IDK. I haven't heard such things itna explicitly from anyone in my jaan pehchaan but I know of many men and women from wordmouth who do that. Men see a woman and claim what a s**t she must be just by her appearence. Same goes for people who randomly throw the word- bihari, nigger, just like that. I would be honest though- I do use words like chomu and chiya when I see some men. Guilty of that. I try not to judge, might be succesful one day im acheiveing that. I see men also saying things like Saali Despo, easy catch by seeing anyone's DP.
It's actually a very innate human flaw.
As for Yateem- I think it was used in reference to Gareeb too. Obviously a very insensitive reference.
Edited by -BebaakBegum- - 7 years ago
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