Sushpective Chat Club: Thread #6 - Page 77

Originally posted by: chicksoup

My first response after the epi, TBH:

1. Why couldn't Shravan move on from this monster girl?😆 He really couldn't find someone better in the long ten years???

2. How did Sumo expect him to forgive her after that?😕

But after pondering on it for a while, I am really bugged with Shravan.

Not for the showdown, but for the whiny character he was years back.

I might sound a little or very insensitive...and I do feel that Sumo def should have been kinder to him in public...but had he come to her in her house, I have a feeling she would have yelled at him even then. His mom had been making trouble for a long while now, and it looks like he had been eating Sumo's head for some time now. Had she been a nice lady and his dad had kicked her out, I would expect Sumo to be all ears...but it sounded like everyone else knew this was inevitable and Shravan was still not prepared for this. He would just keep whining.

In a sense that roar from Suman seems to have done Shravan a world of good finally.😆 He really needed London just then.

But Insensitive she was, and foolish and idiotic- Oh Yes!

That boy playing Shravan was too good.👏

Originally posted by: -Bhavi

Hello all

Hope all had a nice weekend. I had one lazy outing. Went to the hot springs. Nothing is relaxing than going in pool amidst the snow clad mountains and freezing temp.😃

EDKV- I don't like this Shravan and his so called tit for tat behaviour. I posted my response in one of the post on forum.

My response to the episode copying from there

Very nice post.

I would say it was more tit for tat then eye for an eye.

Shravan all his young life had issues. He was the guy who did not have friends, was not cool, was not friendly and most important was the guy who was nerd. The nerd whose life was boring as he was seen with books.

Even today he is not that friendly a person. He is trying to be what Suman wanted him to be. Else why would have he forgotten his date with Ms Delhi. For sure with age he has known to manipulate the situation yet at the back of the mind he is still the adolescent who was betrayed by Suman at the prom night. He is trying to be prince charming because that was the reason why he was betrayed by Suman.

Suman is his first love or may be the only love and has not forgotten her. He remembers each and every details even after 10 years. So he is just trying to show her how hurt he was or how much it hurts when people are two faced.

The only difference here to me that when Suman insulted him she told him that she will not go with him in prom. She was upfront and she never manipulated him even though she was young she was mature enough to not hurt him. Although it was the act on verge of snob behaviour it can be counted as the mistake that many teenagers make.

Whereas Shravan on other hand who is matured, successful lawyer repeating the scene is the act of manipulation. He manipulated her to the extent of no return. Behind that successful man is still that young man who had issues with self esteem and is still a nerd.

G- I am loving this show Daheleez for now. Can't name it what i am liking. I am just liking it

Is it a 5 day show or 7 days like all other star plus shows?

This author Jojo Moyes has gotten under my skin. I completed yet another of her story- One plus One. She is so natural and writes about the real people.Unlike some of the stories where one lead is so good or have done nothing wrong and other is all twisted with past and what not. She is witty and the humor is in the day to day life that she is portraying. One can laugh and cry with her writing.

Sush - will definitely go for the second movie from Divergent. I liked the first one so am sure this one will be good too. I have all the three books in basement and am not sure if i should read the book first or just enjoy the movie.

Originally posted by: habs

I like what JJKL said; it's probably closer to the truth than we think - LOL

I find it hard to like Shravan right now Sush to be honest. Whatever his reasons or however he justifies his actions at the end of the day he took the cheap way out, the cowards way in my opinion. I could just be super sensitive to stuff like this so perhaps it's just me.

Bhavi - hot springs!!! Nice - spring has officially come on the calendar but it still feels like winter out; storm after storm with rain - yippeee - where's the sun??

On another note I'm happy to report my brother is moving back to California for work so I can visit!!!
No offense ladies but I'm a west coast gal through and through and didn't really like the east. Maybe too crowded for me?

Originally posted by: -Sush-

Hi Chick,

But a friend is not supposed to judge...a friend should be there for you...

I am glad Pushker said ...Suman has changed...she was very selfish and insensitive then...I don't think anyone in Shravans position can love that Suman...I think he will fall in love with who she is now...not who she was...But in any case... I would love the new Suman to accept her own mistakes whole heartedly...some day...just as I would love Shravan to feel bad about what he did at the party...all justifications aside...

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Sush,

She was not a good friend at all- I don't think anyone can argue that point.

Many good people are not that understanding at that age. They are simply moulded by their later experiences.

If we look at what the ten years have done to Suman and Shravan- who is more mature now?

How can Shravan blame Sumo for who he is now? Why didn't he let other life experiences mould him? Why did he turn into such a hopeless cynic and chauvinist?

Why is it that Suman became this very caring girl and he became the direct opposite?

And in what way is any of her apologies going to make a difference to him? But for Suman, I have a feeling she is going to move past this insult irrespective of whether he gives a heartfelt apology or not...she is not going to let it fester...she is simply going to pick up from who they are now, and move on.

But Shravan needs to know that she truly regrets who she was, and it is not an act she has put up for him..would love to see how he gets to know that.