Ati ka bhala na bolna, ati ki bhali na choop

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Posted: 12 years ago
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After watching today's episode I realized that Gauhar and Tanisha are but two end of the same spectrum.
Gauhar is liked because she stands up for herself when she thinks she is in the right and Tanisha is liked because she is considered calm and collected under various instances.
On the other hand, Gauhar is disliked because she is extremely dominating and tries to beat her point to the extent that others feel exhausted with and Tanisha is disliked because of her meek, taking flak from her abusive beau and comes across as a doormat.

Point of making this post:
1) NEUTRAL VIEWERS: I am sure there are many people like me, who are not able to adjust to both the ladies. Did I hit the mark?
2) FANS OF BOTH THE LADIES: Did I hit the mark with you too? The reason I stated are those the ones which makes you like or dislike your choice?
3) Are there any who are supporting both the women? This would be really interesting point of view for me!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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In short One degrades a woman by being weak and not standing up to injustice being done to themself or others the other uplifts the spirit of woman by being strong and having a strong view .
I like the 2nd choice . Thanks
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Classic123

In short One degrades a woman by being weak and not standing up to injustice being done to themself or others the other uplifts the spirit of woman by being strong and having a strong view .

I like the 2nd choice . Thanks


My whole point is that...everything when it becomes extreme is bad. Gauhar thinks she is right to the point she strangles everyone around her...even her boy toy kushal.
I am not disrespecting your point, but wrote this as a counter point to yours that Guhar being extremely dominating and anal is no way better than Tanisha being a doormat. Big negatives...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am a nuetral viewer. I do not like both of them, but Tani was better bearable for me, until the doormat thing started. I am just not able to understand it and surely not liking it. As for Gauhr, God has given her everything. looks , brain, smartness, articulation, leadership qualities etc. But still she does not come across as a good human being. There are too many reasons here, but the two most prominent are: she comes across as cruel...her sunshine laughter when Tanisha or even vivek was being badly bullied by her bulldozer. Not cool. And secondly, she lacks the sense that others can have their opinions too and they can be right too.
Ironically both have attached themselves to the worst kind of males that can be and that has been their undoing.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRB_Shonit


Tanisha, when isolated by the Bully gang of Gau-Khu-Kamya-Prats, handled herself EXTREMELY well and with dignity .


That is the main reason I was rooting for her.She was extremely, extremely commendable at that time. She was literally alone and everybody else was attacking her in groups like a pack of wolves. After that week, I couldn't bring myself to support anybody from the wolf gang. But I was amazed at Tani...👏👏👏. I would not have been able to tolerate this even for a single day and she seemed unfazed. I was all out her supporter.
Then came Armaan and rest is history . Why is she allowing him to abuse her so much??

As for Gauhar, even before we could know her real self, she had attached herself to Kushal, who was on his worst behaviour. And she seemed like not only supporting that but encouraging it as well. Hence there was no question of supporting her. Best was even Kamya and Prats were joining Kushal in all that torture.🤢 I think Kushal and the gang's bullying against Vivek was the worst of all seasons,bcz the poor guy did not even provoke them. I could have felt bad for Kushal when Salman bashes him week after week, but I remember Vivek and feel, this is justified.😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRB_Shonit


Anyways, I am giving Gau a chance to redeem herself.. Lets wait for 2/3 episodes how she handles isolation ! But Tanisha and Andy are giving her time now.. She isn't exactly isolated like Tanisha.. 😕

Let's see !

Yup that was on another level altogether. Not to mention, nobody is attacking Guahar viciously in packs like the did to Tani., passing cheap comments and laughing all the time.🤢 One smart move by Armaan and she was in tears.😆 When Tani was isolated, she did not go to this gang to preach them insaniyat, she just kept her poise.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: TarryHesticles

Both are doormats. One is a bheegi billi the other is a khookhar sher. Gauhar says Kushal No No, Tanisha says Armanji Yes Yes ☺️


Couldn't have said it better...😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Gau and Tanisha are much better off the horrible men in their lives !!
Overall, I find Tanisha MUCH more stronger and calm, reserved than Gau.. I prefer women like Tanisha more who has enormous patience level may be because I dont have that quality ! 😆 ..

Tanisha, when isolated by the Bully gang of Gau-Khu-Kamya-Prats, handled herself EXTREMELY well and with dignity .. On the other hand, the similar time has come for Gau now.. We are yet to see if Gau continues her yesterday's attitude throughout or start her usual nagging double-standard horribly loud crying in coming episodes !! Depends on this last bit !!

Kasautii Gaumata ki!😎
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashmytha


That is the main reason I was rooting for her.She was extremely, extremely commendable at that time. She was literally alone and everybody else was attacking her in groups like a pack of wolves. After that week, I couldn't bring myself to support anybody from the wolf gang. But I was amazed at Tani...👏👏👏. I would not have been able to tolerate this even for a single day and she seemed unfazed. I was all out her supporter.
Then came Armaan and rest is history . Why is she allowing him to abuse her so much??

As for Gauhar, even before we could know her real self, she had attached herself to Kushal, who was on his worst behaviour. And she seemed like not only supporting that but encouraging it as well. Hence there was no question of supporting her. Best was even Kamya and Prats were joining Kushal in all that torture.🤢 I think Kushal and the gang's bullying against Vivek was the worst of all seasons,bcz the poor guy did not even provoke them. I could have felt bad for Kushal when Salman bashes him week after week, but I remember Vivek and feel, this is justified.😃


I know right !!

The Vivek incident and also Asif's one was the limit for me !! I hated Dolly Bindra in Season 4 too when she used to constantly irritate a particular contestant like a mad woman ! But that was still tolerable as everyone was with the right person and Dolly could never make a Bully Gang !!

But here OMG ! This GKPK group is like the WORST of the lot.. PoojaB-Sky-Juhi part 2 !🤢

Seriously, I TRULY enjoy Salman's bashing Kuku all the time in weekends ka wow, cuz they these bullies did to Vivek/Asif/Tanisha was NOTHING compared to what's happening to them right now !! It's all Karma ! 😕

Anyways, I am giving Gau a chance to redeem herself.. Lets wait for 2/3 episodes how she handles isolation ! But Tanisha and Andy are giving her time now.. She isn't exactly isolated like Tanisha.. 😕

Let's see !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I dislike Tanisha not becoz she's made herself a doormat. It's her to choice to support or to not support Armaan. If she supports Armaan knowing that he's wrong she should just keep her mouth shut when other housemates confront Armaan. She picks fight with other HM for Armaan and that's why ppl don't like her...
When she knows Armaan is wrong, she should just stay quiet neither opposing him nor defending him...

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