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My Love Letter To Sridevi's Fans
10 MINUTES AGO PUBLIC
I debated with myself whether I should put this out because of some names mentioned but i strongly felt SRIDEVI belongs to her fans more than anyone else and they deserve to know the truth
MY LOVE LETTER TO SRIDEVI'S FANS
Ram Gopal Varma
YES like millions of you,I too believed that she was the most beautiful and desirable woman ever and we all know that she was the biggest super star of the country and ruled the silver screen as a main heroine for more than 20 years
But that's just a part of the story. However shocked and sad I feel about Sridevi's death, it's finally once again a rude reminder about how unpredictable, cruel,fragile and mysterious that both life and death are.
After her death ,more than you all there is definitely much more for me to say than what most people are saying now about,how beautiful she was, what a great actress she was, how her death affected them, " RIP"s etc etc
That's because I had an opportunity to be close to her in the course of my two Films with her Kshanakshanam and Govinda Govinda. Sridevi's life is a classic case of how a celebrity's persons actual life is completely different from how the rest of the outside world perceives it.
For many, Sridevi's life was perfect . Beautiful face, great talent, seemingly stable family with two beautiful daughters. From outside everything looked so enviable and desirable... But was Sridevi a very happy person and did she lead a very happy life?
I know her life from the time I met her . I saw with my own eyes how her life was like a bird in the sky till her father's death and then became like a bird in a cage due to her overprotective mother
In those days actors used to be only paid in mostly black money and due to fear of tax raids her father used to trust friends and relatives and everyone of them betrayed her the moment her father died. Coupled with this the ignorant mother made many wrong investments in litigated properties and all those mistakes combined made her almost penny less by the time Boney came into her life
He himself was in huge debts and all he could afford was to give her a shoulder to cry on
Her mother became a mental patient because of a wrong surgery on her brain in USA and somewhere along the way her younger sister Srilatha eloped and got married to their neighbours son. The mother before dying put all properties in sridevis name but her sister put a case on Sridevi claiming that her mother was insane and not in her senses when she signed the will
So in effect the woman desired by millions in the world was all alone and almost penny less in the world except for one Boney
Boney s mother portrayed her as a home breaker and publically punched her in the stomach in a five star hotel lobby for what she did to Boney's first wife Mona
In this entire period except for the short glimmer of English vinglish Sridevi has been pretty much an extremely unhappy woman. The uncertainty of the future,the ugly turns and twists in her private life left deep scars in the super stars sensitive mind and there after she was never at peace.
She went through so much in her life and due to her early career entry as a child artiste,life never gave her time to grow up at a normal pace. More than the external peace, her internal mental state was of a high degree of concern and this forced her to look at her own self .
She was the most beautiful woman for so many people. But did she think she was beautiful ? Yes she did ,but every actresses nightmare is age and she was no exception. For years she was doing ocassional cosmetic surgeries the effects of which can be clearly seen
She always came across as a little uptight but that's because she built a psychological wall around her as she was scared of anybody to really see what's going on within her. She was panicky about anybody knowing what her insecurities were.
Not because of her fault, but because she was thrust with fame from a very young age it never gave her a chance to be independant and be what she could really be and what she really wanted to be
She had to put on the make up and be somebody else not just infront of the camera,but also to put a psychological make up to hide her real self behind the camera.
She was being constantly directed by the motives of her parents,her relatives, her husband and to an extent even her own children .. She was scared whether her daughters would be accepted or not like most star parents do
Sridevi is actually a child trapped in a woman's body ..she is naive as a person, but suspicious because of her bitter experiences which is not a very good combination . Keeping the speculations on her death aside I generally don't say " Rest In Peace" after people die, but in her case I want to really say this because I very strongly believe that she would finally and truly rest in peace now for the first time in her life because she died
From my personal experience with her, the only time I ever saw her in peace was in front of the camera that too only between Action and Cut ..That's because she could cut off the harsh reality and escape into her own fantasy world
That's why now I am sure she will be at peace forever because she's finally far far away from what gave her and was giving her so much pain
RIP Sridevi, but I assure u that the world won't rest in peace for doing this to you
We the fans and your near ones have given you only suffering by making you slog in every which way ever since you were a child but you gave us only joy and happiness. Yes it's not a fair deal but it's too late to do anything now .
I now have visions of you flying like a free bird across heavenly land scapes with true peace and happiness in your eyes.
I don't believe in reincarnation but I truly want to believe in it now because we fans in our next birth deserve to experience you once again and this time we will try our best to make amendments and make ourselves worthy enough to deserve you
Please give us that one chance Sridevi because we all truly love you
I can go on writing like this but I can't stop my tears any more... RGV
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A TRUE LEGEND

LOVED HER SO MUCH...

for me she will be the ORIGINAL ACTRESS who made me LAUGH

[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AfbhjCXRLXE[/YOUTUBE]
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Its hard to believe she is no more. May her soul rest in peace. 💔
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A star is gone


There is a Sridevi-sized hole in the industry because there does not exist another actor, male or female, who can combine innocence with comedy, grace with fire, romance and dance, the way she could.

By: Editorial | Updated: February 27, 2018 8:58 am


A term often used for performers and entertainers is "star power. Most of the time, it is a heady mix of talent, charisma, and the most important component, relatability. This last element is what truly binds an audience to a performer through the years. The star must be accessible to their adoring public, but only up to a point the rest must be shrouded in a mystique of their choosing. Sridevi, who died on Sunday, possessed such star power, that in the Seventies in Bollywood, it mattered to nobody that she did not speak a word of Hindi. They were in her thrall
anyway.

In her 35-year-long career in Indian cinema, Sridevi acted in 300 films an astounding body of work. She was known to be a consummate professional from her very first film at the age of four, and by the time she was 19, she was already a star in the south, where she acted in Tamil, Telugu, Malayalam and Kannada films she made them her own, belonged to them all. After her first Bollywood hit, Himmatwala (1983), the tabloids cruelly nicknamed her "Thunder Thighs, but that did not make Sridevi and her body type any less desirable to her Hindi-speaking audience.

There is a Sridevi-sized hole in the industry because there does not exist another actor, male or female, who can combine innocence with comedy, grace with fire, romance and dance, the way she could. She was the "hero in every film, she got the best lines; and so, she demanded a fair price, firmly making cracks in the glass ceiling in a way nobody else before her had done. In her second innings, Sridevi was showing us that she still had more tricks in her bag. Gone was the chirpy girl-woman of the Nineties, and in her two most recent outings, English Vinglish (2012) and last year's Mom, Sridevi made the most of silence in her portrayal of women her age; she played them with tenderness and steel in equal measure.

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Tribute: Sridevi


Songs and scenes, moments and motifs from her films that we'll keep going back to, just for Sridevi

Feb 27, 2018 00:00 IST

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Sadma: The film that you walked out of feeling a pain in places so deep you never knew existed. Even in her nonchalance, Sridevi was brilliant in that final scene, but it belonged to Kamal Haasan. As a strong-minded independent girl rendered a child-woman after an accident, Sridevi's Reshmi made us laugh and cry. Our pick is the scene where Somu (Kamal Haasan) gets Sridevi's Reshmi a red sari, drapes it around himself to show her how it's done and then tells her to do it. She comes back part gleeful, part shy and realises it's all wrong, running to him and plonking herself on his lap and laughing the loudest and most unbridled laugh ever. A moment of pure innocence.


Mr India: The Charlie Chaplin sequence is one of the best tributes ever to the man and Sridevi is brilliant in every second of that nine-minute scene. From poking the villain Karga ("Good name, she giggles) in the rib with her stick to cleaning her ear with the end of a dart before aiming it at the board, from breaking into a jig even when she's being chased by the villain's henchman to the delight on her face when she senses a shower of beer "pouring out of her ear after taking a swig. "Don't know a single actor in the world that could have pulled this scene off like she did, Mr India director Shekhar Kapur had tweeted on Monday. It's a scene we would keep rewinding to, sometimes even more than "Mogambo khush hua.


Chandni: The Yash Chopra film that introduced us to chiffon saris and Switzerland... and made us fall in love with her Chandni. There's so much of Chandni to love, so what do we pick? The one where she gets high on cognac, to give us a delightful "drunk scene, or that moment when she, a vision in yellow, dances in the rain as Lagi aaj saawan ki phir woh jhadi hai plays out. Or that three-minute dance to instrumental music with the verdant Swiss mountains in the backdrop. And that moment when Chandni meets Rohit (Rishi Kapoor) after months and realises he can walk again. Not a word is spoken, but with eyes like that, do you need words?


ChaalBaaz: She was a shape shifter, and not just in Nagina. In ChaalBaaz, she made Manju and Anju two distinct characters (adding her own spin to this Seeta-Geeta tribute) and we have many memorable moments to pick. The "Main madira nahin peeti scene involving Anju and Jaggu (Rajinikanth) is a gem, and we also love the sequence where Manju, threatening the evil Amba (Rohini Hattangadi) with a knife to her throat, says, "Jaani yeh chaaku hai... lag jaaye toh khoon nikal aata hai. And then goes all out with the bronzer and blusher, lipstick and eyeshadow, in that famous "make-up scene that must have made even Hattangadi laugh out loud. #PureGold


Lamhe: This Yash Chopra romance was a Sridevi film, with or without her "Kunwarji Anil Kapoor. The last scene is special when Kunwarji tells Sri's Pooja he loves her and her face lights up but we pick the moment when Pooja, after discovering mother Pallavi's sketches in Kunwarji's drawer, breaks into a jig of joy, thinking it's her. It's a beautiful moment, with the actor conveying both childlike glee and the happiness of a woman in love. And how can we ever forget her in the 10-minute-long Antakshari' sequence, culminating in the uninhibited Ramaiya vastavaiya moves?


English Vinglish: She came back after a hiatus of 15 years and gave us a film we will rewatch for the next 15. The last speech at the wedding where Sridevi's Shashi smilingly breaks into English to gently lecture her family on love and marriage is the scene we'd go back to again and again. But we also love the one where Shashi, in her English class, first stumbles on the meaning of the word "entrepreneur. Once dismissed as just a homemaker who makes laddoos as a hobby, Shashi gets a new identity and feels important. Yes, those eyes again. Or "Two drops of coffee in a cloud of milk.

Edited by raj80 - 7 years ago
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Boy ! Tell ya,...What an amazing persona ! I am in total amazement,..

I never digged that much styuff andc material on this mysterious lady today, ever before..

The more I read the other star's experiences and say' about her,.. more it amazes me,...

Just read Rishis, Masand, Hema's , Smriti's , Juhi's Madhuri's, and few others say and their first-meet experiences on Sridevi,... more amazing and mysterious , this lady has now found to me,...

I concluded the following things about her,...which was common in all's say,...

She was very shy and not much speaking with every one, kinda silent person, very humble, quiet, calm, down to earth and still her calmness/quietness was often misunderstood as arrogance by many,...

Initially she did not know Hindi or English and hence she was rather more quiet, little calm, shy and also some level of inferiority complex too somewhere,..

This lady was only made for the Movies, screen and camera, ... a god given gift, the almighty had perhaps sent only for silver-screen,..,... as dance styles , interest, heritage and those steps were in her vein, and blood-dna by birth,...and in that area she was totally unbeatable,.. unmatchable,...

Sridevi means not one person, There were two persons in her,... 1. On-screen and 2. Off-screen and these two persons were quite contradictorily opposite to each other,...

When camera and light is ON, she can change the mood, eyes, motto, spirit, facial expression, and act and whole stratosphere ( from comedy to tragedy ), waves, in any which direction she wanted,...

At the Light Turned off, again the 2nd person will come front, which was, quiet, calm and shy... Also inferiority complex somewhere ( beginning days )

Incredible double persona,.. I never saw or heard before,...

Juhi, Madhuri, Hema, Yash , Rishi and everyone's experiences about Sridevi remains just amazingly mysterious,...

I saw many videos where Bonny was force-fittedly exciting her for a public kiss/hug/ naughty-goings and she always resisted those being shy, and also respectful towards public,... For no honky-ponky in open,... and this was also in her last video, a day before she died,..

My guess is, somewhere for her, it must also hav eremaine ddifficult to set and settle in Kapoor ( North Indian family ) due to her's too much " south " belonging nature, food, languages, arora, personalty and shyness,..

It seemed like those naatya-mudras of bharat-natyum, kuchi-pudi, Nataraj, and all other southie dances that we saw in Himatwaala, Tohfa, Chandni, Lamhein was right in her blood-DNA,... coz her parents and fore-fathers were also into those interst and business for generations, so star daughters like Karishma, Kareena, Twinkle and such had no class even, to come a 0.1inch close to her , to beat , match or meet to that level,..

It's totally amazing that how fast she catched up with Hindi and Englsih so well, in a short time,...!!

I have no wonder,... when I see today crying like hell,... Kamal, Bonny , RGV and such people for her,... I truly have not even an ounce of surprise,... It seems RGV since having born in the same caste and community was dieing like Hell for her,..

Here she reveals her shy, quiet and less speaking nature well,...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VSS3CevVhCA

Rishi says it all about her,..

http://www.snehasallapam.com/4112436-post25954.html

Raja Sen says it all,..

http://www.snehasallapam.com/4112441-post25956.html

Smriti says it all here

http://www.snehasallapam.com/4112439-post25955.html

Yash ji says all about her...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXsP286mYik

Hema speaks on her,..

http://www.snehasallapam.com/4112428-post25948.html

Madhuri and Juhi on Sridevi

http://asridevi.blogspot.com/2014/04/madhuri-dixit-and-juhi-chawla-discuss.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yqWIgXEm-NI

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My Sridevi Experience A Singular Sensation

We will never know how she did what she did. But Sridevi changed the narrative for women in Hindi cinema

BY ANUPAMA CHOPRA


I first saw Sridevi at the mahurat of Chandni. It was the late 1980s and mahurats were still standard practice in Bollywood. A-list films were announced with fancy functions where a ceremonial shot was taken. We were at the poolside of Mumbai's Centaur hotel. Sridevi, a vision in a white sari, was on stage with co-stars Rishi Kapoor and Vinod Khanna. At one point, roses were showered on her like they are in the film. I remember her towering presence and her outsized stardom. She was glittering and seemed so much bigger than the heroes flanking her.

My mother Kamna Chandra had written the original story for Chandni. So I got to visit the sets and watch Yash Chopra work. I had little sense then of what an amazing opportunity this was. I was mostly interested in staring at Sridevi who had become the Chopra fantasy goddess resplendent in chiffons and white churidars. In some scenes, even the bangles were white. When the cameras were off, Sridevi said little. But when they were on, some sort of alchemy occurred and she was utterly transformed, becoming Chandni, a small-town girl whose fairy tale love story derails after her fiance is paralyzed in a helicopter crash.

In my mother's original story, Chandni marries Rishi Kapoor's character Rohit. They have a son. But post-crash Rohit becomes insecure. His family becomes abusive and finally Chandni walks out on her husband and young son. She finds a career and love again with Lalit, played by Vinod Khanna. The last scene had her son, now a teenager, coming with a bouquet of flowers to his mother's wedding because he understands her reasons for leaving and supports her quest for happiness.

In my mother's original story, Chandni marries Rishi Kapoor's character Rohit. They have a son. But post-crash Rohit becomes insecure.

Yashi ji loved the story but perhaps he felt it was too ahead of its times. And so after many discussions, the narrative became tamer Chandni and Rohit are engaged, not married and eventually they are reunited at the end. The film also became impossibly glossy and beautiful. It had a few loopholes in logic especially that bit where Rohit and Lalit meet abroad and sing a song about the woman each loves, not knowing that they are both singing about the same woman.

But Sridevi's luminous beauty and unforgettable performance propelled Chandni. Back then, you couldn't go to a wedding without hearing mere haathon mein nau nau choodiyan hain' blaring in the background. And white churidars became all the rage. The blockbuster success of Chandni rejuvenated Yash ji, who was reeling from a spate of flops through the 1980s. It enabled him to take the narrative risk of Lamhe, the complex relationship between a man, an older woman who dies and her daughter. Even Sridevi's astounding performance couldn't make audiences accept the love triangle. The flop broke Yash ji's heart but it didn't hobble Sridevi. She was unstoppable.

In magazine articles, Sridevi was often called the female Amitabh Bachchan'. It was the ultimate compliment for a Hindi film heroine.

In magazine articles, Sridevi was often called the female Amitabh Bachchan'. It was the ultimate compliment for a Hindi film heroine. I remember meeting her again at a photo-shoot for Movie magazine. It was my first job as a film journalist. Once again, we were at the Centaur, shooting her and Aamir Khan together for the cover. I remember whispering something to my editor Dinesh Raheja about how a certain pose or angle would look better. She noticed our interaction. She asked exactly what was wanted and then proceeded to deliver. I was gobsmacked. This, I concluded, is what stardom looks like!

More than twenty years later, I was still interviewing her for English Vinglish and more recently, Mom. She was still painfully shy. She answered questions in clipped, diplomatic sentences that offered little insight into how she pulled off all those magical performances. There was a wall that was impossible to penetrate.

We will never know how she did what she did. But Sridevi changed the narrative for women in Hindi cinema. She was a singular sensation.

Salute and adieu.

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very, very shocking and sad... Rest In Peace #RIPSriDevi a real heroine even in death
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In Praise of Sridevi's Artifice
February 27, 2018
By Nisha Susan




The 1975 movie Julie begins as a tribute to the overheated and fecund. Julie, played by a ripe and coy Lakshmi, is dying to sleep with her best friend's brother Shashi and eventually does. One night in her bed at home, she twists, writhes and moans Oh Shashi.' And from the darkness comes an annoyed and shrill What man!' from younger sister Irene. 12-year-old Sridevi making her Bollywood debut started as she meant to go along, constantly at odds with the boring and the boringly sincere.

Sridevi made us fall in love with the texture of artifice. Sequins, feathers, glitter. Masks. Transparent umbrellas. Wet saris. Snake dances and enormous headgear. Even her high, improbable voice was deliciously unstable, an auditory souffl and a constant joke about femininity. It wasn't accidental that Sridevi's roles so often involved double roles and subterfuge the twins Anju and Manju in Chaalbaaz, the mother and daughter roles of Lamhe and Khuda Gawah, the opening sequence as an Afghan man in Khuda Gawah, a whole costume store in Roop ki Rani Choron Ka Raja. So much so that the ostentatiously white and simple' clothes she wore in Chandni seem to wink their fancy dress quality disrupting the alpine Yash Chopra imagination.

The feminist potential of movies and female actors obviously lies beyond neatly emancipatory mein meri astitiv ko doondhni ja rahi hoon endings. Sridevi gave us, unlike any female actor I can think of, the emancipation of play. The dethroning of the serious, as Susan Sontag defined the nature of camp, existed in every sequin, every muscle of her incredibly mobile face, every flutter of those gol-gol eyes. For every girl schooling herself with teeth gritted to sundar-cum-susheel, Sridevi was jailbreak, a wobbly leap over the wall. You could teach Sridevi's Anju Bharatanatyam but she might just tandav away from both home and balma.

To me, her closest cinematic ancestor always seemed to be Shammi Kapoor, in his all dancing, all singing, many costume change glory. And much like my late uncle Modi wanted to grow up to be either Shammi Kapoor or Shammi Kapoor's driver, I wanted to grow up to be either Sridevi or one of Sridevi's costumes.

Years later when I saw Sridevi in Gauri Shinde's English Vinglish I was fascinated by the disappearance of the mobility, of her be-stilled face. She was playing a woman coincidentally called Shashi, a middle-aged woman newly in America and shocked that she was supposed to think less of herself because she didn't speak English. Back then I wondered if "English Vinglish is the dystopic sequel about the distorted afterlives of Anju, Manju and all the other girls we so admired in school.

In school, a smart friend told me that she had liked Tezaab so much because Anil Kapoor had done every crazy, violent thing he did in the movie for Madhuri Dixit. My school friend had been moved by the lung-filling idea of Madhuri inspiring so much sab kuch jala do in a man. But any sense of epic romance in Tezaab had passed me by. It hadn't occurred to me at all. My memory of Tezaab goes straight from the numerical Madhuri to the surprisingly effective Chunkey Pandey lullaby. But in the department of Filmi Women Who Change the Destiny of Filmi Men I was more struck by the final frames of Chaalbaaz,where Sunny Deol and Rajinikanth both look bedazzled by their respective versions of Sridevi. They looked grateful and uncertain about how they had gotten so lucky. As grateful and uncertain as we feel today.

In school I read Filmfare and Stardust and Cineblitz and Nana, magazines that said things that would raise the hair of anybody used to today's carefully processed celebrity pablum. In throwaway paragraphs they made homoerotic implications about Anil Kapoor and Jackie Shroff and moved on blithely to the next snippet garnered, they assured us, from behind a potted plant. One of those magazines wrote that Sridevi was inclined to wear revealing' clothes when she felt overweight and cover up when she was feeling thin. This was reported bitchily as if it was pathetic, but to my pre-teen self this promise of billowing fat seemed like a wonderful sleight of hand by someone who dressed like the magician's assistant but was actually the magician.

And that feeling is what I remembered when I watched English Vinglish and concluded back then that "like a feathered hat, like a sequined headdress, Sridevi was making her stillness work to tell us that we have no idea what's happening behind the blank faces of the sweet, trembling-voiced Shashis we think we know. Oh Shashi. What, man!

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