Why Bani is misunderstood! - Page 3

bani has flaws..

she s not a person who can fit easily in a group..

neither she try to be a part of such a gang...

she has been always like that,,..

carefree and not thinking about what others think about her...

she speaks her mind always...

BUT... apart from all these things she has got a very positive side...

that is emotional attachment with whom she likes... she never let down those people whom she cares about... i have seen bani in her roadies season... many times she proved how much she values her friendship...

in no way i m supporting use of abusive language during a conversation or argument... But now a days even normal convos are having 50% curse words... n those are considered as very normal now... n people are calling it a slang... Thats really sad...

Originally posted by: elektra1

I never said she doesn't have flaws. Nobody is perfect. I feel she is misunderstood and gave my opinion about that.

To me it feels like you are doing some major damage control for Bani.

I respectfully disagree with your points, so to each their own I guess.

Originally posted by: StinsonIsHere

All that Tough exterior and everything is quite a cover up for her. She says it doesn't affect her but Farak padhta hai Boss! She's a very normal girl from inside. All that tough exterior is what she adopted in her teens and hence is percieved strong but in actual she is one of those who gets emotionally invested very quickly. Abuses are what her venting is all about. I for one don't care about the abuse especially sth like f**k coz it means nothing to me. It's a slang and that's how I take it. Sleeping with Yuvraj's t-shirt and crying with his photo are things that prove the level of emotional investment in her relationship. Guess her dad not being there and her mom's cancer played a part here too. I get it! Her defense mechanism is IDGAF about stuff but she actually does but she's never gonna accept it coz Woh Rait ki deewar nahi ban sakti, usse tut jaane se khauf aata hai.

Originally posted by: sallybaby

I wonder why people think cursing everyone and being rude to everyone all the time..(EVEN THE PEOPLE THAT SUPPORT HER)..is okay just because she is "good" underneath.[DIV]
[DIV]Yes I can agree if you're talking about ICDT, i loved her in that show because she seemed really genuine.. But People (not everyone) still supporting her just from that show..I think you need to get your eyes opened and see that she has way too many flaws right now that you cant ignore

Being rude is bad, being foul mouthed is also bad but u need to understand that their is no doodh ka dhula in bigg boss house...she has flaws like any other HM so why bani is bashed more???? bcoz she's foul mouthed, yes it's a bad trait but she abuses in general most of the time, not to an individual...And I didn't even knew bani before bigg boss so plz don't generalise

The brashness, the rude behaviour, the colourful language - it's all a choice - Bani's choice. And she doesn't curse generally - she curses collectively - there is a difference. When you say F*off, and kutte, and D**khead, or make gestures - you're talking to and about people. Cursing when you stub your toe - that's general cursing.

Originally posted by: sallybaby

I wonder why people think cursing everyone and being rude to everyone all the time..(EVEN THE PEOPLE THAT SUPPORT HER)..is okay just because she is "good" underneath.

Yes I can agree if you're talking about ICDT, i loved her in that show because she seemed really genuine.. But People (not everyone) still supporting her just from that show..I think you need to get your eyes opened and see that she has way too many flaws right now that you cant ignore and i hate how the whole of the housemates are not taking it seriously..

Someone needs to put her in her place tbh.

Originally posted by: Sarahbelle

Sorry but I'm just seeing some excuses here. Is it really hard to just accept that Bani has flaws much like any other contestant and that she isn't perfect or misunderstood?

excuses are not reasonable, if u think that TM is giving excuses then plz come with some reasonable points to prove that Bani isn't misunderstood...and no one said that Bani doesn't has flaws and that's why people should stop nitpicking her mistakes.

Originally posted by: MithiBani

So much psychological analysis for simple bad behavior. 🤪

nothing is simple in human behaviour...human beings are complex and so does their behaviour.

Agree! However I think some people just dislike her because of her popularity!

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