Originally posted by: ssttuuttii
See... if you had read the books first (or at least read them before getting into the HP fandom and spaces online), you would like the Weasleys and find Hermione fairly irritating. It's because the books are from Harry's PoV and he finds Hermione boring while Ron is his chilled out / sporty best friend who is almost always loyally stuck to his side (I know Ron has his jealous / insecure moments but for the most part, he is very supportive of Harry). Hermione on the hand is always getting on their nerves - harping on about homework, exams, following rules, etc. When Harry has a fight with Hermione, he and Ron go their jolly way and don't miss her except when they have to do their homework by themselves... but when Harry and Ron have a fight, he and Hermione have nothing in common to talk about and he continuously misses Ron.
[The above is not my viewpoint, just the vibe you get from the book... which is from a teenage boy's PoV so it makes sense.]
But then you got the movies where Ron is side-lined and reduced to a stupid jock while Hermione is made out to be this super-cool witch instead of a nerdy know-it-all who has the theoretical knowledge but always fumbles at the practical application in times of need. Movie Hermione is intelligent, bold and badass... and the actress good-looking... so you see how the narrative changed?
Now, Hermione was too good for Ron, so who else could you pair her with? Well here's this other good-looking and cool guy... and the actors are friends too! That's how Dramione started... and if you want to turn Draco into a good guy, someone else has to take the blame... which lead to Ron bashing.
Subsequently, Snape and the Blacks including Regulus Black (who is barely characterized in the books) caught everyone's interest... Slytherin turned into the go-to house... and so on. This made Weasleys (Ron-Ginny and sometimes whole fam) and Dumbledore the punching bag.
If you have been in the fandom long enough... you can practically make out this accession in the form of posts and fics. That is not to say I dislike Draco or Snape and love Dumbledore... I merely believe they are gray characters and should be allowed to remain so. JKR put in so much effort to give the characters life... they all have their virtues and vices... there's no need to turn them into one-dimensional cardboard caricatures.
That is the reason I've stopped reading HP FFs. I don't mind someone's mistakes being called out... Was Dumbledore manipulative? Sure. He was a politically oriented man and had to look at the greater good (classic trolley problem)... but he still tried his best to turn the odds in Harry's favor. He keeps trying to look out for everyone around him as much as he can... this is a war, you can't really expect everyone to get out unscathed. But this was their only chance at winning against someone who is almost immortal... so what choice did he have? It's easy to forget this in the frame of FFs that can make people like Bellatrix seem like misunderstood kittens... but these were death eaters who were committing Genocide of sorts. If we were to compare Dumbledore to someone like Churchill or Roosevelt.... fighting against the Nazis... does that put things in a better context? Now do his actions seem more justifiable..? If causing more trauma to some kids could end a war, who wouldn't make the same choices? Mind you, he never sacrifices them. Near-death experience yes... but since Harry had Voldemort's soul inside him, that was a given. The fact that he made it out alive at all was because of Dumbledore (and some luck).
I'm not saying I agree with every action that Dumbledore takes. But then, is there any character in the book that you could stand behind 100% of the time? They all have their faults... so why pick on one more than the rest? If it's someone like Umbridge... then I can understand
Turn her into a full villain all you want
. But for most of the other characters... I like them the way they are... no need for either bashing or glorification. And without this balance, I find it tough to read any FFs. I've actually had a better time reading some cross-overs that utilize the world-building aspect of HP but with other characters as protagonists. Those are more fun and not colored by the extreme views of the fandom
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P.S. Sorry for the long-ass post.. I'm just sad about how the HP fandom has fallen so far from it's source material. But I'm hoping for better times in the future when the new series comes out and revives the interest in OG books. Perhaps the series might even stay more true to the characterizations (or is that too much to hope for
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P.P.S. Completely forgot to mention... yeah I agree that Ginny and Harry was a little sudden and rushed. He was probably better off left as single in the end... he is a seventeen year old boy who just came out of a war where he lost so many people and nearly died himself. He doesn't need to have his life set in that very moment... aise hi chod dete to chalta
. Like I said, I don't read HP for shipping... but if he has to be paired with anyone.... then Ginny, Cho or maybe even Luna are all good choices acc to me.
I read the first book when it originally came out and watched the movie when it released as well and never been at any HP fandom places.
I didn't read them but my friends group did, they read the books first then watched the movies. My sister only watched the movies and not all of them are pro Draco-Hermione. But all of them are anti-Ginny and from the excerpts that I have heard and read, I don't like her either
I can even accept Ron's character, with all his flaws he seemed real but not Ginny, never her. She is the one I hate the most.
In fact, I can understand every other characters motives, flaws, passion, obsession but Ginny gives me the eehh yuck feeling
I am tempted to take this as a challenge. I am going to read all the HP books and see if it impacts my opinion or not.
Turn her into a full villain all you want 

in so many of them it's just Tony mollycoddling him and Peter behaving like a helpless defenceless kid
or else they turn May into some kind of villain/negligent/abusive towards Peter to turn Tony into the parent. Like bruh, that woman literally raised him up, you can't just vilify her like that
and I love when Pepper is involved
one bcz she makes the Ironfam complete and two bcz without her calming presence and steady handle on things, I fear these two could set anything on fire 
. Ab to pakka go and read memoriaeterna's stories ("The Other Side" and "Z to A" are the best in my opinion). And when you want a bit of break from all the time-space conundrums in those fics, shift to Bergen's AU stories - competent Spidey with worried Tony + good May, supportive Pepper, and at least one other Avenger if not the whole lot are present in most of her stories. And she has around 50 works!! My personal fav are "Catch and Keep" and "Lies of Omission" but there are so many to choose from... I'm sure you will find something worth your while. Have a blast 






Gosh then READ it!
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