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Posted: 16 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: Zareena



Me tooo!!! I want some Srk-Kajol pictures together 😳

how about a promo of MNIK????😍but i know it not happening soon😭
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Posted: 16 years ago
#82

The fact that Kareena or Aishwarya or Mr. Bachchan or SRK or even young stars like Deepika or Sonam are the most discussed and criticized here just shows that they matter. People give importance to only those who actually matters. If everyone is sugary-syrapy towards a particular actor, male or female, then in reality they are nobody's. You know the ones who don't make a difference, they get all the praise. That si how life is. Even in politics unless you make a vitriolic statement, you don't matter. (Varun Gandhi anyone)

Desigirl90, most actors here get criticized. Some more and some less. I don't think you should take it to heart or defend them 24/7 even when your favorites are at fault.

When your favorite passes a rude comment or an obnoxious taunt towards another actor then it is better to just not argue for the sake. It irritates people more.

I am neutral towards Saif-Kareena. Not a fan of Saif and definitely not of Shahid but I like Kareena as an actor. As a person she irritates me a lot like many star kids who constantly claim to have inherited acting in genes or born with it and take potshots at other actors for their own failure. Kareena sure has changed though and I like the Kareena who is with Saif than the Kareena who was with Shahid.

The major difference between Shahid and Saif is that while former is young, not-attached hence he is free to date anybody. While latter is a divorced man who actually cheated on his wife and not to forget a father and that too of a teenage daughter. If that man flaunts his love in a bizarre way then it becomes unacceptable in all societies. A father is certainly different from a young man. Saif behaves like a love sick puppy. He hasn't matured.
I have no problem with PDA if it is done by couple who have no issues like Abhi-Ash or Shahid-Kareena or anyone but Saif's case is similar to Aamir. Why no one criticizes Aamir Khan because he doesn't give a chance. He and Kiran Rao is not in our face. So see there is a difference and that is why it is okay for Shahid and Priyanka to date or even indulge in PDA if they want because even if Harman was dumped then too it is not anybody's fault. If you fall out of love then move on. You don't need to cling on to your past and no one in their right mind would date a person who is a nobody. I mean all of will like a person who is successful.
In the end I would just say that don't leave IF for such silly matters. Actors don't really care about you or me. They like fan associations because fans are like free adverstisements. They act in a movie for money. If they actually didn't want money from movies then they would never quote their prize in crores or grab advts. to make more money. All that talk about pleasing audience in reality is getting a HIT knowing audience's pulse and making more money. They are merely doing their job. I don't think your time is worthless.
So enjoy the arguments and discussions and move on to new hotties like Luv Sinha or Adhyayan Suman. Now they need publicity. I can't do all the work alone. I need people to spread the word about these two. Add Papa Suman too.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: friends_rock



how about a promo of MNIK????😍but i know it not happening soon😭



Yeah, we can expect in late september or beginning of October But karan should give us kajol Pictures 😛 Which i am sure he won't
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Posted: 16 years ago
#84
oh Maya, not Luv Sinha again🤣
But I have to say Adhyayan is hot and cute😉 where are his interviews? we need more publicity for him
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Posted: 16 years ago
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oh comon aishu they new kids need publicity...btw adhyan hot and cute??/from which angle yaar?
@zareena-- i wish we had something...ugh..i hate waiting...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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hiru i think we can get something when Srk and Kajol will be shooting in USA..i think next shooting in Dc or San Francisco and thankfully not in New York😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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oh yeah...KJO loves new york good he is shooting somewhere else...any body in SanFran???
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I haven't read any of the posts so if I am repeating what someone else wrote, let me apologize.

Now onto the topic, I think to some extent there is double standards but we also have to look at other factors:

1) The personality of the two actresses. Priyanka is often the quiet, more diplomatic girl who keeps her private life shut and away from the public eye while Kareena was known to be the type of girl who speaks what she thinks and is often harsher and more blunt. So, when Priyanka breaks up with Harman, people assume that the relationship just did not work out and they mutually decided to pull away. When Kareena breaks up, all the fingers point toward Kareena because people are left asking "How can a girl who dated this guy for over three years just break up with him and within two months get together with another guy?"

2) The personalities of the two actors: Saif has a history with quiet a few women in his past and a bitter divorce and a broken relationship does not help his appearance. Shahid Kapoor has never been in a relaitonship prior to this (at least that we know of). So, when Shahid breaks up with Kareena it is a big thing and when Saif gets with Kareena, it is just another fling. (at least that is what people thought initially)

3) Everyone loved Shahid Kareena initially, when they broke up people took sides, some sided with Shahid and said that she was the mean one who broke the relationship because she met Saif and others sided with Kareena saying that she was not meant to be with Shahid.

4) Harman and Priyanka never really worked with people because not many people like Harman but others adore Priyanka so for people it really did not make much of a difference that they broke up and they didn't have to pick sides. And also because they were together MAX for 6 or so months while Shahid and Kareena shared a strong three years.

I personally, don't care who ends up with who as long as all of them are happy in their respective cases. I do like Shahid and Priyanka together as much as I like Saif and Kareena together but I don't feel that either of those relationships are my personal favs.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sapnon_ki_pari

I haven't read any of the posts so if I am repeating what someone else wrote, let me apologize.

Now onto the topic, I think to some extent there is double standards but we also have to look at other factors:

1) The personality of the two actresses. Priyanka is often the quiet, more diplomatic girl who keeps her private life shut and away from the public eye while Kareena was known to be the type of girl who speaks what she thinks and is often harsher and more blunt. So, when Priyanka breaks up with Harman, people assume that the relationship just did not work out and they mutually decided to pull away. When Kareena breaks up, all the fingers point toward Kareena because people are left asking "How can a girl who dated this guy for over three years just break up with him and within two months get together with another guy?"

2) The personalities of the two actors: Saif has a history with quiet a few women in his past and a bitter divorce and a broken relationship does not help his appearance. Shahid Kapoor has never been in a relaitonship prior to this (at least that we know of). So, when Shahid breaks up with Kareena it is a big thing and when Saif gets with Kareena, it is just another fling. (at least that is what people thought initially)

3) Everyone loved Shahid Kareena initially, when they broke up people took sides, some sided with Shahid and said that she was the mean one who broke the relationship because she met Saif and others sided with Kareena saying that she was not meant to be with Shahid.

4) Harman and Priyanka never really worked with people because not many people like Harman but others adore Priyanka so for people it really did not make much of a difference that they broke up and they didn't have to pick sides. And also because they were together MAX for 6 or so months while Shahid and Kareena shared a strong three years.

I personally, don't care who ends up with who as long as all of them are happy in their respective cases. I do like Shahid and Priyanka together as much as I like Saif and Kareena together but I don't feel that either of those relationships are my personal favs.

I agree with most of what you said especially point four.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#90
Live And Let Live! It's a complete waste of time discussing about someone else's life. Who are we to judge.

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