Why Bani is misunderstood! - Page 4

Originally posted by: Luna46

excuses are not reasonable, if u think that TM is giving excuses then plz come with some reasonable points to prove that Bani isn't misunderstood...and no one said that Bani doesn't has flaws and that's why people should stop nitpicking her mistakes.

Ultimately it comes across as excuses imo, to justify Bani's negative attitude and behaviour all around. She's even completely rude and obnoxious to her best friend Gaurav sometimes. I don't think you know that there's no nitpicking going on because it's simply an opinion. Not everyone agrees to you.

Originally posted by: Luna46

Being rude is bad, being foul mouthed is also bad but u need to understand that their is no doodh ka dhula in bigg boss house...she has flaws like any other HM so why bani is bashed more???? bcoz she's foul mouthed, yes it's a bad trait but she abuses in general most of the time, not to an individual...And I didn't even knew bani before bigg boss so plz don't generalise

Originally posted by: sallybaby

And I didn't even knew bani before bigg boss so plz don't generalise

I think i made it quite clear that i am only talking about people that liked her from other shows. see bold below

But People (not everyone) still supporting her just from that show..

Anyways you just proved my point..she curses and is rude to everybody !! Even people that didnt do anything wrong to her. I'm not saying she is completely bad. I have seen her bonding with lokesh and i loved how nice she was to her, and i really like the unseen videos of her and gaurav.

But most of the time.even to gaurav she is totally rude, always thinking of herself, never listens to what he says or what anyone says to her.. I mean i can go on and on about her behaviour. Just because that is how she is doesnt make it a good thing..

Anyways I'm done here..I have nothing against bani i used to like her but I think it is my own opinion that i am totally disappointed with her attitude and i'm not liking her now. If that is called bashing then well I guess i have now learnt a new meaning of the word..

@Sarahbelle, sorry I can't quote u bcoz of some technical problems on my phone...I know that using slangs is bad but people are getting too judgemental bcoz of that is wrong IMO...Bani has a flaw of foul mouthing like any other flaw of any HM...And I think nitpicking is going on bcoz:
bani takes a right stand, people say she's a hypocrite when all know that people most of the time become hypocrites while taking stands., that's nitpicking IMO...whatever Bani does, right or wrong, people always see the negative side...and that's wrong IMO...Bani is rude to her friend Gaurav but only sometimes as u said and even Gaurav doesn't have much problem with it...Bani is rude to people at times but not all the time and not everyone but she's judged only bcoz she's foul mouthed...and I've no problem with people not agreeing with my opinion...It's my opinion about people who r getting too judgemental.

if she farts..🤢, they'l say.. "Waah waah..kya badhiya khushbu hai.."😆

Originally posted by: StinsonIsHere

All that Tough exterior and everything is quite a cover up for her. She says it doesn't affect her but Farak padhta hai Boss! She's a very normal girl from inside. All that tough exterior is what she adopted in her teens and hence is percieved strong but in actual she is one of those who gets emotionally invested very quickly. Abuses are what her venting is all about. I for one don't care about the abuse especially sth like f**k coz it means nothing to me. It's a slang and that's how I take it. Sleeping with Yuvraj's t-shirt and crying with his photo are things that prove the level of emotional investment in her relationship. Guess her dad not being there and her mom's cancer played a part here too. I get it! Her defense mechanism is IDGAF about stuff but she actually does but she's never gonna accept it coz Woh Rait ki deewar nahi ban sakti, usse tut jaane se khauf aata hai.

@sallybaby, I'm not whom u r talking about...I had only problem that how u were asking that her rude and foul mouthedness is justified just bcoz she's good underneath...no her rude behaviour and slangs are not good at all but IMO people are getting too judgemental bcoz of her foul mouthedness...many guys use slangs in real life so it shouldn't be a big deal IMO...Bani is rude to everybody but not all the time,...she's too straight forward maybe that seems rude... she may had too many flaws just like any other HM but she also has good qualities which shouldn't be overlooked...and I didn't said that u r bashing bani...it's a generalised statement but well, to each their own.

Originally posted by: MithiBani

So much psychological analysis for simple bad behavior. 🤪

Every fandom is against bani because bani is bajoing all the losers! Good going bani!

Bani does get affected by what people say about her, though she keeps saying she doesn't care. She needs to learn that people cannot be nice to her unless she is nice to them. She keeps swearing, putting people down for the slightest of things, humiliating them...for example "gande log..to nitibha"...Bani could have told Nitibha in a better way that she did not like the idea of throwing tissues on the bed. "Bhuke kutte"...comment...then insulting Lopa for talking while eating...Bani never lets go off any opportunity of demeaning others but she expects others to talk to her politely.She has to understand that she is constantly hurting others with her attitude and language. She is not open to listening and too opinionated for my liking.