are keeping it that way...I mean Rohan that way to mold him as per whatever tracks they have chosen.

He is not shown to be close to Padma or having any feeling about any other PF member. The only clear relationship they have shown is with Viraath where Bumbum knows about Viraath and prefers to ignore him. Hence his advice for phuljhari to do the same. I am okay with that characterization as long as they don't suddenly make him chummy with Padma and others.

Yes regarding Viraath...actually he is probably the only person to whom he has a strong reaction....Viraath also tolerates Rohan but his strong reaction also comes out regarding Bumbum.....actually Rohan is perfectly placed here to play either way.......

I agree that his interaction with Dadaji was similar to the one he used to have with Dadi and it was more like a kid and Dadaji's look was also of an indulgent grandfather who wanted his grandson to get his wish. I just wish they would show this gradual realization of love and also realization on Radhika's part that Dev needs her also to fulfil a deficiency in his life. They showed that blossoming in Radhika after she experienced that unconditional love from Dev in CB1 and they need to show that groW*H in Bumbum too in CB2. Unfortunately they are rushing this "divine" love to make their deadline of "Holi" so that they can show twists and turns which includes their favorite track of triangles and rectangles. Wish they could think a little bit outside the box.

Do they have the capability to think outside the box? They will surprise me if they show that they can do that. As for Radhika........if she can understand what her mother is about then she should be able to understand Dev.....that is if they do not ping pong her characters to bring the artificial twists.

Sometimes I wonder if DJs are interested in longevity of any of their shows. They seem to have no love for their products and care only for 1 year return which they get by initial promos and initial ratings. After the triangles are over, they drag the story for another 6 months where all the beloved characters are destroyed and side characters are reduced to caricatures. Then they close the show.

I actually will not mind if they plan a show for 1-1.5 years.....provided it has got a start, middle and end........but then the greed for TRPs come in and even if there is a planned end, they extend it artificially and in this process kill the show.

Agree with that completely. Even if they don't show Padma for now, show at least Amma's doubts and her justification for installing respect for Kabutarni in Dev's mind in the privacy of her room.

Agree.

Today they showed Kabutarni getting angry as things didn't go her way. So they are showing that she starts behaving like her old self when she doesn't get her way. Otherwise she is sweet as sugar. How is it possible that she didn't lose her cool in 12 years. There have to be incidents where she was powerless and had to be shown angry.
My point exactly and one that I has been mentioned repeatedly.......has everyone been a Sleeping Beauty that cannot pick up her signs.........oh they will suddenly show amma waking up. .....they should show some discontent from the muth to show that people were unhappy but they did not know how to say but that open insult of the mahant was the last straw...otherwise this is turning into a very strange screenplay....
Her husband is rarely shown and she hides her feelings towards him. He used to know her too and would run away when she would get into her tantrums. Now they are hiding him.
The husband should have been one the first few to pick up but now he does not even realise when she is being sarcastic towards him.......
Well probably they will pay more attention to PF when holi gets over and Kabutarni chooses Radhika. Just hope that PF turns out to be half as interesting as Phuljhari's family. Otherwise, the show would become tedious as the action would soon move to PB.
Yes....truthfully at this point I won't mind if they show the story just based in Rawal......./QUOTE]

hey nice analysis...

Misti interesting reading ur thoughts on PF and MF

Actually in PF there is no binding factor they r just together as the entire wealth must be in one trust of RP BB is a greedy person and all must be keeping on the right side of her so that their interests r intact and for Dev its his grandfather and Daima. But he is close to Rohan also as he tells him his inner thoughts which is not possible if they were not close. Dev probably must be telling his grandfather everything but as he tells him when he had his medicine so he got no response but today he told him before that dose so he got the response from his grandfather when he told about Radhika. Rest of them as they have not shown them much so cannot form any opinion probably after Radhika comes to PB CMs will concentrate on the characters here.

Radhikas parents house everything is moving in a stable way as all the characters r well defined as well as they r stable in their response and am liking MANASA character who is not at all bothered about his wifes crankiness or emotional blackmail he is ignoring her behavior where Radhika is concerned.Liked his one rack mind and firmness where Radhikas education is concerned.😊

Loved today's episode and the telephathic dialogue between Phuljari and Bumbum