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Posted: 8 years ago
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My whole childhood is beAten by teachers in school and tuition. I feel sorry for the kid. Reminds me my days of school, I didn't understand an iota of thing I was reading but forced to byheart the sentences...how much I can remember with the kind of confidence and support I had. I hate my childhood life.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What is the need of posting this video at net???
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What a f**king bitch?? I am sorry.. I've never called a woman in that derogatory terms.. but I am so pissed off

To people saying this is ok!!! Just because we went through this shit.. that doesn't mean other kids should go through it as well.. I was beaten and abused as a kid growing up.. I may have issues because of it.. every minute of this reminded me of that!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Betty---


Bold - So sorry to hear that!

I've heard about some parents making a "mark" on their insolent kids' skin with hot iron rod to teach them a lesson... Amd it works, they say



Yeah, burning hands in hot water tap too, having cigars put out on you getting kicked in the balls for not standing up to show respect when he would enter the living room, getting kicked down the staircase for not moving out of his way and passing out, don't wanna go into details with me it started since I was 7 up until the time i got older and big enough to defend myself I had to protect my sister, was too small to protect my Mother. But he got his karma when i gave it back. Was such a huge release felt so good

You begin to actually think and believe that you are worthless to everybody and you deserve to be treated like shit, you keep second guessing when other people are nice to you if a girl wants something serious more than a friendship you automatically begin to get suspicious thinking "Nah this can't be real what is her real motive, now what is she really after" becoz you are programmed to think ke nahi am not worthy of all this!. But when you grow older and realize that it wasn't "disciplining" it was just him getting a sick thrill out of it picking on his own child then you realize that its him who is the real bas***d and not yourself. I guess i was strong enough to refuse to let it take over me completely, was v hard but i eventually came to terms with it you realize you have big responsibilites and that there are many who have been through worse and the mind is so powerful it can overcome anything no matter how deep the scar is but yes it isn't easy at all initially. Others unfortunately are not strong enough and either take to drugs or alcohol or have serious psychological issues.
Edited by cory - 8 years ago
Posted: 8 years ago
#65
Wow i am surprised to read some comments here😕 Because tbh my mother have only slapped me till now wo bhi bachpan mai when i don't use to study😆 Other than that no beating and stuff happened with me.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cory


Yeah, burning hands in hot water tap too, having cigars put out on you getting kicked in the balls for not standing up to show respect when he would enter the living room, getting kicked down the staircase for not moving out of his way and passing out, don't wanna go into details with me it started since I was 7 up until the time i got older and big enough to defend myself I had to protect my sister, was too small to protect my Mother. But he got his karma when i gave it back. Was such a huge release felt so good

You begin to actually think and believe that you are worthless to everybody and you deserve to be treated like shit, you keep second guessing when other people are nice to you if a girl wants something serious more than a friendship you automatically begin to get suspicious thinking "Nah this can't be real what is her real motive, now what is she really after" becoz you are programmed to think ke nahi am not worthy of all this!. But when you grow older and realize that it wasn't "disciplining" it was just him getting a sick thrill out of it picking on his own child then you realize that its him who is the real bas***d and not yourself. I guess i was strong enough to refuse to let it take over me completely, was v hard but i eventually came to terms with it you realize you have big responsibilites and that there are many who have been through worse and the mind is so powerful it can overcome anything no matter how deep the scar is but yes it isn't easy at all initially. Others unfortunately are not strong enough and either take to drugs or alcohol or have serious psychological issues.



Bold - 👍🏼

You know, all the cliches are true... Anger, hatred, bitterness (particularly towards one's parents) are like acid, they corrode the person holding it...

Not dwelling on it, if possible forgiving (easier said than done) helps with healing
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: adventurousman

this is just wrong and its gonna effect the child later on. Sadly in our desi culture this is acceptable and much more. I myself have been abused like mish with rod and whatnot. The thing is it wasn't just at home, it was also at school. be it teachers, PT Sir, they did the same like its their baap ki jaagir.

There was this one professor, now looking back I see he had some issues, so one day he just comes in our class, tells me to stand up and then gives me 5 zor ke jaapad for no reason and I mean literally no reason and then leaves 😕

at home with belt, rod and many times the reason wasn't even apparent. One time I remember my big bro asked a question, I gave the rite answer and he still slapped me so looking back I'm like if you're gonna slap a kid even when he gives right answer then what will go in his head? like sahi jawab doon toh bhi padegi, galat doon toh bhi, koi farak toh padta nahin.

that's only on physical level, forge the emotional and what they do on psychological level. criticizing, condemning, making you feel like shit and for what?

point is none of this helps the child, it only effects them in a very bad way. I'm still trying to undo the damage they did

but its how they were raised so whatever conditioning they got, they give it out, its like they can't do any better and so it continues 🥱




Bold - Teachers get away with way too much in our country 😲
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The comments on this thread is more disturbing to read than watching the video.
Seriously, the kid looks shit-scared of her mother. It was plain torture.
I agree with the comment which says that these incidents leave a mental scar in the minds of the kids permanently. No wonder alot of people end up being very aggressive in their lives. People lose their confidence because of child abuse.
Tbh, alot of Indian parents don't know how to raise kids. They treat their kids like dictators and not parents. Beating the kids and making them scared is the most easy way out to handle them. But a scared kid will only obey you till he's a kid. Once he grows up, he'll become bitter and hate you.
Showing strictness and beating is required when necessary, but it shouldn't be the solution of everything.
Easier said than done I know, but then parenting was never an easy job and people should know that before having kids.

And just because it happened to us doesn't makes it right. This is wrong and should be stopped.

But well, my parents were never so much strict on me. My dad never beated me, and my mom did that only few countable times when she was really pissed-off. They didn't even scolded me that much. Don't know whether it was good or bad, seemed like they gave me way too much of freedom,LOL.
I realized that because now my brother who is 9 years old is very naughty and enjoys the same freedom. I'm actually the most strict person to him in the family,lolz...and whenever I scold or shout at my brother for doing something stupid, I get called out by my parents to not be so harsh on him. And I'm like, what the hell?? You both are spoiling him. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sri-R

My whole childhood is beAten by teachers in school and tuition. I feel sorry for the kid. Reminds me my days of school, I didn't understand an iota of thing I was reading but forced to byheart the sentences...how much I can remember with the kind of confidence and support I had. I hate my childhood life.

Hope you are happy and confident now🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Betty---




Bold - Teachers get away with way too much in our country 😲


I had a horrible chemistry teacher.. Walia was her surname.. She used to hit me without any reason.. She used to never hit anyone else in the class.. I wasn't a dunce.. I have always been a mediocre student.. Don't know why she would hit a student who worked hard and scored average marks.

In a lab session, where an experiment required the test tube to be tilted, I asked her if the angle was right.. She slapped me and said 'this girl never goes to kitchen'... Whether I go to the kitchen or not shouldn't be that bitch' s concern.. Her job was to teach chemistry.. She should have done it and got lost.

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