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@ShadowKisses

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Posted: 8 years ago

#131

Originally posted by: NightReader
It is like ultimate paradox. Maybe people around these cleavages should behave as if nothing out of the ordinary is happening. Like ya we saw your dress,,,now let's move on. Is that what we need to be at?

Would it really be so difficult or strange to act in this manner? For instance, with Sonam, people could have simply left it at her outfit not being tasteful instead of trying to scrutinize her reasoning behind wearing it, deeming it an affront to 'Indian culture', talking of what defines empowerment for her and for other women, what "decent"/"respectful" women should wear, etc.

What is the need for this kind of moral judgment? Why do people who dress in a more 'covered up' or 'eastern' way feel okay in claiming a moral high ground over those who don't ascribe to the same thinking? I find that way sillier than the asset flaunting that goes on, to be honest.

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@zehreeli.kheer

Trailblazer

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Posted: 8 years ago

#132

^^ i am yet to make a single comment about her character though😆

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Mallika-E-Bhais

@Mallika-E-Bhais

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#133

ShadowKisses: Exactly what I said in another thread!! And the funny thing is, I am an Eastern/traditional dressed woman most times yet one mention of what is appropriate for women to wear or not, and I am. Out. Of. There.

Edited by Mallika-E-Bhais - 8 years ago

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@Ranbirrocks

Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

#134

I am still undecided on this debate !!

I am all for freedom of women and their choice but not sure about how much they should expose.

My pure feminist heart says - Let them bare it all

My brain says - Be careful about how much you expose .

I don't know where I am on this argument. Probably on fence.

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Liz Darcy

@NightReader

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Posted: 8 years ago

#135

Originally posted by: ShadowKisses

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Would it really be so difficult or strange to act in this manner? For instance, with Sonam, people could have simply left it at her outfit not being tasteful instead of trying to scrutinize her reasoning behind wearing it, deeming it an affront to 'Indian culture', talking of what defines empowerment for her and for other women, what "decent"/"respectful" women should wear, etc.

What is the need for this kind of moral judgment? Why do people who dress in a more 'covered up' or 'eastern' way feel okay in claiming a moral high ground over those who don't ascribe to the same thinking? I find that way sillier than the asset flaunting that goes on, to be honest.</font>

No. It is not difficult to be at that state. Forget about people on IF. We are all on free time making all sorts of arguments. There is such a thing as place and time. Indians unfortunately live in pockets of civilization. There are many borders between people there. So when something like this exposing boobs happen in public, it will invite lot of talk. Because not everybody in India is at that level of understanding fashion, sophistication, etc. they will take it in different forms and talk about it. And some talk is distasteful. That's all.

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CherHorowitz

@TotalBetty

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#136

Originally posted by: Ranbirrocks
I am still undecided on this debate !!
I am all for freedom of women and their choice but not sure about how much they should expose.

My pure feminist heart says - Let them bare it all
My brain says - Be careful about how much you expose .

I don't know where I am on this argument. Probably on fence.

Where are you on Men's fashion?

And I am only talking about Award shows, parties etc. you know formal wear 😊

Edit: What I mean is are you okay with men baring it (it means whatever 😆) for fashion

Edited by ---Betty--- - 8 years ago