Tricky to be friends with an ex: Shahid - Page 5

^Exactly my thoughts, but became a SK fan after the break up. 😆

Originally posted by: MocoCoco

Well, she moved on a lot quicker and there was some speculation that she was already emotionally cheating on Shahid with Saif post-Tashaan. I don't blame him for being bitter just b/c of how it all played out. You can tell, he was very into her--the KWK compatibility test where he got a perfect score. So he was really into her, loved her but they couldn't make it work.

I think her ideals of how the break up will be and all things that follow was more optimist than it really is. She thought she could be friends, but she guessed wrong. It's gets too tricky, especially when you're in this business and everyone knows everything.

Kareena has been respectfully of their past and Shahid's privacy, but I don't want to blame Shahid for acting like he did. He rebounded with Vidya, and has moved on. To me, her giving him the cold shoulder isn't very mature, especially if he turned around to look at her.

Honestly, we don't have a clue on wth happened behind the scenes, so it's all biases and mere speculation. I don't think either was right or wrong. Both were/are flawed.

Am sure Shahid gained a lot of girl fans after bebo broke up with him..because everyone felt sorry for him. I didn't...I couldn't care less and I was his fan before the breakup and even before he was dating bebo. I actually started disliking him after the breakup. I guess because I was aware about all the rumors on how he was treating bebo while they were dating.

I refuse to believe SK-KK had already broken up during the shooting of JWM.. Idk why but I feel they were still pretty much together. You could clearly see the love and chemistry between them throughout the film, yeah maybe not the promotions because there was some kind of awkwardness at times. I too believe KK moved on too easily while SK truly loved her andcouldn't move on as easily as she did. With KK I feel she already felt something for Saif, he kind of came betwen them.. that's how I see it and I am not a fan of either of them, I do love Shahid but I am just not a fan.

I do think Shahid and Bebo should've got married, he is a lot better than a divorced man with kids.. SK-KK looked better together and Bebo wouldn't have had to change her surname. Jk. 😆

Originally posted by: beboholic

Am sure Shahid gained a lot of girl fans after bebo broke up with him..because everyone felt sorry for him. I didn't...I couldn't care less and I was his fan before the breakup and even before he was dating bebo. I actually started disliking him after the breakup. I guess because I was aware about all the rumors on how he was treating bebo while they were dating.

Bebo is in a happier place now..breaking up with Shahid was a smart move..even Shahid himself knows that. That's why after he got over the breakup and saw she was actually in love with Saif and wasn't trying to hurt him..he forgave her. And now he only says good things about her. If she did cheat on him..he would have said so..but he didn't..he was upset she dumped his ass 😃

Originally posted by: TheJake

Are you telling me he can't/didn't gain many girl fans 'cause of his talent, dancing, looks? 😲

C'mon! 😆

That might have been a plus point, I don't know --- I didn't fall for him because of that. I can't speak on behalf of others, but the reason I did --- I don't know it's just I found it interesting how he started grooming himself, pulled himself together, started becoming serious about his work ... Plus, his work was amazing in Kaminey! And the guy can surely move! His smile and looks are a bonus point, sure. 😛

Originally posted by: beboholic

He moved on a lot quicker with Vidya too. Don't tell me it's just rumors because its obvious him and Vidya had a thing..they both get uncomfortable when they were asked about their relationship. To me bebo at least married to Saif..while Shahid used Vidya and broke her heart. Why else would Karan ask him..why is Vidya talking bad about you?

I guess it's interesting that you beleive the rumors about bebo but you want to avoid all the rumors around Shahid. At least am being fair..While you and Jake are giving a one sided argument...meaning supporting Shahid.

Kareena might be open about when she is in love..but when she breaks up with someone she likes to keep it quite..she never spoke about her and duggu affair either because she knew that was way too hurtful to talk about..same reason she didn't talk about the shahid breakup.

There's a reason why bebo ran to Saif. Shahid was a bad boyfriend. Before they broke up..he use to tell her all these actors she should avoid working with. He threatened Fardeen to stay away from bebo after Fida..there's truth to that because Fardeen spoke about it. He told her to avoid Salman. Many of her close friends said he was jeopardizing her career. Her own family didn't like him..that should set an alarm.

There's also rumors about how bebo was crying non stop on Tashan sets because Shahid was ignoring her calls. Rumors about him cheating on her. Saif was there to support her..she fell in love.

There's also rumors about Shahid and PC having a thing for each other while he was dating bebo. Karan also asks him about this when PC and Shahid came on KWK together..but they obv denied it.

It's obvious Shahid is not a great boyfriend..he acts all cool and sweet when the cameras are on..but there's a reason why Sania Mirza, Vidya, and PC are not happy with him. Am actually suprised bebo dated him for so long. I guess she was blinded by love and she pretended everything was okay until she couldn't handle it anymore..and broke up with him. Seems Shahid will never find a great girlfriend d as Kareena that's why it's taking him sooo long to find a girlfriend as loyal as bebo...because it seems every girl he dates he has a problem with. He never had a problem with bebo until she broke up with him 😃

I hope his movie works and becomes a huge hit.

About the cow and buffalo comment, I think that was very twisted by the media. He should NOT have said it. It was not a good comment but headlines after made it sound as if he called her a cow which he did not at all. If you read the interview you see the interviewer was baiting him about different things over and over looking for a controversial statement. Shahid did not compare KK to a cow. When Swati asked will you work with Kareena again, the first thing SK said is, of course I will. Then he goes on and says if the director says she is the one best for the role it is not his place to say he will not do the film. Then he says he would romance a cow or buffalo if his director tells him to (and who knows what might have been said by Swati or Shahid between). I think he was trying to say, people shouldn't think he would refuse to work with her because he would work with anyone or anything if his director said to. Clearly a bad way to say it - but not as bad as the headlines made it seem. I think he has been very restrained. Karan Johar (KKs friend) even said as much on KWK.

Hetal...they didn't click? Why would they date for so long if they didn't click? And I never believed VO and Aish were in love to begin with so I was positive they both would move on.