'I spoke out of turn.' - Tanisha - Page 14

Originally posted by: milindrose

it is bloody gaming now in bb which has made her do n behave like this n i hate her for all such👎🏼

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

So, you are saying he matches her stature, right? Also you feel the age is making her accept things she normally won't accept.

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He dosen't match her stature strictly except that he is from the industry, knows the people like she does. But he is not a successful actor, nor is she but having kajol and Ajay devgan as family, people do view her in high regard.

financially i feel he is better off then her, although she has produced 100 crore films but we know its only for the credits. i think it's the money part that appeals to her, i know it sounds crude but thats how a lot of people think ,so she is okey with his behaviour.

even if you observe their behaviour armaan treats her like a buddy, while she is always touch feely.

if you remember them in hell side he was very uncomfortable that she would even sit on his bed.

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

You never know. Your Abbas Mustan spin on Tanisha might come true. I would be so happy if that happens!
You're saying Tanisha's self esteem is in question being under the shadow of her sister's fame and success. Also, that she is using the loyalty card to cover up her poor judgements. Fair enough.

You also say that things started going bad for her and she took refuge in Armaan's company. Here, I would like to say that things were going well for Tanisha before the whole egg incident happened where she picked fights for Armaan with people for not giving him an egg. Reference to yellowflower's thread giving a summary on this. I think its either on the same page as this reply or a page back.

You also say Armaan is her ego healer. But isn't he the one bruising it the most? Won't it be better to stick to the other HMs who will never treat her that way even if they don't massage her ego?

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Right. So you're going for the "blind love" angle. Fair enough. But my question is that aren't there layers underneath this obsession of a person towards another? A reason for this dependence? A need that has remained unfulfilled and is not seeking any means to be fulfilled?

I feel that people with normalcy in their surroundings do not go for a relationship that hits their self esteem. They know that is unhealthy and they are comforted by their belief in their self. Its people who have some underlying need that has remained unfulfilled and is seeking fruition, maybe some incidence or a trauma or social conditioning or immediate environment, that makes them acquiesce to these relationships.

Would you agree on this?

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Theek hai aapke views. But my question is WHY? Why do you think Tanisha aisa kar rahi hai? Neutral hoke ek baar socho.

Originally posted by: mileekhan

Why is it so hard to decode? If her behaviour has left us to wonder cluelesly then she has definitely played her cards well. Call it "Obsession", "sevak performance", "blind love", "masochism","co-dependence","subservience"...

She is a smart enough to know what she is doing. It has been her strategy from the start to stick to a relationship angle and move ahead. She knows she has survived this far only because of her link up with armaan and thinks it will take her till the end. Winning or not atleast she will end up with moolah she is so desperately after. Family stature, self respect, doesn't matter to her clearly or else she would have backed off long back. No girl in her right mind would go for a man like armaan and this fact will eternally remain true so chill she is just playing her game her way.

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Wow, very nice post 👏 You have given the perfect summary of Tanisha's behaviour from the beginning and the fateful connection that she made with Armaan that have fueled this discussion.

Going by what you have highlighted, Armaan started wooing Tanisha for the show and she fell for him hard cuz many people have agreed here that Armaan can be charming or a master manipulator. She found Armaan strong enough to be with her and protect her and went against the rest to make her regard for him obvious. This alienated her from the rest and this feeling has happened somewhere.

Your points say

- fear of isolation
- infatuation with Armaan
- mutual agreement to play the game together
- attraction towards dominating males

Read this, people, for the sequence of events and changing nature of Tanisha in the show