The other side of shahid and kareena's breakup

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AMREEN RAFIQ

@amz1990

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Posted: 16 years ago

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what i dont get is why is saif always the scapegoat in all of this, i mean it was shahid and kareena's break up but everyone was blaming saif for it saying he interfered when i am sure he had nothing to do with it i mean he went up to shahid in kareem moranis bday bash and even greeted shahid which i found adorable. i mean saif is a mature man and even though he was with someone before dont mean he had army of girlfriends thats what most article sound like

saif has another girl and all that he was only with roza and then there was kareena and i think he is pretty serious about their relationship

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Hira

@friends_rock

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: amreen1990
what i dont get is why is saif always the scapegoat in all of this, i mean it was shahid and kareena's break up but everyone was blaming saif for it saying he interfered when i am sure he had nothing to do with it i mean he went up to shahid in kareem moranis bday bash and even greeted shahid which i found adorable. i mean saif is a mature man and even though he was with someone before dont mean he had army of girlfriends thats what most article sound like

saif has another girl and all that he was only with roza and then there was kareena and i think he is pretty serious about their relationship

i feel bad for saif.😳 always the 3RD person is blamed....its not new...angie-brad-jenn -- reese-ryan- abbie cornish ... shahid-kareena-saif

if u see all the 3RD PARTY is blamed...!

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desigal90

@desigal90

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Posted: 16 years ago

#23

I dont normally care yaar...but I just got this info today. ANd it made my blood boil to know that what ppl perceive is so different from what truly happened.

To me, its not important if someone had a fun romantic relationship, but what its conclusion came out to be. What good was a fun relationship, if in the end your man, who you loved for a good 3 or so years and invested so much in, does not even stand up for you ONE time to clear up a rumour that is potentially wrecking your entire reputation?

And though I dont believe in all the info in these articles, many differnnt sources started pointing to one common factor. That in the end it was kareena who was trying ot make the relatoinship work. And how long can that last? And the perception that everyone has is soooo OPPOSITE that i just makes my head spin.

She did absolutely NOTHING wrong. Perhaps just moved on a bit quick but that was her RIGHT!

And he could not come out an clear up one bad rumour properly?

Well...he benefitted. But as a woman, despite not being a huge fan of priyanka, I will just say, girl let it go. If a man can grow out of love with one girl, he can do it with another. Priyanka will be shahid's THIRD relationship.

Hrithisha bhatt, Kareena, and then her.

That's the same case with Saif aint it?

Amrita, Rozza and Kareena?

Only difference is, saif managed to amke a marriage that was filled iwth complications work. His parents were unhappy adn disapproaving, yet he still slugged on. The woman was 10 yrs older than him, and that might have been a huge factor in the marriage gone wrong, since women mature faster than men, and saif is already not he most mature guy around, lol.That threw the relationshio off balance. But he took the flak for his deiciosns. He stood up for his actions. He faced the conseqaunces.

Shahid did not. He continued to let ppl perceive him as the angel whlie his ex got the title of the "slut".

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AMREEN RAFIQ

@amz1990

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Posted: 16 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: desigal90
Just for the record, I dont blame shahid for hte breakup. he might have been responsible, it might have been her, or better yet, incompatiblitiy. But I do hold him responsible for the way kareena received all the flak afterwards. And I stated that in my earlier post.
Was it wrong that they broke up? Not necesarrily, ppl break up all the time? Could it be kareena's fault? Most certainly, why not? Coud it be shahid's? Yes could be? Or better yet, could it be the factor of incompatiblity resurfacing after kareena stopped moulding herself to suit him or started finding their midns working in different ways? Yeah. Was it wrong? No, because it could happen to anyone.

Was it wrong that she was painted the villain and now has hate sites dedicated to her for dumping shahid? YES

THAT is certainly wrong. From all perspectives, that is wrong. Kareean took a huge hit to her reputation. God is with this girl coz she's reachign great heights in her career mashallah , and thank god for JWM. She has fans on the sole basis of her talent. Coz if people went for her perceptions offscreen, she would nto survive a moment in the industry. JWM majorly bailed her out, otherwise the way she was projected during the break up competely shook up her fan base. I know so many fans who desserted her coz htey all fell under that same perception. If fans can dessert her, than obviously, neutral bystanders woudl believe it without a doubt.

i have to say maryam i have never read you bad mouthing shahid even though you are a hard core fan of kareena's👏

anyways bak to the post

you are right the break up could be anyones fault, but to blame shahid only because he never said anything would be wrong, i dont know if you remember after they broke up shahid didnt speak to the media for quite a while but when he did, he mentioned that both had their reasons for breaking up i mean the way i see it is that the media thought oh she is a woman she has to be at fault so lets blame her now, the media bombarded us with articles about kareena and what kind of a character she is 😡 so in a way this is the media manipulating the minds of the people and shahid did say that she is not at fault but you know what the desi media is like

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AMREEN RAFIQ

@amz1990

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Posted: 16 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: friends_rock
i feel bad for saif.😳 always the 3RD person is blamed....its not new...angie-brad-jenn -- reese-ryan- abbie cornish ... shahid-kareena-saif

if u see all the 3RD PARTY is blamed...!

yeah i dont see why though its like you cant date anyone without getting attacked😕

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desigal90

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Posted: 16 years ago

#26

What was up with his jilted lover act then? Those sullen faces during award shows. And in pics behind the scenes, he looks fine. Maybe it was the media playing up, but you have to admit, that in the end there, he started making digs and evne members on IF thoguth, whatever shahid move on, let kareena be.

And kareena. SHE'S AN EFFIN MORON! I cant bleeve that I'm a fan of someoen whos' such an emotional fool!! I'm emotional but woman, to not even DEFEND yoruself! WTH IS WRONG WITH YOU!?
All she kept saying was, "as long as my famly and friends know the truth, tat's all that matters".

Or "I've accepted htat fate had this planned for me". She did sound so disilluisionedin the beginning though.

Whenever they asked her about saif and the future, most of her responses were, "Just getting to know saif" or "We'll see where life takes me." one time she even said, "I've learned to stop planning. The only consatnt thing in life is work".

But then what coudl she have said...she did say in stardust that she didnt dump anyone, but no one took it seiorusly. And when she teared up during Mumbai Mirror interview, ppl accused her of being an attetiion seeker and trying to gain sypmpathy. It was a no win situation for her both ways. What could she have said..."Oh no, actually I tried to keep the relationship going, but I guess i was lacking somehwere because shahid drifted away from me. ANd coz i'm so weak, I went itno reboudnwith saif, but its all good".

What was poor Saif's fault? Great, now his rep sucks as well.
Both saif and Kareena are IDIOTS! They should have been liek other couples in bollywood and just kept hteir relationship on the downlow, but their stupid, "live life to the fullest and as honestly as poosibly" mantra got them killed.

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uma

@pikku05

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Posted: 16 years ago

#27

im sorta confuzd after readin thoze articlez ...hey thx 4 poztin saifeenaz biggezt fan,,,,,ur such an adorable fan yaar,,,,,,lollllllllzzzzzzz.i do feel v sry 4 karena if alll thoze articlez 4m variouz inside sourzez r suposedly true,,,,,,,saifeena juzt roxxxxxxxxxx,,,,,,,,,,,,,n finaly they had the lazt laugh watsoever they juz luk perfect,,,,

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desigal90

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Posted: 16 years ago

#28

Thanks Nikita! Hey its mighty sweet of you to be such a cutie!

Hey, I swear upon my saifeena, that I held a very neutral perpsective of htis break up at the start, but after two years of observation both parties, interviews, seeing who's kept the respect up, who's made digs, insider sources, certain articles, I've come to a very strong stand for kareena. She was wronged, and someone has to right it, lol.

I'm just one person ic ant change ppl's perceptions. but i can certainly get the stories I believe in out there and give ppl the option to view the other side.

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Silence

@SecretKhabri420

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Posted: 16 years ago

#29

desigal90, as far I can see u r a Kareena fan, but it doesn't mean that Shahid is the one to blame, nor anyone has the right to discuss their personal life in public, coz it's very personal, I don't know who is the one to blame, but I don't think it's only Shahid, it'ds even Kareena I would say, coz if she trusted the one she loved, she would not doubt him for having relationship with anyone else, as far I can see, she was the first one who moved on with someone else (Saif), but Shahid til date didn't announce officially that he is dating anyone, if he is dating anyone or cheating on Kareena, he would run so far to that girl once that break up happend.......

One thing more, why u didn't make on consideration the articles came against Kareena?, they were far away much than these posts u posted, Shahid started smoking after his break up with Kareena, thought he gave up smoking now, but he was very disturbed, not only articles, but u could even see it on his interviews, even when they went both to Nach Baliye 3 to promote their film (Jab We Met), it's cleary that Shahid is the one who feel sad about the break up, not Kareena at all..........

Would he ever do all this if he doesn't care?........

I think the fact seen on these interviews are much clear.........

Edited by farislove - 16 years ago

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qwww

@qwww

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Posted: 16 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: desigal90
And I care about Priyanka!
I'm not the biggest Priyanka fan,but as a woman, I hope you deserve someone better girl! Atleast a man who stands up for his own descisions and deals with the circumstances that arise rather than letting his ex recieve all the flak. PRIYANKA YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER PLZZZ!!

You'll be his third girl! First hritisiha, then kareena, and now you...is saif that much worse then? lol

Dont really care about who broke it up or why since both have said it was a mutual decision.
But how can you compare a person who has dated 3 girls to Saif who dumped his wife and 2 kids for whatever reason ? Then parade a hot italian girl friend everywhere and then dump her too conveniently when he set his eyes on someone else. I find it ridiculuous that you find every reason to make Saif to be a saint - he used Amrita and dumped her and you make him out to be some hero because he married a woman 10 years older than him. Did you know Amrita supported him thru out his early years when his family had cut him off? And that he said he couldnt pay for child support but had all the money in the world to buy expensive gifts for his then lady love ? When Amrita found out she left the kids with him for awhile. You will not believe these reports because you are a blind fan of him - I can understand and respect your devotion to Kareena but for Saif ? sorry I cant understand why you would try to make up excuses for what he did to his wife.
Shahid maybe the devil in disguise sure but to compare him and Saif in terms of relationship is streching it too far. Do you know how many women Saif has dated ?Sorry but No in this aspect they are not the same.
Also if Shahid's fans are posting slanderous things about Kareena on the web - you being a Kareena fan are also doing almost the same thing right by pullinghim down? Just my opinion no offense meant
You have every right to do this tho but I just think you should'nt complain about people slandering Kareena when you do the same about Shahid.

Edited by qwww - 16 years ago