this is just wrong and its gonna effect the child later on. Sadly in our desi culture this is acceptable and much more. I myself have been abused like mish with rod and whatnot. The thing is it wasn't just at home, it was also at school. be it teachers, PT Sir, they did the same like its their baap ki jaagir.
There was this one professor, now looking back I see he had some issues, so one day he just comes in our class, tells me to stand up and then gives me 5 zor ke jaapad for no reason and I mean literally no reason and then leaves 😕
at home with belt, rod and many times the reason wasn't even apparent. One time I remember my big bro asked a question, I gave the rite answer and he still slapped me so looking back I'm like if you're gonna slap a kid even when he gives right answer then what will go in his head? like sahi jawab doon toh bhi padegi, galat doon toh bhi, koi farak toh padta nahin.
that's only on physical level, forge the emotional and what they do on psychological level. criticizing, condemning, making you feel like shit and for what?
point is none of this helps the child, it only effects them in a very bad way. I'm still trying to undo the damage they did
but its how they were raised so whatever conditioning they got, they give it out, its like they can't do any better and so it continues 🥱
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