Member topic - Why get married at all? - Page 8

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

My thoughts exactly. Here’s my 2 cents on marriage (plagiarised myself from an old thread). I think this is the ultimate solution to the issues you raised. 👇🏼 👇🏼

I’m not married (not that I know of at least), so I can’t give you my exact thoughts. However, I do like having my own space and no responsibilities, so being married might be a struggle for me. I like the idea of chilling with my invisible husband but then going home to my own bed. That way, I won’t get sick of him.

Basically, the ideal marriage for me would be to see him 3-4 times a week and have at least 3 days off. I’m sure the readers will conclude that I’ll never get married if I hold onto these expectations. It’s okay, I’ve made my peace. 🤗

Originally posted by: Shwetha02

Let me join both of you here..

Thank you so much Swetha⭐️

Yes SwethaSai always likes members' posts ( Thank you Swetha) doesn't say much and keeps it classy when she does

Originally posted by: BettyA1

😆

True... India is expected to take China's place by 2100

"Japan's population is projected to fall from a peak of 128 million in 2017 to less than 53 million by the end of the century.

Italy is expected to see an equally dramatic population crash from 61 million to 28 million over the same timeframe.

They are two of 23 countries - which also include Spain, Portugal, Thailand and South Korea - expected to see their population more than halve.

China, currently the most populous nation in the world, is expected to peak at 1.4 billion in four years' time before nearly halving to 732 million by 2100. India will take its place.

The UK is predicted to peak at 75 million in 2063, and fall to 71 million by 2100."

https://www.bbc.com/news/health-53409521

Just noticed unlike other developed nations, UK 🇬🇧 birthrate is predicted to remain almost the same... It's not dropping by half like the other countries

No doubt due to the influxion of South Asians 😆

Originally posted by: Shwetha02

In our place marriage is like checklist you tick✅.starts with education,job,marriage and then kids...which i myself followed as well👪

People here hardly give much thought to why do get married,what kind of guy want,what is your preferences etc...🧐

Kaun sa place hai yeh? I see some strong headed independent girls around me and supportive parents too.

Mene to dekha gen z shadi hi isliye karti hai taki insta pe reel daal sake. 😆

This is the Checklist that I have seen recently

Sagai

Pre-wedding photoshoot

Wedding shower by friends

Mahendi

Sangeet

Haldi

Baarat / Shadi

Reception

Honeymoon.

One Month anniversary

6 months anniversary

Post wedding photoshoot

1 year anniversary

Valentines gateaway

Pre-baby planning photoshoot

Baby moon

Pregnancy photoshoot

Baby shower

Baby arrival

Baby Photoshoot

Baby 6th Month Birthday

Baby 1 year photoshoot

Baby 1st Birthday celebration

And all the first festivals for baby

Originally posted by: semantic.error

You know that's my genuine issue with relationships. How do people spend 24x7 looking at the same person? You wake up, they are there. Throughout the day, they are there. You go back to sleep, they are there. When they are not there, they want to let you know they are there by text. Is se acha toh betaal hi bitha lo kandhe pe

Yeah I believe that about you actually 😆

Someone asked me to think of a wedding hashtag for their engagement announcement. Maine itna mast itna mast wedding hashtag socha ke unka engagement hi toot gaya. 😭

Originally posted by: Maharani69

Someone asked me to think of a wedding hashtag for their engagement announcement. Maine itna mast itna mast wedding hashtag socha ke unka engagement hi toot gaya. 😭

Originally posted by: Newbird

Exactly 100% same thing happened to me 6 months back😲😆

Yar tum log yeh aunty log ko bahot seriously lete ho. Aise aunties aate jate rehte hai. As long as your parents are on your side, ki farak penda. Thoda political banane ka. Aunty logo ka hath pe rakhne ka. Parents ko hathpe rakhne ka. Fir apni marji ka karne ka. 😆

Shoq hai mujhe kha ke hi pachtana hai mujhe

oh this is easy. Idea to marry is to make a girl real happy. Like she just won a mega lottery.⭐️😆

It's like that Tom Petty song:

You got lucky babe

When I found you😆

You better watch what you say

You better watch what you do to me

Don't get carried away

Girl, if you can do better than me, go

Yeah go

But remember...

Good love is hard to find

Good love is hard to find

You got lucky, babe

You got lucky, babe

When I found you!