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giakabir

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Posted: 12 years ago

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After watching today's episode I realized that Gauhar and Tanisha are but two end of the same spectrum.

Gauhar is liked because she stands up for herself when she thinks she is in the right and Tanisha is liked because she is considered calm and collected under various instances.

On the other hand, Gauhar is disliked because she is extremely dominating and tries to beat her point to the extent that others feel exhausted with and Tanisha is disliked because of her meek, taking flak from her abusive beau and comes across as a doormat.

Point of making this post:

1) NEUTRAL VIEWERS: I am sure there are many people like me, who are not able to adjust to both the ladies. Did I hit the mark?

2) FANS OF BOTH THE LADIES: Did I hit the mark with you too? The reason I stated are those the ones which makes you like or dislike your choice?

3) Are there any who are supporting both the women? This would be really interesting point of view for me!

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giakabir

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: TarryHesticles
Both are doormats. One is a bheegi billi the other is a khookhar sher. Gauhar says Kushal No No, Tanisha says Armanji Yes Yes ☺️

Couldn't have said it better...😆

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Classic123

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Posted: 12 years ago

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In short One degrades a woman by being weak and not standing up to injustice being done to themself or others the other uplifts the spirit of woman by being strong and having a strong view .

I like the 2nd choice . Thanks

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giakabir

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Classic123
In short One degrades a woman by being weak and not standing up to injustice being done to themself or others the other uplifts the spirit of woman by being strong and having a strong view .
I like the 2nd choice . Thanks

My whole point is that...everything when it becomes extreme is bad. Gauhar thinks she is right to the point she strangles everyone around her...even her boy toy kushal.

I am not disrespecting your point, but wrote this as a counter point to yours that Guhar being extremely dominating and anal is no way better than Tanisha being a doormat. Big negatives...

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gopiManchurian

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: giakabir

My whole point is that...everything when it becomes extreme is bad. Gauhar thinks she is right to the point she strangles everyone around her...even her boy toy kushal.
I am not disrespecting your point, but wrote this as a counter point to yours that Guhar being extremely dominating and anal is no way better than Tanisha being a doormat. Big negatives...

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damned

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Actually, I like them both probably more than all the men in the show.And it is a shame that these two are always pitted against each other,they would have been great best friends and complemented one another.For some reason I this love track is boring and show would have been much better if they had SOs outside.Think Thelma and Louise but, then again that is just me.

These two along with Andy would have taken the show to another level.

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Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Gau and Tanisha are much better off the horrible men in their lives !!

Overall, I find Tanisha MUCH more stronger and calm, reserved than Gau.. I prefer women like Tanisha more who has enormous patience level may be because I dont have that quality ! 😆 ..

Tanisha, when isolated by the Bully gang of Gau-Khu-Kamya-Prats, handled herself EXTREMELY well and with dignity .. On the other hand, the similar time has come for Gau now.. We are yet to see if Gau continues her yesterday's attitude throughout or start her usual nagging double-standard horribly loud crying in coming episodes !! Depends on this last bit !!

Kasautii Gaumata ki!😎

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I am a nuetral viewer. I do not like both of them, but Tani was better bearable for me, until the doormat thing started. I am just not able to understand it and surely not liking it. As for Gauhr, God has given her everything. looks , brain, smartness, articulation, leadership qualities etc. But still she does not come across as a good human being. There are too many reasons here, but the two most prominent are: she comes across as cruel...her sunshine laughter when Tanisha or even vivek was being badly bullied by her bulldozer. Not cool. And secondly, she lacks the sense that others can have their opinions too and they can be right too.

Ironically both have attached themselves to the worst kind of males that can be and that has been their undoing.

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blue-ice.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Just want to say one thing...that the calmness of Tanisha comes from the fact that she knows that she is being protected by Salman...Anyone in her place would be calm...not a big deal...

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