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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

Ya she is talking about choices women can make and that ad has an answer from men that choices men can make.😃
Actually one of her choice says that I as a woman ,can have physical relationships before marriage(this is kinda ok as it's one's own choice ) but then it further says that I can have relationships outside marriage and this point is controversial as it's adultery.If men doing it is wrong and so women doing it is also wrong .Its better then one doesn't get married.

Physical relationships before marriage is dependent completely on individual choice. And I agree with the fact that no woman should be judged if she chooses to.

But adultery is wrong, whether committed by women or men
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: SindhuMenon



Though I dont agree or not for to physical relationships befor marriage, that said its each persons choice. But certainly after marriage its a big NO NO. men or women this is not acceptable. I agree why to get married then, just leave single and do what u want. this is applicable to both men and women.

Exactly Sindhu.
Marriage is all about commitment and trust.And not only physical but even mental too.
If I want my partner to stand by me through thick or thin ,then I have to be committed to him or her .
One point she says in Ad is I as a woman can come home at 4 am or 6 PM.Here again if you are married then yes ,your timings are matter of concern for your spouse as you are answerable about them to your spouse .
And I dread to think what will happen to kids then ,all they need is both of their parents together .
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: justlovetv

Physical relationships before marriage is dependent completely on individual choice. And I agree with the fact that no woman should be judged if she chooses to.

But adultery is wrong, whether committed by women or men

Completely agree with you .
Sex before marriage is one's own choice .And we can't judge anybody on basis of that .But adultery is strictly no whether man or woman,
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

Completely agree with you .
Sex before marriage is one's own choice .And we can't judge anybody on basis of that .But adultery is strictly no whether man or woman,

I am sure they were trying to send out a positive message, but something must have gone wrong somewhere.
Its a good thing that they are trying to make women aware about how they should have no qualms about living life on their own terms. But advocating adultery as empowerment is not the right thing.
It is again reverse discrimination, so is it right that men are considered wrong but its perfectly fine if women get away with it?
Rather, they could have shown that if a woman commits adultery, whether knowingly or unknowingly, she shouldn't be ostracised. Many consider men cheating on their wives as a sign of 'mardaangi' but if a woman is caught doing such a thing she is labelled with the worst possible names.

P.S. Not trying to say that adultery is acceptable...


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: justlovetv

I am sure they were trying to send out a positive message, but something must have gone wrong somewhere.
Its a good thing that they are trying to make women aware about how they should have no qualms about living life on their own terms. But advocating adultery as empowerment is not the right thing.
It is again reverse discrimination, so is it right that men are considered wrong but its perfectly fine if women get away with it?
Rather, they could have shown that if a woman commits adultery, whether knowingly or unknowingly, she shouldn't be ostracised. Many consider men cheating on their wives as a sign of 'mardaangi' but if a woman is caught doing such a thing she is labelled with the worst possible names.

P.S. Not trying to say that adultery is acceptable...


I understand what you want to say here .
Yes earlier if man was caught cheating then wife was asked to accept it as he was a man.But if woman was found doing so then she was thrown out and a stigma to her character and social life.
They should have said that if I as a woman ,is cheating is wrong then same rule applies to a man too.

Edited by Rashmi81 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: justlovetv

I am sure they were trying to send out a positive message, but something must have gone wrong somewhere.
Its a good thing that they are trying to make women aware about how they should have no qualms about living life on their own terms. But advocating adultery as empowerment is not the right thing.
It is again reverse discrimination, so is it right that men are considered wrong but its perfectly fine if women get away with it?
Rather, they could have shown that if a woman commits adultery, whether knowingly or unknowingly, she shouldn't be ostracised. Many consider men cheating on their wives as a sign of 'mardaangi' but if a woman is caught doing such a thing she is labelled with the worst possible names.

P.S. Not trying to say that adultery is acceptable...




I agree...
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Posted: 10 years ago
I feel offscreen Pari shares a good bond with Salim guy .
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Posted: 10 years ago
@Rashmi, Sindhu, Sam,

Interesting discussions...
I was shocked to read comments on youtube though.. from both supporters and opposite party as well..

I agree with Sam here maybe they were trying to send out a positive message, but something must have gone wrong somewhere...

Last week itself I wrote a long essay about feminism and women empowerment...
Empowerment is about equal rights for both men and women, in terms of economical, social and physical...It nowhere says that one gender can have more rights than the other...

So if something is right for a man then it is right for a woman too, and if something is wrong then it is wrong for both...

Will write more...but now I am going to watch JA...😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

I feel offscreen Pari shares a good bond with Salim guy .



yes, I agree. I think Pari shares good bond with all re...Pics are posted if taken by individual actors I guess. Salim loves to take pic, so he posts it..Even we have seen pics with Ankit and all right. She I dont think takes pics. same goes with RT I guess.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Rasika29

@Rashmi, Sindhu, Sam,

Interesting discussions...
I was shocked to read comments on youtube though.. from both supporters and opposite party as well..

I agree with Sam here maybe they were trying to send out a positive message, but something must have gone wrong somewhere...

Last week itself I wrote a long essay about feminism and women empowerment...
Empowerment is about equal rights for both men and women, in terms of economical, social and physical...It nowhere says that one gender can have more rights than the other...

So if something is right for a man then it is right for a woman too, and if something is wrong then it is wrong for both...

Will write more...but now I am going to watch JA...😆



Thanks rasika..Yes watch JA, we need TRPS...👍🏼

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