Originally posted by: Mrignaini
If Madhuri's character could end up with Anil's in Pukar then meh I don't see much outrage over this.
I don't remember much of this movie probably cos I was 5 and was barred from watching it. All that sticks out is my obsession with "tut gayi tut gayi" and SRK-Juhi as a pair.
Either way, it's no brilliant piece of writing nor do the characters have enough depth to lend itself to serious discussion.
And please don't quote me on this, for I'm not one to promote "the girl can change the guy" thinking, my knowledge of the film remains restricted to the tidbits I watched through the keyhole and not it's entirety.
In Pukar the enemy misled Madhuri that if she wants her love she has to get secrets from anil kapoor. Madhuri had no idea what those secrets were or that they can go against anil and he declared a traitor etc. Also she saves many people life risking her life after getting to know her error and intention of villan. Madhuri did crime in innocence and corrected it after realizng her mistake.
You cannot compare madhuri character to SRK in darr. Darr is a mans psycho obsession with a woman to such extent he tries to kill her husband sunny deol few times. He also constantly stalks and follows juhi every where. If Sunny deol was not there may be Juhis character would have met nirbhaya or chappak laxmi fate. Because juhi hated SRK and did noot love hm so once she rejects him in anger and ego hurt what would SRK do to Juhi? anyones guess. Thank God in movie Sunny was there to save her from that fate. In real life no such hero will be there and women suffer.
I would say SRK could be like Madhuri only if he had left Juhi alone after he knows shes married and not attack her husband etc and stalk her constantly. If you unknowingly do error or crime we can forgive but knowingly troubling others is wrong and criminal. If a girl says no its a NOOO.
People think this is mental illness,, not really. Why in western country men do not throw acid on rejected women? Why only india men will throw acid? Also why men stand in road corners passing comments on women in public. Can you do that in US?UK? not really. Thats because of the patriachial way boys are raised the cannot take rejection in life that too from second hand women. In india men are always told you are superior to a woman be it sister, wife, GF so they cannot reject you etc. Its like insult if woman rejects proposal. So to show they are manly and they thought lesson to girl who refused them they throw acid and sexual abuse etc. In US/Uk also men may think same but the laws are so strict hardly anyone dare attack women who reject them with acid.
So many people have no mother or father do they behave like Rahul, many have parents but those parents never care for them do they act like Rahul not really. So lets not blame poor rahul not having mother and father being busy for his behaviour. In todays world parents work 10-12 hours are never there for kids not all act psycho like Rahul. Lets stop finding reasons to approve rahuls behaviour.
Edited by myviewprem - 5 years ago
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