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Posted: 8 years ago

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Thanks Roggy.

Yes, social media is effing depressing at times. You know I was too attached to my parents and my parents are hating me living alone like this although we live 15 kms apart. It took a great deal to convince them that want to be independent but really it was the fear of attachment. I grew up with my grandmother and I was very attached to her and it became very difficult after I lost her. So yeah, I understand what you must be feeling too. My sister has no emotions so she is very happy leaving parents here with me. Also on marraige I think I'm scared of letting anyone into my inner circle. I'm very introvert and I enjoy my solace. I get hysterical when somebody tries to invade my privacy and gets commanding. Also I would probably be scared to get sandwiched between my wife and mom tomorrow. I see my jiju going through it and I have already given up on marraige.

Ok I don't know what I'm talking. Bye guys.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: rogerrocks
In the Bollywood forum😆There is this thread where so many were depressed..And I have been a strong advocate of the fact that social media sucks so I just used the opportunity to vent😆

Oh yeah, sometimes it is fun and sometimes it is not. Though I have seen a lot of such topics on Bollywood forum. Sometimes I don't know what to say.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#533

Originally posted by: TheekThaak

Oh yeah, sometimes it is fun and sometimes it is not. Though I have seen a lot of such topics on Bollywood forum. Sometimes I don't know what to say.

Kaapi! How do you manage to stay away from IF most of the time teach me? I cant stop logging in here, all the time😆

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Posted: 8 years ago

#534

Originally posted by: The-Dilettante
Thanks Roggy.

Yes, social media is effing depressing at times. You know I was too attached to my parents and my parents are hating me living alone like this although we live 15 kms apart. It took a great deal to convince them that want to be independent but really it was the fear of attachment. I grew up with my grandmother and I was very attached to her and it became very difficult after I lost her. So yeah, I understand what you must be feeling too. My sister has no emotions so she is very happy leaving parents here with me. Also on marraige I think I'm scared of letting anyone into my inner circle. I'm very introvert and I enjoy my solace. I get hysterical when somebody tries to invade my privacy and gets commanding. Also I would probably be scared to get sandwiched between my wife and mom tomorrow. I see my jiju going through it and I have already given up on marraige.

Ok I don't know what I'm talking. Bye guys.

Damn TD I know how that feels..My biggest issue with marriage is the fact that I have to let go of my parents in some way..Which I really cannot imagine at this point..I dont know why marriage is seen as such a compulsion and I dont get why ppl are so obsessed with it..My dad is paranoid about this right now and I keep telling him I'l say yes after some time 😆

@Kaapi- Yeah I know..Am just surprised to see the number of people who are depressed..Its drastically increased over a period of time and its scary 😲 And I noticed ppl use social media to distract themselves and its a very bad idea..SM is only good timepass not distraction esp. when you are depressed otherwise..

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Posted: 8 years ago

#535

I know a friend who managed to get a ghar jamai for the same reason. She had a very overprotective dad and he didn't want her to leave after marraige. Well, I don't think marraige always means that you move away from your parents. You can always stay nearby, if not the same house and still visit them every day. But maybe once you get a man your attachment for parents will probably be shared and you will feel less paranoid?

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Posted: 8 years ago

#536

Originally posted by: The-Dilettante

Kaapi! How do you manage to stay away from IF most of the time teach me? I cant stop logging in here, all the time😆

I used to log in everyday as well. But then got really occupied and lost interest in Bollywood movies, man. These days I log in only for this cc..don't even bother about any movie reviews are collections whatsoever. 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago

#537

Originally posted by: The-Dilettante
I know a friend who managed to get a ghar jamai for the same reason. She had a very overprotective dad and he didn't want her to leave after marraige. Well, I don't think marraige always means that you move away from your parents. You can always stay nearby, if not the same house and still visit them every day. But maybe once you get a man your attachment for parents will probably be shared and you will feel less paranoid?

I dont know..It wont be the same once you are married, will it? Am someone who always prefers status quo..I hate change so thats part of my problem and am super cynical and pessimistic so thats the biggest problem 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago

#538

As much as I feel homesick at times, I like having my own space sometimes. Staying away from parents, living alone gives you a different perspective and you learn to manage a lot of things by yourself in the personal space. And anyway, these days technology has advanced so much that you can use it for positive purposes. As in, my parents and I exchange a lot of random pictures with each other...make video calls etc..etc..

As opposed to the popular perspective..I even like twitter..you get a the news updates at one place. Jokes. Headlines. Opinions. It is fun actually, if used well.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#539

Originally posted by: The-Dilettante
Thanks Roggy.

Yes, social media is effing depressing at times. You know I was too attached to my parents and my parents are hating me living alone like this although we live 15 kms apart. It took a great deal to convince them that want to be independent but really it was the fear of attachment. I grew up with my grandmother and I was very attached to her and it became very difficult after I lost her. So yeah, I understand what you must be feeling too. My sister has no emotions so she is very happy leaving parents here with me. Also on marraige I think I'm scared of letting anyone into my inner circle. I'm very introvert and I enjoy my solace. I get hysterical when somebody tries to invade my privacy and gets commanding. Also I would probably be scared to get sandwiched between my wife and mom tomorrow. I see my jiju going through it and I have already given up on marraige.

Ok I don't know what I'm talking. Bye guys.

Start with small things. Bring a roommate and see how it works out with him/her. 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago

#540

Originally posted by: The-Dilettante
Its frustrating to know that all your friends are suddenly Federer fans when four years back they were all Rafa fans.😆

Hahah this is so True .. 😆

There was an insta post for teh people supporting #Fedal 😆 and I belonged to catergory .

Super happy to see Fed win ,I felt the Fed winning that 3rd set was really Class ,what technique display there .

Rafa's Wimbledon win of 2008 remains my most fav . He got defeated by Rog 06-07 back to back and I felt this will be 3rd time in a row but wow what a win that was .

Ohh I used to love Andy Roddick too ,his and Fed's bromance in Wimbledon was worth a sight . 😆

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