Why Bani is misunderstood!

This is my personal opinion about why Bani is generally misunderstood by the other HMs.

I don't get why Bani is being judged??

Originally posted by: Briyanikidaig

I don't get why Bani is being judged??

She always has been NEVER has she abused anyone directly. She says it for the situations. We all do let's accept it.

she needs to stop cursing. there is really no justification one can give to condone abusive language

I like her alot but I have to say the rest of the housemates are doing a commendable job of not snapping back at her

if someone says eff u back to her n the argument escalates, she cant say she didnt mean it to try to get out of it.

n I dont like gaurav much but she beco mes extremely rude with him just coz he lets her. no wonder others don't want to talk to her

All that Tough exterior and everything is quite a cover up for her. She says it doesn't affect her but Farak padhta hai Boss! She's a very normal girl from inside. All that tough exterior is what she adopted in her teens and hence is percieved strong but in actual she is one of those who gets emotionally invested very quickly. Abuses are what her venting is all about. I for one don't care about the abuse especially sth like f**k coz it means nothing to me. It's a slang and that's how I take it. Sleeping with Yuvraj's t-shirt and crying with his photo are things that prove the level of emotional investment in her relationship. Guess her dad not being there and her mom's cancer played a part here too. I get it! Her defense mechanism is IDGAF about stuff but she actually does but she's never gonna accept it coz Woh Rait ki deewar nahi ban sakti, usse tut jaane se khauf aata hai.

Originally posted by: StinsonIsHere

All that Tough exterior and everything is quite a cover up for her. She says it doesn't affect her but Farak padhta hai Boss! She's a very normal girl from inside. All that tough exterior is what she adopted in her teens and hence is percieved strong but in actual she is one of those who gets emotionally invested very quickly. Abuses are what her venting is all about. I for one don't care about the abuse especially sth like f**k coz it means nothing to me. It's a slang and that's how I take it. Sleeping with Yuvraj's t-shirt and crying with his photo are things that prove the level of emotional investment in her relationship. Guess her dad not being there and her mom's cancer played a part here too. I get it! Her defense mechanism is IDGAF about stuff but she actually does but she's never gonna accept it coz Woh Rait ki deewar nahi ban sakti, usse tut jaane se khauf aata hai.

I completely agree with u...I can very easily relate to Bani bcoz my behaviour is also like her...I also don't share my feelings with anyone and can become very rude with people if i lose my cool, though I never use slangs.

So much psychological analysis for simple bad behavior. 🤪

Originally posted by: MithiBani

So much psychological analysis for simple bad behavior. 🤪

That's your opinion bro. Koi well established fact nahi hain.
Sab keh rahe hai apni baat. Bade tameez se aur Bina kisi ki beizzati kiye and trust me that seldom happens here toh unhe karne do. Kyu har jagah kurukshetra banana hain.