I'm not a control freak - Shahid - Page 4

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Nice interview, its good to read a proper interview instead of hearing media generated stories. He comes out as a balanced and normal person, don't expect anything less from Pankaj Kapur's son, I guess.

That is a great interview so mature and straight answers about everything especially about kareena. Riya you make me laugh 😆

Originally posted by: desigal90

Well if saif and kareean can be judged for their Subhash K Jha statemetns why not shahid? Since the forum has already accepted that saif and kareena did make thsoe statements, so did Shahid. Atleast saif and kareena arent denying it, lol. Shahid clearly denies here that he reacted at all, and you know it. I'm just calling him out on it. I never said saifeena didnt make statemetns. I said they might ahve been provoked, and maybe so was shahid. But dont DENY reacting, lol. That's just being a hypocrite, haha.

And since you brought the change argument in, this is what I'm talking about:

Now that we can put the list out, what will you bring to the table?

I'm ready to give anything to a relationship. As long as I'm not expected to change beyond what my basic nature is. Every relationship needs adjustment and understanding and you have to be ready to do that. But as long as you don't end up changing yourself as the basic person you were, because then you'll be unhappy. Apart form that, anything it takes! I'm always someone who's looking for longevity. I think you must never get into a relationship expecting it to culminate, only, you should know that there is a possibility of culmination

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So why let kareena make all these drastic changes, that's my question. Maybe if he had made some changes on hsi part, her changes wouldnt have had to be so drastic. Perhaps they coudl have met somewhere in the middle. But its clear to me he has very strong ideals on how he is and he's not willing ot change, while its obvoius that she did. If he believes that, then why let her change? Adjustment is needed, but its needed from BOTH sides. Not just one.

Originally posted by: RiyaK09

Desu, he did make a certain statement regarding Saifeena, but he didnt any take names. And thats why what he said is correct. He was REALLY pressurized by his PR person to speak against Saifeena, like the PR was like "Shahid you have to say something!" but he still didnt take names. Do you realize how humiliating it must have been for him when Kareena asked him to move on and when Saif dissed his character in Kaminey?

And seriously, Desu, you make it sound like Kareena was the only one who was madly in love with Shahid, and Shahid didnt give a crap about her. Come on, you cant be this biased. Kareena herself said that Shahid did NOT force her to ditch meat! Even KJo admits that Sasha was a good influence on her!

Just because he didnt show it that doesnt mean he didnt love her enough! Every human being is different! Some are expressive, some arent. Kareena is, Shahid isnt. Desu, Sasha became a chain smoker after the break up! You know how strict he is about not drinking and about not eating meat, but he took up SMOKING! He was like smoking numerous packs a day while shooting for Kismat Konnection! Thank God, he stopped cuz he realized it was affecting his health. Not to forget, he was totally missing from the scene for like months. No matter how bitter or amicable their break up was, I cant even imagine what he went through looking at flashing images of Saifeena's PDA on news channels and EVERYWHERE! She was her ex-love, she found someone else, he didnt. He had to go through everything, all by himself.

And again, we know shahid started smoking, but kareena prolly had her share of pain as well. I always say, had saif not been there, she woudl have gone through hell. But the fact that he was there and supported her through this time, took her out for lunches, dinners, etc. She went into rebound, he didnt. She was weaker, he was stronger.

what are we discussing/arguing about? That Shahid isn't taking digs on Saifeena like they did in their interview? If Saif refused the role Kaaminey, why is saif taking digs at him? Didn't he admitted the role didn't excited him enough, so he refused the role? If Saif take digs on Shahid directly, that's fine? And even if kareena tells openly in media Shahid should move on and BLAMINg him for whatever is happening negative towards her is because of Shahid, that perfectly fine? What is she? Angel? This is Showbiz and she did moved on very quickly..so Negative Publicity on her doesn't surprise me at all. Saifeena rumors started before JWM release. But then i thought maybe it's the publicity for Tashaan. Results? NO!! Then i see the video of them kissing, I guess she moved on very Quickly. First you do things which media make you look bad and later you blame your ex? What kind of World are you living in.

RIya i agree with your posts. Shahid never forced her. wasn't it her who went crazy over shahid? Even he admit on KWK, she wanted to change herself for good or worse(reasons best known to her). Shahid also given time to the relationship. I really don't think Shahid was even giving important to his career before as he is now. I starting to love him from Vivah days. There were rumors kareena was spying on Shahid on the sets of vivah, should we beleive them or no? because media was just giving her a bad image YET AGAIN!? Before their break up, there were reports how Kareena was very possessive about Shahid and just didn't trusted him, what do call those reports then? I am so happy they're not together. Together they've always looked so boring! We shouldn't forget Saifeena started the digs! It's funny they took a dig right after Shahid Priyanka public appearance😆 I am so happy he doesn't smoke anymore, he was almost ruining himself for someone who was move on. Whatever brought him back, thank you from bringing him back. Today he's much more happy person than he even could be. He handled Saifeena digs very professionally. Shahid deserves to be happy, even when his ex isn't happy for him. If she was happy for him, she wouldn't directly say in her interview shahid to move on. Saif taking direct digs on Shahid was quiet lame 😆 Wrong move.

I'm sure they both suffered with pain, but Kareena had someone...he didnt. He wasnt stronger, but yes, he did emerge stronger, cuz he dealt with it all by himself. And frankly, even after two years, he still is all by himself. I'm not saying that he's still crying over Kareena, I'm just saying that he still doesnt have anyone.

It's a very mature and a balanced interview. Of course, it comes across as boring since there is nothing colourful or spicy in it but it will save Shahid a lot of trouble. It is for his own good if he keeps his feelings and personal life to himself and only lets his work do the talking.

He and Priyanka can make a great relationship if they agree to fall in line together , carefully balancing their opposite natures.

As for Saifeena, I think it's like trying to make a crippled horse run. It's over...OVER. Saif and Kareena are singing ringa ringa roses in their love garden... and Shahid has taken a route to rediscover life and himself ...perhaps a completely new approach as it shows in this interview.

And no, Shahid is not a control freak.