Member topic - Why get married at all? - Page 9

Originally posted by: Maharani69

Someone asked me to think of a wedding hashtag for their engagement announcement. Maine itna mast itna mast wedding hashtag socha ke unka engagement hi toot gaya. 😭

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Someone please tag the government and make your proposal legal and mandatory. 😆

Meh, fcuk marriage. Husbands are overrated anyway. Adopt a cat and embrace your crazy cat lady life like me. 😳

India has one of the most pathetic government in the world . kuch nahi ho sakta India mein

I have allergy so can't even have pets but anyway my profession is enough to keep me busy 24*7 so I'm okay being single now until next month my parents might torture again to meet random guys 🐷

Originally posted by: PyaasaMacchhar

Kisi ki jaaydaad hadapne ke liye.

Kya reasoning hai. Very practical, lage raho!

Originally posted by: Newbird

Getting married is the biggest fear of my life I have huge commitment phobia. I'm a person who can't let ANYONE in my personal space it's too scary to think your life is gonna be in the charge of someone else. 😳

Na mereko koi jamta hai, na koi mereko jhel sakta hai. Sab pakk jaate hai 😆

Also I dont believe in love, so that's that.

I am like - Jisko karna hai karo shaadi, bacche, falaana dhimkhana, I'll come and be happy for you.

The moment you start talking about me, tata bye bye no return ☯️

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Kaun sa place hai yeh? I see some strong headed independent girls around me and supportive parents too.

Mene to dekha gen z shadi hi isliye karti hai taki insta pe reel daal sake. 😆

This is the Checklist that I have seen recently

Sagai

Pre-wedding photoshoot

Wedding shower by friends

Mahendi

Sangeet

Haldi

Baarat / Shadi

Reception

Honeymoon.

One Month anniversary

6 months anniversary

Post wedding photoshoot

1 year anniversary

Valentines gateaway

Pre-baby planning photoshoot

Baby moon

Pregnancy photoshoot

Baby shower

Baby arrival

Baby Photoshoot

Baby 6th Month Birthday

Baby 1 year photoshoot

Baby 1st Birthday celebration

And all the first festivals for baby

I'm fed up with 1000s of pics of these celebrations on daily basis in my FB feed or Insta feed as if they are posting these celebration pics to show off and make singles jealous like they are the happiest couple and family living on the earth but God only knows what goes on behind closed doors and how happy they really are😆

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

Kya reasoning hai. Very practical, lage raho!

Na mereko koi jamta hai, na koi mereko jhel sakta hai. Sab pakk jaate hai 😆

Also I dont believe in love, so that's that.

I am like - Jisko karna hai karo shaadi, bacche, falaana dhimkhana, I'll come and be happy for you.

The moment you start talking about me, tata bye bye no return ☯️

@bold

I stopped talking to my married friends. After marriage they became nosy aunties, whenever they talk they ask when will be your marriage.

I don't understand that just cuz they are interested in marriage they expect everyone would have interest and feel weird if you say not feel like getting married🤔

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Yar tum log yeh aunty log ko bahot seriously lete ho. Aise aunties aate jate rehte hai. As long as your parents are on your side, ki farak penda. Thoda political banane ka. Aunty logo ka hath pe rakhne ka. Parents ko hathpe rakhne ka. Fir apni marji ka karne ka. 😆

I forgot to replace "Aunty" with "my Mom" in her post. . My parents are the one who push me towards marriage my parents don't care I'm interested in the marriage or not.. When I talk about divorce rates, my mom was like "being a divorcee in the worst case possible is still better than being unmarried"

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Kaun sa place hai yeh? I see some strong headed independent girls around me and supportive parents too.

Mene to dekha gen z shadi hi isliye karti hai taki insta pe reel daal sake. 😆

This is the Checklist that I have seen recently

Sagai

Pre-wedding photoshoot

Wedding shower by friends

Mahendi

Sangeet

Haldi

Baarat / Shadi

Reception

Honeymoon.

One Month anniversary

6 months anniversary

Post wedding photoshoot

1 year anniversary

Valentines gateaway

Pre-baby planning photoshoot

Baby moon

Pregnancy photoshoot

Baby shower

Baby arrival

Baby Photoshoot

Baby 6th Month Birthday

Baby 1 year photoshoot

Baby 1st Birthday celebration

And all the first festivals for baby

I am from karnataka..i am not generalizing all the folks from this place..seems my post gave impression that i got married on gun point, aisa nahi hai😆...I may miss the old me once in while but this kind life i always wanted ,so i just followed arranged set up..I am like kajol jise bachche bahut pasand hai ,tho shaadi karlo type..😆just like her i did took career break ,then continued working!

I am much more confident and independent now than before..I am someone who likes the responsibilities that follow...occasional hick ups are part and parcel of every relationship though..hard times are eased if you have supporting partner!

Main GEN z se nahi hoon, maine aaj tak ek bhi reel nahi dali..the checklist you have listed are funny😆I have not done this kind of photoshoot either..naam padke hi mein thak gayi..Haash Bhagavan

Originally posted by: Newbird

@bold I stopped talking to my married friends. After marriage they became nosy aunties, whenever they talk they ask when will be your marriage. I don't understand that just cuz they are interested in marriage they expect everyone would have interest and feel weird if you say not feel like getting married🤔

I am actually in touch with my friends who got married early too, some of whom have little babies too now. Nosy aunties nahi bolungi (coz no matter what, some of them are around my age only), concerned sisters maybe. Initially they used to ask, and I just basically was young and did not react very ideally, per say. But yeah, now they mostly just fill me up on stories from their own lives for hours and hours and I listen/react. You just have to continuously lead them on with more and more follow-up questions about their experiences, and the convo never ends up about what's happening in your life. Win-win for all 😆

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

I am actually in touch with my friends who got married early too, some of whom have little babies too now. Nosy aunties nahi bolungi (coz no matter what, some of them are around my age only), concerned sisters maybe. Initially they used to ask, and I just basically was young and did not react very ideally, per say. But yeah, now they mostly just fill me up on stories from their own lives for hours and hours and I listen/react. You just have to continuously lead them on with more and more follow-up questions about their experiences, and the convo never ends up about what's happening in your life. Win-win for all 😆

Originally posted by: Shwetha02

I am from karnataka..i am not generalizing all the folks from this place..seems my post gave impression that i got married on gun point, aisa nahi hai😆...I may miss the old me once in while but this kind life i always wanted ,so i just followed arranged set up..I am like kajol jise bachche bahut pasand hai ,tho shaadi karlo type..😆just like her i did took career break ,then continued working!

I am much more confident and independent now than before..I am someone who likes the responsibilities that follow...occasional hick ups are part and parcel of every relationship though..hard times are eased if you have supporting partner!

Main GEN z se nahi hoon, maine aaj tak ek bhi reel nahi dali..the checklist you have listed are funny😆I have not done this kind of photoshoot either..naam padke hi mein thak gayi..Haash Bhagavan