Tricky to be friends with an ex: Shahid

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.khoobsurat.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#61

Well said Shane 👍🏼 I couldn't have said it better. I completely agree with every point you made esp about both boys controlling bebo but one was taking her on holidays and holding her hand and being all romantic and that's what bebo loved about Saif..while Shahid isn't the type to be holding any of his girlfriends hands. lol

You completely understand Shahid-bebo relationship vs Saif-bebo relationship. And there was no bias towards any couple. That's how it should be. 😊

Edited by beboholic - 12 years ago

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desigal90

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Posted: 12 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: TheJake

What are you a Pandit or something? That you are sure enough how biased one is? 😆😛

It clearly showed one cheated on an other ... If you think otherwise, you're gullible or you too have biased attached to yours.

Things can't just work out suddenly after 5/6 years of proper dating.

5/6 years?

No, 3 years.

They hooked up in 2004 and broke up in 2007.

Neither Kareena nor Shahid cheated. Till date both only have the best things to say about each other. Both have said it's a relationship they respect. I doubt would use such words if there was anything like infidelity or disloyalty involved.

They were in a serious relationship, but it was doomed relationship from start.

She was extroverted, he was introverted. Her sense of humor, her nature, was completely opposite of Shahid.

They did love each other, but sometimes that's not enough.

Whatever the case, both decided to call it quits, sadly, during the last few shoots of JWM.

And it's silly to think that it only hurt one party. Both Kareena and Shahid were deeply upset, but Kareena had Saif's shoulder to cry on and he scooped her right up. She did say in her book that one of the reasons she got pulled towards Saif was the fact that he made her laugh, a lot.

She needed a Saif in her life, simple.

His self depreciating sense of humor grounds her. He's able to criticize her, without really damaging her ego, lol

And yes, she seems like a woman who gives her all to a man and expects him to do the same, and Saif is doing just that. Their natures click, they have similar taste in hobbies, travel, etc.

It's a match made in heaven!

Edited by desigal90 - 12 years ago

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Haeyeol

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Posted: 12 years ago

#63

except PC.. he seems to not meet up with his ex like Karina, Hirshita etc

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neena

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Posted: 12 years ago

#64

kareena and shahid can never be friends and work again because they are too involved with each other and it gets awkward to work each other ...

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TheJake

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Posted: 12 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: anku-

I am not a pandit. Ever heard of personal opinion? 😛 You on the other hand are totally looking like you're a pandit or something to say that one def. cheated on another 😆 I am not gullible. I have read the interviews and even what they had to say, hence the conclusion. 😛 How do my posts have biased attached to them when I haven't even posted anything on Shahid Kareena as such bending towards either of them unlike your posts which are clearly bending towards Shahid so the biasedness is clear. One doesn't need to be a pandit to see that. 😆😆😆

Edit: last line is your personal opinion. Not a fact.

Listen pal. I saw the news ... read the articles ... seen everything what media put in front of us ... Judging on basis of that ... One cheated on the other ... it's so darn clear. Other than that, I do not know em. Today, whatever opinions we have regarding celebs ... aren't they based on what Media feeds us?

You mean the years of dating? Actually, I remember them being a couple .. I don't know forever, not sure about years ... but heard Shahid mentioned it in one of the interviews that's why used that #. I'm sure one person who knows best is him or Kareena.

And that biased thing ... It was just a saying ... never mind you didn't get it.

My arguments are based on facts, not on my personal opinion. Then again, personal opinion tends to be based on facts usually no. Especially on these things.

Edited by TheJake - 12 years ago

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TheJake

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Posted: 12 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: desigal90

5/6 years?
No, 3 years.
They hooked up in 2004 and broke up in 2007.

Neither Kareena nor Shahid cheated. Till date both only have the best things to say about each other. Both have said it's a relationship they respect. I doubt would use such words if there was anything like infidelity or disloyalty involved.

They were in a serious relationship, but it was doomed relationship from start.
She was extroverted, he was introverted. Her sense of humor, her nature, was completely opposite of Shahid.
They did love each other, but sometimes that's not enough.

Whatever the case, both decided to call it quits, sadly, during the last few shoots of JWM.
And it's silly to think that it only hurt one party. Both Kareena and Shahid were deeply upset, but Kareena had Saif's shoulder to cry on and he scooped her right up. She did say in her book that one of the reasons she got pulled towards Saif was the fact that he made her laugh, a lot.

She needed a Saif in her life, simple.
His self depreciating sense of humor grounds her. He's able to criticize her, without really damaging her ego, lol
And yes, she seems like a woman who gives her all to a man and expects him to do the same, and Saif is doing just that. Their natures click, they have similar taste in hobbies, travel, etc.
It's a match made in heaven!

I heard Shahid mentining in one of the IVs, that's why used that number. I personally remember them being a couple forever ... not sure about years but yeah ...

I don't want to get into an argument regarding cheating ... cause I think, people have different meaning regarding ...

I'm sorry, but Kareena always looked guilty to me. Though, I wasn't a Shahid fan back then. The way she always ended up ignoring Shahid and all. There are so many examples, in IVs and her attitude back then ... I don't know where to look for ... but I remember in KWK for instance...Karan asks Saif who she has the best chemistry with ... Amir, Shahid or there was one more name..Kareena interrupts like Aamir no ..and Saif corrects her saying no, it's Shahid (Which I appreciated him for). The expression on her face, and her body language...I call that guilt. Maybe you don't.

Most people's opinion is ... two exes can't be friends, that's mostly true ... same way, I truly believe when you have a break up ... one's a guilty party for sure. Because it takes two to make a relationship. If they had a friendly breakup, ok would have agreed...both might have been at fault, fell out of love ... But since it was more dramatic then that ... *Gestures*

In my mind at least it works like that ...

Edited by TheJake - 12 years ago

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anku-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#67

No, I meant about things not working out after 5/6 years.. which happens. But then media also talks about Shahid-Vidya's affair and how Shahid didn't treat her well but you don't believe about their affair do you?

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briahna

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Posted: 12 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: beboholic
Well said Shane 👍🏼 I couldn't have said it better. I completely agree with every point you made esp about both boys controlling bebo but one was taking her on holidays and holding her hand and being all romantic and that's what bebo loved about Saif..while Shahid isn't the type to be holding any of his girlfriends hands. lol

You completely understand Shahid-bebo relationship vs Saif-bebo relationship. And there was no bias towards any couple. That's how it should be. 😊

Thnx lensa

Remember there was an interview where shahid said, how kareena kept calling him over and over till he said yes. Kareena thought he was some srk in making. Same thing she felt when she was crazy for hritik. Do you see a pattern? She goes out for the boys who are hot and happening.

maybe she did allow shahid to treat her not so nice at times. Who knows. He knew she was crazy for him.

Saif on the other hand had to HARM himself to prove to bebo that he is the one. He did everything possible to get hold of this lass. Do you blame him? A young single girl, top star of bollywood, from mahaan khaandan, with fair and lovely skin, and saif, divorce, 2 growing children, 10yrs older…of course he is going to treat her like a princesses. Hey it's a great catch, like winning a jackpot. Lensa and kareena's keyword here: compromise.

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desigal90

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Posted: 12 years ago

#69

Kareena looked guilty coz she avoided Shahid?
Dude, she avoids HRITHIK and she sure as hell didnt cheat on him. But yes, she was involved with him once upon a time. Doesnt mean she's guilty. It's just AWKWARD.

She wanted Saif to choose Aamir, coz she doesnt want him to feel awkward being presented with her ex-boyfriend as an option.

That's not guilt. That's just her personality. She's really sensitive.

And it's only natural that when a serious relationship breaks, you cant just go back to being hunky dory friends. She's of a belief that exes cannot be friends.

Everyone's different. Just coz someone's uncomfortable to work with an ex-boyfriend doesnt mean they cheated on them. That's ridiculous.

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TheJake

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Posted: 12 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: anku-
No, I meant about things not working out after 5/6 years.. which happens. But then media also talks about Shahid-Vidya's affair and how Shahid didn't treat her well but you don't believe about their affair do you?

I didn't say nobody can break off after 5/6 yrs of dating ... I said not without a good solid reason. Bad, good reason. Absolutely not. Media was at work ... don't blame em ... cause he just broke off with Kareena, his movie with Vidya came out ... Rest is history. There was no proof unlike PC/Shahid.