What was really the fault of Anshuman in Jab We Met? - Page 2

Originally posted by: BettyA1

For some reason ditzy, talkative, scatterbrain heroines are loved in Indian movies (and they’re getting ditzier very decade) even though in real life desis have no patience for such young woman and she would be treated harshly and no, she wouldn’t be lucky like Geet who gets rescued by a kind hearted nun.

That nun was her teacher by the way.

Originally posted by: GumGum

That nun was her teacher by the way.

Originally posted by: BettyA1

For some reason ditzy, talkative, scatterbrain heroines are loved in Indian movies (and they’re getting ditzier very decade) even though in real life desis have no patience for such young woman and she would be treated harshly and no, she wouldn’t be lucky like Geet who gets rescued by a kind hearted nun.

Originally posted by: Charaiveti

I think it was a random nun who saw her and understood she needed some help and showed kindness

No, the nun knew her. Look at the nun's expression here (@2:45). It gives away that after being bashed by Anshuman at his house Geet might have called her teacher (the nun) and she was waiting for the nun to come. The nun looked here there and when she saw Geet she gave a surprised look and went toward Geet. It was definitely not a random nun.

https://youtu.be/WPwTPhFMm3k?t=165

Originally posted by: GumGum

No, the nun knew her. Look at the nun's expression here (@2:45). It gives away that after being bashed by Anshuman at his house Geet might have called her teacher (the nun) and she was waiting for the nun to come. The nun looked here there and when she saw Geet she gave a surprised look and went toward Geet. It was definitely not a random nun.

https://youtu.be/WPwTPhFMm3k?t=165

Originally posted by: Charaiveti

I always took that as the nun actress overreacting🤣

Backstory pe jao. She probably studied in Simla wale convent... there she met, Anshumann fallen in love with him... went to Mumbai for college... out of sight out of mind ho gaya from Anshu's side due to long distance.

Toh she called someone who loved her like a parent during her school days.

Originally posted by: GumGum

Backstory pe jao. She probably studied in Simla wale convent... there she met, Anshumann fallen in love with him... went to Mumbai for college... out of sight out of mind ho gaya from Anshu's side due to long distance.

Toh she called someone who loved her like a parent during her school days.

Anshuman totally gas lighted Geet.

Originally posted by: ffkhan

It was clearly stated in the movie that Anshuman was Geet's boyfriend. It seems like Anshuman was never serious about this relationship, forget about marrying her. But naive small town girl Geet started dreaming of marrying him like any other Asian girl would have, hence Geet is not here to be blamed. Anshuman never rejected her love, but rather refused to accept her as a wife when she insisted to marry him. Their whole relationship status was portrayed pretty well in "Aaoge jab tum o sajna" song. Anshuman should be at fault because he never bothered to know how Geet might had been doing during the entire time when Geet was a runaway and had been living all alone by herself. Even Anshuman himself later on admitted to Geet that he was at fault, if Aditya was wrong to judge Anshuman then Anshuman would have never accepted his mistake. Hence it's absurd to say that Anshuman was nothing but a crush of Geet! I mean where is this coming from??😳😳

@bold, stated by whom? Geet? Who is a crazy girl? Their love story was never shown in the movie so we don't know how they were as a couple. That whether they were really a couple or it was a relationship made-up in Geet's head.

And even if they were in a relationship, Anshuman never promised that he'll marry her. So it's totally on Geet if she was expecting commitment from him when he never committed. Is Geet a kid whom Anshuman should babysit? Running away from home was her own decision, which she made without even telling him. So she should be ready to face the consequences of her decisions as well.

Anshuman told Geet many times when she was in Shimla to go back home, but if she's not going back then what can he do? Why would he accept her if he doesn't love her?

Geet being a small town girl is not an excuse for her being naive and a complete idiot. If she fell in love with a guy who is outside her community, then she should be mature enough to face the consequences for it. But she was an immature girl who lived in her la la land.

Anshuman felt guilty for Geet's condition but there wasn't really any fault of him even if he considers himself at fault.

Originally posted by: Muskie

Anshuman was totally not at fault

Geet and Anshuman were in a relationship where the former was more serious (one man woman), she even ran away from her own wedding and baaammm without any calls, msg/information she comes in front of him with his whole family watching with the decision of getting married. He got shocked/surprised/scared as any of the JERK boyfriends who MAY promise about the sun and the moon and then step back just when they are needed. I remember the kismat song where the girl too runs away and the boy doesn't accept her and gets married- it's the same scenario here👍🏼

@ harly_quinn it's really great that you always judge the characters with the third perspective👏 I really want to know your views about genelia's character aditi (meow) from jaane tu ya jaane na😳

Thank you.😊

It's been a long time I haven't watched Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na, so don't remember anything except the main story to pick apart anything about Aditi's character if you are expecting me to do that.😆