Tricky to be friends with an ex: Shahid - Page 8

Yes, exactly they can. And it doesn't have to cheating. Coming to that, so where or what's the proof that Kareena cheated on Shahid?

I have been in two serious relationships in my life (one ended in a break up). I live in the same city as the ex and work in the same field but never meet him. I would be friendly if I did but wouldn't like to run into him. Absolutely nothing horrible happened between us other than a relationship we both thought might be "the one" not working out. Nobody cheated, nobody was abusive or disrespectful. It just wasn't right. Still there is awkwardness because we did not both decide at the exact same moment it wasn't right. The one who decides to end it it (even if it is 100% correct decision) can always be made to look and feel guilty and the other one can always be "the victim." I can only imagine how much more awkward it would be if everyone knew about it, had an opinion about it, and were judging how cordial we seemed if we did run into each other.

lol I always felt it was Shahid who ignored bebo in interviews. If you watch them on KWK..he didn't seem like he wanted to be there..while bebo was so happy and excited for both of them.

Originally posted by: briahna

Thnx lensa

Remember there was an interview where shahid said, how kareena kept calling him over and over till he said yes. Kareena thought he was some srk in making. Same thing she felt when she was crazy for hritik. Do you see a pattern? She goes out for the boys who are hot and happening.

maybe she did allow shahid to treat her not so nice at times. Who knows. He knew she was crazy for him.

Saif on the other hand had to HARM himself to prove to bebo that he is the one. He did everything possible to get hold of this lass. Do you blame him? A young single girl, top star of bollywood, from mahaan khaandan, with fair and lovely skin, and saif, divorce, 2 growing children, 10yrs older'of course he is going to treat her like a princesses. Hey it's a great catch, like winning a jackpot. Lensa and kareena's keyword here: compromise.

Originally posted by: Nova19

I have been in two serious relationships in my life (one ended in a break up). I live in the same city as the ex and work in the same field but never meet him. I would be friendly if I did but wouldn't like to run into him. Absolutely nothing horrible happened between us other than a relationship we both thought might be "the one" not working out. Nobody cheated, nobody was abusive or disrespectful. It just wasn't right. Still there is awkwardness because we did not both decide at the exact same moment it wasn't right. The one who decides to end it it (even if it is 100% correct decision) can always be made to look and feel guilty and the other one can always be "the victim." I can only imagine how much more awkward it would be if everyone knew about it, had an opinion about it, and were judging how cordial we seemed if we did run into each other.

I too think both Shahid and Kareena were hurt by the break up but better off to be out of a relationship not meant to last. I also think the more you cared about someone and believed it was forever the harder it is to stay friends especially when new partners come into it. They had a good relationship for a while but it didn't work out. They have both tried to take the high road and they have both moved on (he may not be married but he says, sincerely I think, the relationship ended when it should have - sorry not direct quote but that is about what he said.) I do not understand why his fans would still be upset with her and hers with him or his fans against hers etc. They are both in a better place in their lives now.

Kareena also ignored PZ after the whole KHNH fiasco. PZ also ignored bebo. Does it mean they also were cheating on each other?

Originally posted by: Nova19

I have been in two serious relationships in my life (one ended in a break up). I live in the same city as the ex and work in the same field but never meet him. I would be friendly if I did but wouldn't like to run into him. Absolutely nothing horrible happened between us other than a relationship we both thought might be "the one" not working out. Nobody cheated, nobody was abusive or disrespectful. It just wasn't right. Still there is awkwardness because we did not both decide at the exact same moment it wasn't right. The one who decides to end it it (even if it is 100% correct decision) can always be made to look and feel guilty and the other one can always be "the victim." I can only imagine how much more awkward it would be if everyone knew about it, had an opinion about it, and were judging how cordial we seemed if we did run into each other.

I too think both Shahid and Kareena were hurt by the break up but better off to be out of a relationship not meant to last. I also think the more you cared about someone and believed it was forever the harder it is to stay friends especially when new partners come into it. They had a good relationship for a while but it didn't work out. They have both tried to take the high road and they have both moved on (he may not be married but he says, sincerely I think, the relationship ended when it should have - sorry not direct quote but that is about what he said.) I do not understand why his fans would still be upset with her and hers with him or his fans against hers etc. They are both in a better place in their lives now.

Originally posted by: beboholic

Kareena also ignored PZ after the whole KHNH fiasco. PZ also ignored bebo. Does it mean they also were cheating on each other?

It's a human nature to ignore people who you feel awkward around.

Not just on KWK..bebo said many times she thinks she has the best chemistry with Amir. Jake I think your reading too much into it. Even Shahid choose PC over bebo on KWK..do you see bebo fans reading too much into that? He picked PC over bebo because he's closer to PC now than Kareena. And bebo picked Amir over Shahid because at that time..it was comfortable for bebo to pick Amir esp when her own boyfriend Saif siting right next to her. And I guess she felt uncomfortable because Saif brought up Shahid's name..she didn't feel comfortable talking about her chemistry with her ex.