Age isn't as big of a concern to me. But I think playing age appropriate roles is important.
I've not seen Nishabd, it maybe cringeworthy but such things happen. Even in American Beauty Kevin Spacey's character falls for his teenage daughter's friend. Amitabh played an age appropriate role. I like Cheeni Kum too. It was a cute love story between an age disparate couple.
As much as I love them and their movies, what does make me cringe is the Khans constantly playing young college going or twenty something heroes. I think our Bollywood stars need to take a leaf out of people like Meryl Streep, Helen Mirren, Jack Nicholson, Dustin Hoffman etc and play more age appropriate roles. It doesn't matter if its romance or comedy or age disparate or abusive relationships – what matter is the actor fits the age of the role and portrays characters convincingly.
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