I agree with most of your post ... EXCEPT the bold. The current TRP topper show was supposed to be about a woman following her dreams of studying and becoming a career woman, and her husband supporting her ... I started watching it in the hope it would show how a modern girl balances work and home life in a realistic way and how her husband supports her. It degenerated into a typical saas bahu show where for the last two years the girl has been only trying to prove to her saas that she is an ideal bahu, and thus get permission to study ... while the husband supports her privately but is too meek to stand up to his mother strongly for his wife. So for me, it did not hold to its original premise and I stopped watching it. But it is the current topper ... go figure 😛
If CC also degenerates into the same type of show, of Umaben bullying CC into leaving the house, and Chhanchhan proving that she is ideal bahu and thus staying on, I will probably lose interest. But so far, it does seem to be slightly different ... I agree with ankitamishra's post above that CC is showing how a modern girl can deal with her MIL without breaking into tears at the drop of a hat ... and can show her that new ways are good and should be adopted.
Remember that it is only the first day of CC in her new home, the real story has barely started. On the first day itself, CC has used the rotimaker and internet to solve two problems - I think that is pretty good going. 😃
Being modern does NOT only mean wearing modern clothes and fighting to do so ... that is what all the youngsters seem to think and that is where they are wrong. Being modern means using your intelligence and education in the right way ... and in the context of the show - to look at traditions and customs, see what is right and what is wrong, retain the right ones, and drop the wrong ones. That will be the ideological battle that the makers have promised.
Like the pallu wearing ... CC is wearing the pallu not because she believes in it herself, but because it's the custom in the house, and she has no objection to wearing it. But if it interferes with her work, then she should be allowed to drop it. We've already seen Umaben's hypocritical stance on it - she doesn't believe in it, but Babuji does ... so it doesn't seem to be a custom as such, but only one enforced by Umaben for her own reasons.
If Umaben says CC cannot use modern gadgets in the kitchen to make housework easier, that is wrong, and she should speak up against it.
If CC goes back to work ... which I hope she will, that is where she should drop the pallu, and the saree as well ... because they are unsuitable clothes for her work. If Umaben objects to her working, that is where she should protest.
Show is looking a bit regressive because of UB's character. she is total black. see running a household with old traditions and culture and being strict so that family stays together and follow old societal norms is old fashioned and that is character ideology which is good but stooping to any level to humiliate her bahus and getting pleasure from it is evil. UB in this show is evil.she is not old fashioned but egoistic and want upper hand over her bahus and family. she is same as mil's from other shows.
And yes being modern is not wearing modern clothes or being a rebel. i believe stick to your roots but adapt modern ideas where ever necessary to make life easier to lead.
With out goofing up if the makers show us the ideological battle as you have explained it will be really interesting to watch.at this point all we can say is to hope for the best for sanaya as she is the sole reason we all are watching the show for.