what did Kareena find in Saif ??

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Riya

@RiyaK09

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Posted: 16 years ago

#21

It's obvious that he loves them to death, almost every father does.

But this statement makes me feel that he doesnt he doesnt know them that well,

"They are wonderfully brought up, they seem very happy and have full lives, I'm thankful about the way they've grown up."

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desigal90

@desigal90

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Posted: 16 years ago

#22

Well that's because he missed quite a bit of hteir upbringing after the divorce period when he wasnt on good terms iwth Amrita. And two years in a child's life are a long time.

Ibrahim when from 6 to 8 years while Sara went on from 11 to 13.

And he says "seems" coz you cant always assume that everything in your child's life is perfect. Saif is very particular about the words he uses. I've seen him use "seem" quite often. He's pretty fond of that word. If you tosst hat word "seem" out from taht response, you'll get a different feel.

" I see my kids' friends and I feel this peer group is a good healthy peer group."

This shows me that he's aware of his kids' company. And that shows the sign of a concerned father. Whenever he's with his kids, its just not publicized, doesnt mean that he doesnt care about htem or doesnt spend time with them.

Edited by desigal90 - 16 years ago

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Riya

@RiyaK09

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Posted: 16 years ago

#23

I hope he's a good father, for Ibrahim and Sara's sake :)

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Sharma

@lovanika

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Posted: 16 years ago

#24

Now that the topic has steered to Saif and his women then I can put my two cents too.

For me (no personal agenda Desigal90) Saif lost the whole respect when he left his wife of more than 13 years and mothre of his kids as soon as he tasted success with Kal Ho Na Ho.

It then makes me feel that he was waiting for this moment all his life. He was nothing so he married Amrita when she was doing great for herself. Poor women left everything to look after his home and kids and he left her. Then he realised that HOW BAD HIS MARRIAGE WAS. I remember him telling in an interview that "I was abused, an dmade fun of every day about being a flop". So you did not leave at that point but you left when you started making money. So now you want to spend that money on your girlfriends - special holidays, special wines, special cars etc. What about y our wife? What about sharing your success with your wife? None of that. But yeah try to gain sympathy by saying that you were the expoilted one in the marriage.

I just do not want to go the kids. He loves his kids - did he ask for their custody, is he taking them holidays with him, or just take them for a drive around on the street of Bombay.

I have nothing against Saif-Kareena. Kareen did not break his marriage. Saif broke his marriage. So I feel that this time Saif is very very serious about KAreena. WHY? Thats the best he can get. Hecan't get any better than this gal. But for KAreena - She can get loads better than Saif. Saif is going to hang onto her like a oxygen cylinder where as for KAreena age is on her side plus she has lots to look forward and can get many other guys way better than SAif.

But Kareena is with Saif and he is making her feel like princess for whatever reason, let them be happy.

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desigal90

@desigal90

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Posted: 16 years ago

#25

Lovanika, I love how you present your ideas, serously. Very politely and without making it personal. I think I've said it before as well.

For me, I wont even bother defending saif with his marriage. It was an outright mistake on his part, and he suffered, simple. But now I feel he's grown wiser, realized that he's nto as young as he used to be where he can just break outta a relationship and hook up with someone else. He WANTS stability. ANd him reconciling with Amrita lessens his guilt in my eyes. I will say that perhaps Amrita being so much older and women aging faster than men might have brought in a divide in mentality, where she was far ahead of him in maturity while he was still, lets put it, immature, lol.

But once again, that was one mistake, and I dont see how it would be the only factor that would influence kareena's decision in what she saw in him.

The way I see it, she saw PLENTY in him in order for her to OVERLOOK such huge downsides like age, kids, previous relationships, etc.

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Sharma

@lovanika

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Posted: 16 years ago

#26

I really really hope that they get married and have a happy life....and 90% of it will be for you Desigal90😉

I liked Saif a lot before all this divorce thingy happened. Now my thinging is clouded by that.

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desigal90

@desigal90

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Posted: 16 years ago

#27

I hope he can change his perception in your eyes by being faithful now =)

Awww thanks!! Inshalla htey will!!

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rhea

@rhea_6

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Posted: 16 years ago

#28

Desu I don't wanna hurt your thoughts since you love them so much.

But seriosuly Saif and Kareena should lessen their PDA and the huge number of interviews professing love etc..Great they are in love but there is no need to be so vociferous about it.

I have no problem with PDA with couples but in this case Saif has 2 young kids who are still very vulnerable and they are definately going to be affected by their father's beahviour.

Imagine how they would feel esp Sara who is in her teens now if all her frnds are discussing about Saif's tatoo or their interviews.She is gonna get hurt.

Saif and Kareena are not teenagers in love.They can surely carry out their relationship with dignity and should not give other people the chance to point fingers at them.

If he did not have a family than it would be their choice.I know that you say that Saif n Kareena are very open but they surely can decrease all of it a bit keeping the children in mind.

Coz I have Life Span Development as one of the courses and these scenarios affect the children very deeply and this has a long term infulence on the kids.

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337072

Hibernated

Posted: 16 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Koizakapoor
i honestly think saif is too good for her...so thats a lil inappropriate question for me...i would rather go wid " wat did ranbir find in deepika? " but lets not discuss that rite now :p

maybe bacause Deepika dont hv a badmouth that juz know how to talk big n badmouth n criticize everyone from their clothes to hair to look to whatever else ......it goes the same for Kareena as well, in another way i see them more better than anyone else here....none of these celebrities r prefect...there r some bad qualities in every human being....juz because of that we can say that oh my Saif can find someone better thank Bebo or Kareena can find someone better.....there must be something that attracts u to someone, u cant be in a relatinship if there is nothing attracts u to them........n things that Saif may like in Kareena or Kareena like in Saif, we may not like it....but again wat can we do abt this..its their life n their happiness, its not abt us....u can alwayz pray for their good or wish them bad, its up to u....

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-iktaara-

@-iktaara-

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Posted: 16 years ago

#30

It's their life and they can decide whoever they want to be...even if it is *Osama*...seriously, people needs to back off, we don't even know what had happened behind the closed doors and still try to point fingers! ...

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