what did Kareena find in Saif ?? - Page 2

Its called going into rebound. While kareena may not wanna admit it, it took her quite a while to really be GENUINELY in love with saif. In the beginning, it was more of a rash period filled wiht media attention, lots of affection, his going out of his way to please her. I think now it can safely be said, she loves him.

Not necesarrily Riya. There are women who abandon their homes as well, and the man takes up responsibilty. Its not unheard of. Its just a stereotype that its the man who cheats and the woman's left with the burden. It goes both ways.

Saif's made mistakes in the past, I wont deny em. But I dont htink that those mistakes should be reflecting in his future. He's on cordial terms with his wife today, and with his kids. He made mistakes, he got punished. One mistake shouldnt mean, "what did kareena find in saif", you know. One mistake doesnt define a person.

I really dont have a problem with Saif being Kareena, I honestly dont.

Desu, you probably know the answer to this question, did Saif fight for custody of his children? Where do the kids live? Mumbai or his hometown?

He went thorugh a huge decline in his health, got a heart attack in 2007. The girl he fell for, Rozza, ended up having used him for fame, so he broke it off iwth her, almost immediately after which Amrita and him went back on being on good terms.

I think Amrita was very clear from the start that she didnt want the kids to have anyhting ot do with Saif. And she was justified in her anger as well. Saif says one time he did manage to meet Ibrahim on the sets of his movie, and he says he wanted to die in shame when Ibrahim started screaming at him to come home.

I know ppl dont think so, but I really do feel he's a good father. He was a good father when they were together, and I've seen sara and Ibrahim on quite a few of his events, and read accoutns of them being togehter once in a while. He says he talks to them often on the phone, because he doesnt get to meet htem that often since he's traveling so much for shoots and whatnot.

Ibrahim yelled at him and asked him to come home? Thats sad 😭

• In the 14 years you have been a father, how have you evolved?

This is just something that I am and I feel and react instinctively to being one. I have not yet come across a problem or an issue with one of the kids where you need to sit down as a father and say hey listen there's a problem here. They are wonderfully brought up, they seem very happy and have full lives, I'm thankful about the way they've grown up. I'm also thankful to Mumbai for that, it's a warm city, they've got lots of friends and they've got lots going on. I live here and wherever I live there will be a bedroom for Sara and Ibrahim, they are clearly a part of my life and whatever I am doing. I have a healthy relationship with my woman and I have a healthy relationship with my children. My life might not be text book regular, but that does not mean it's not great. And anyway, there's no text book.

• Would you be able to view it so indulgently if your son wanted to follow a similar life?

Yes, yes, I think so, I mean there'd be certain things that I would tell him to be careful about, to not hurt people, to look after his health and things like that. The whole point of having children is to teach people you love, from your experiences, how to not repeat the same mistakes. But that's a surface level answer, way below it I do know that the human spirit and the body is much more resilient than we think and of course he will be able to handle whatever comes his way.

It's all about luck actually. Some kids are just messed up and I don't think its any fault of their parents. People will tell you all the time that the most important thing is how you bring up kids but I've seen so many kids with really great parents who are a little bit messed up. A lot depends on genetic luck but India is generally a safe place. I see my kids' friends and I feel this peer group is a good healthy peer group. Their values are in place, they are not that rebellious, and generally speaking we are well-off in Mumbai.

"I don't know about being an eternal singleton but my understanding of a relationship is very different from what it used to be. Today I understand it's about encouraging individuality and it's just perfect actually that we (him and kareena) met at a time when I'm mentally capable of understanding that."