Originally posted by: The_Best
Few seem to be projecting about being with sleeping before marriage and don’t like some want to be partner’s first and some just seem rude.
@TM - It’s completely okay if you wanted to be your man’s first. It’s okay to be hurt that he slept with someone else before you. However, he can’t change that now and it is wrong he lied to you about it. Perhaps he didn’t want to hurt you and lied. One can’t know for sure until you communicate to him about it. Please talk to him. As for him uttering his ex name, that’s messed up. I don’t know what to say other than for you to talk to him about this all and see to where to go from then. I wish you the best.
I have a question. Will it still be ok if a groom asked the bride if she is a virgin on their wedding night?
The bride is legally the wife now. She's in a conservative society, with presumably conservative family (arranged marriage and all). Bride's not a virgin. She has no clue how this new guy is going to react. She lies.
Then, would it be ok for the groom to be upset he wasn't her first?
Most people on this thread supporting the OP would be up in arms about what a knuckle-dragging Neanderthal hubby was, and they'd be right.
Sorry, adults getting married should expect the other person to have had a life and made choices before. What's important is what comes after.
If virginity was so darned important, the question should've been asked before she said yes.
ETA. I believe the OP is either a tv-show writer doing market research or simply making this up for entertainment. Too 80s Bollywood to be real.
Edited by HearMeRoar - 2 years ago
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