I'm not a control freak - Shahid - Page 5

Originally posted by: RiyaK09

JDJ forum is the place to be. All the K-babes love me haha

Originally posted by: RiyaK09

Ringa ringa roses? 🤣🤣🤣

Nitica, I always love to read your posts. And I agree that he doesnt have any spicy confessions and thats why people find him boring, he wont be talking about what age he tried drugs or what age he lost his virginity. Even though, I do give props to the actor to who did talk about all this *cough bir cough*

Originally posted by: RiyaK09

Just because he didnt show it that doesnt mean he didnt love her enough! Every human being is different! Some are expressive, some arent. Kareena is, Shahid isnt. Desu, Sasha became a chain smoker after the break up! You know how strict he is about not drinking and about not eating meat, but he took up SMOKING! He was like smoking numerous packs a day while shooting for Kismat Konnection! Thank God, he stopped cuz he realized it was affecting his health. Not to forget, he was totally missing from the scene for like months. No matter how bitter or amicable their break up was, I cant even imagine what he went through looking at flashing images of Saifeena's PDA on news channels and EVERYWHERE! She was her ex-love, she found someone else, he didnt. He had to go through everything, all by himself.

About making indirect digs, heck, I would make even worse indirect digs if someone sad all that crap about me. I agree that indirect digs are just as worse as direct ones, but just cuz he didnt take names, he can say that he hasnt talked shit. He is smart, and thats why he took the safer route. Again Desu, he didnt make the first move here, Saifeena were the ones who talked about him first.

I remember Karan asking that question, but it was quite impromptu, he asked her and then he asked him the same question. You overlooked the part where Sasha defended EVERY move of Kareena's. So Shahid which one of Bebo's movies do you like? "Oh, I like all her movies, she acted amazingly well in every movie..blah blah blah." Karan's like..umm I beg to differ, quit defending her. I'm not saying that Shahid loved her more or Kareena loved her more...we cannot make assumptions my just looking at the way they used to pose for pictures. Again some people express more and some dont express at all.....

About changing part, again you're making it sound like he had Kareena on gunspoint and asked her to change herself. Desu, she's a grown up woman! She can make decisions herself. About Shahid changing, he doesnt blab about changes, so we would never know. But he did try to socialize with people a bit more, now of course, he's doiing a better job with socializing.

Originally posted by: desigal90

Just because he didnt take names he didnt react? Riya, it was clear as anything who he was hinting at. In my opinion, underhanded digs are just as bad as direct digs. Kareena said it outright coz she's not afraid. She merely said, I have moved on and he should as well. Shahid on the other hand said, its "cheap" to talk about personal life (no guesses who he was referring to) and then, "we all know who's interfering with who". I mean come on, it doestn take a Sherock homes to figure out who he is hinting at...especially since the question was about kareena.

So no, just because he didnt speciically mention names doesnt mean anything to me. He was pretty clear in his attack.And now he's going back and saying he didnt react at all. Not cool Shahid. Be man enough to stand by what you said atleast. And like everyone here said, no one pressureized saif and kareena to make those statements, and those two were torn down. Then the same principles apply to shahid. How can his own PR pressurize him? If saif and kareena were at fault, the pressurizing argument doesnt hold true for shahid either. How can he deny it now?

And he did love her. But I always got the feeling that she loved him more. Or she was more obsessed with him while he was just taking it slow. Its evident that she did put her career as second priority in front of shahid Riya. Look at the girl now. There's a fire and ambition in her that was absent when she was with shahid. Time to promote rockstars. Speak about your performance kareena, "oh i'm performing on so and so but SHAHID, his performance is osmething I'm blah blah blah" I remember everyone on kareean's forum was like..umm...talk about your own performance woman.

Interesintg that you bring up Karan Johar.

The same Karan Johar, when shahid was sitting in front was like, yeah he's a good influence. But when Shahid wasnt there, that same Karan Johar asked Kareena ont eh same show, so what has he changed for you?

I'm serious. YOu can go watch the episode again. She was talking about how she's changed as a person, and it was strange to see karan suddenly go, and what he he changed for you? Strange question, right? It definitley caught her offguard because it took hera second to put her thoughts together.

Seems like Karan noticed the same things that we are talking about right now. How much change should ONE person go through. If you are so differnet, and you are determined to make the relatoinship work, then you cant just say, "Oh, I will do anything to make a relatinshp work BUT...I dont wanna change". I mean that contradicts right there. Obviously if two ppl are so differnet you have two three options:

a) Both people make equal adjustments

b) ONE person make drastic changes to accomodate the other

c) Call it quits

It seems like it was case two with kareena making more than her share of changes and then finally the third option.

I dont wanna talk about the break up all over again. I just wanted to point out, he's going against his own statements 😊

And he seems a bit too rigid for my liking.

Originally posted by: gossipgurls

D) Its DESTINY


Deffo shahid deserved better