Originally posted by: Charu.S
Very very well said Samanika.👏 👏.
At the same time, an actress like Deepika, who is a public figure with enormous reach and influence also has to weigh her words before she utters them. 'Sex' the word itself is taboo in India . Therefore the tendency to misconstrue her words and brand her negative is also there. I felt that she could have been more precise, sensitive and responsible with her views on the subject.
However, I also have different views on the topic of sex before marriage. To each their own on this subject. As a part of my job, I'm constantly advising teenagers about abstinence. Its EXTREMELY important that a girl/woman understands that frivolous, careless sex can lead to serious emotional damage and also ( in rare cases) an unwanted, unprepared pregnancy. In this case there are three lives that are severely affected. It is a woman that becomes preggers, not a man. If this should happen in an Indian setup, to a girl before marriage, the girls' life is tarnished forever. The man still goes scot-free. Sad but the truth. Equality does not work in such situations.
I also fully agree with you that it is women themselves who are misusing the idea of equality, without understanding the implications of the word 'equality'.
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