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Posted: 11 years ago
Right, so people its 5:00 AM and contrary to my belief that I will sleep early, I totally suck at keeping such promises. I will hold all you lovely people here, who have the most amazing minds around when given such a setting, responsible for this error on my part.

I am hooked on the amount of response and views I have got here. A big BIG round of applause!! You people didn't kill each other and I got a very nice few hours of intense discussion 😆

So, I am signing off for tonight (however much is left). It is my request that you continue this discussion as long as you wish to. Will try to reply to all tomorrow.

PLEASE DON'T FIGHT ON THIS THREAD.

IF ANY MEMBER IS DOING SO, DO NOT REPLY AND CONTINUE THE UNPLEASANTNESS. HIT REPORT OR BACK OUT OF THE DISCUSSION TILL I COME ONLINE AGAIN.

Thank you, guys. See you tomorrow 🤗
Edited by gurl-enchanted - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
Is it possible that she started out with all the right arguments and now feels it is too late to make the change, maybe is afraid of the consequences hence goes along pretending all is well??
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Diva-In-Armor

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I haven't read much on the thread, but one thing I like about gurl_enchanted is that even after being a Gau fan, she is very balanced and neutral with others including Tanisha. Such maturity and sensibility haven't been seen from any Tanman fans or even few self-proclaimed neutral folks of the forum. People can be blind in love or hate for these contestants, but not many can be fair even after having their fair share of bias. Glad she fits in the later category

So three cheers to you. It just shows the "class" and "caliber" of certain fans 😆
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Thank you, Diva. I am very much honoured 🤗 I find you as good a writer as you find me.

But I do not want any "fan" talk here. It just leads to more unpleasantness cuz someone might take offense over those comments and I do not want that just when people have managed so many pages without fights.

You can keep the part praising me (cuz I am a sucker for compliments 😆) but its my request to edit your post of the rest. Hope you understand :-)
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Posted: 11 years ago
Ok let me start from the start.
At the beginning Tanisha and Arman were not very close to each other infact Arman sort of disliked the fact the Tanisha became captain twice and he didnt become captain.

Every one was trying to be in the good books of Tanisha and Shilpa and Tanisha were almost instantly best friends on the heaven side.

Next Arman started wooing Tanisha with cheesy line likes subah subah aapka chehra dekhne ki aadat ho gayee hai , ghar jaake baht miss karunga.

Tanisha fell for Arman and she was heard saying I am very loyal "I am loyal to fault" .

She starts lusting Arman. I am not saying lusting is bad. I am saying it in a positive way.

Next some keeda starts dancing in her mind and all her rational thinking flew out of the window.
She started behaving partial and asked everyone to wish for Arman ji to transfer to heaven side in wishing wall and sends Andy to hell side inspite of Andy being the best performer in task.

Then the famous Arman ji ka Anda episode happened when Arman was locked in a cage for 9-12hours and he couldn't eat breakfast on time. After he is unlocked Shilpa serves his breakfast without eggs because already the money minting task started and hell side was supposed to buy food from heaven side.

Tanisha got furious about Arman's breakfast and started being all vindictive with everyone and alienates herself from others.

Rest is all history.

What I think is Arman do not love Tanisha. He is started using her to be in the game as majority contestants wanted to be in Tanisha's good book. On the other hand Tanisha somehow fell for him and lost all rational thinking. She likes to be dominated in relationship and Arman does that to her.

Or both Tanisha and Arman decided to play this game for footage.

But I think first option is more realistic as I don't think Tanisha is so low that she will stoop like this for footage.


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Damn it. Your example reminded me of me four years back. I was going through a breakup when this guy gave me lots of attention and care and I fell hard for all the good things cuz he was extremely nice. Then few months later, he started going psychotic and I ignored it thinking he is nice na otherwise and all. Made excuses till he broke up and I ended up begging him to come back ONCE. The moment those words left my lips, I was stunned at what level I had fallen to for this guy. That was like a bucket of ice water. Needless to say, I emerged a stronger person and never tolerate rubbish from any man anymore. In fact, this dude begged me to call him but I never bothered 😆 So by personal experience, I am getting her a little. However, I am a person who can't stand abuse. The dude was psychotic but not physically or mentally. So its not similar to what Armaan is.


aww i totally get what u mean.
and ur right one cant just start taking action at the 1-2 incidents but once it becomes a habit and u feel ur losing urself action should be taken.
and many people have said now whats the use only a few weeks are left and everyone hates her, but i say better late than never. if other HMs see her speaking out against armaan they will def support her. and she has andy by her side for sure. even sangram and kamya to an extent!
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: silverbug

Do Tanisha's facial contortions bother anyone ? She makes this really fake looking expression with squinted eyes when Salman takes her side and then she is giving all these sarcastic expressions when Gauhar / Kushal get bashed.


Sometimes I wonder if Tanisha is using Armaan to get ahead in the game as oppose to the other way round. No way in hell a woman this smart will allow herself to get abused in such a blatantly obvious manner. Yeh konsi game hai ?😕


yes many times ive felt she's tooo clever to be used by someone like this but she's losin her self respect to such an extent that i find it difficult to accept a woman can do that😲
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Posted: 11 years ago
IDK but I feel like Tanisha thinks that he is her only support altogether, because everyone has some or another problem with her. Their families come from the same place, like when Arman said your family won't come to see you and mine won't like there is some connection there. i really don't know, but he was the one who started this whole thing. Im also guessing they both know each other from before the show prolly. But yea basically I think she believes that he will be the only "constant" supporter to her no matter what happens in the show.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Excellent , thought provoking thread gurl-enchantedji on the topic. You have managed it very well keeping everyone focussed on the issue at hand. Else it would have turned into nasty fan war in no time.
Being Abbas mustan fan, i thought this strange, unnatural love story in its final reel will reveal some twists with great comeback from rebellious Tani when she pays Armaan handful in his currency. I already ordered a carton load of popcorns, but alas looks like they will be wasted on cheesy romance of gaushala. I think i gave tani more credit than due.

I find tani a reserved lady , a muggle blood always in shadows of her sister which harmed her self-esteem irreparably. She had easy life, all decisions taken for her and looked after. Her being proud to be loyal to the fault is just her excuse to cover up her poor "independent" decisions in life.

Coming to BB, she enjoyed lot of support in first few weeks mainly due to her big family halo, but as this is a game, cracks are bound to form. IShe was unable to adjust to change of weather when things started going against her and her bruised muggle ego took a shelter in only other royal, abusive armaan. It feels classier to be insulted by srk than chunky by some warped thinking. Funnily, her own stand for armaan was the main reason for inclemental weather to begin with. But it could have been any other excuse in a game of one-upmanship.

The lady was unable to cope up with resistance and sided more and more with foul mouthed armaan who was content to play a lone game. But then it was his way or high way. She clung to him, content in morsel of affection. She learnt ways to pacify him, to make his majesty laugh and she took pride in this "achievement". Armaan, a frustrated bitter man, had ready justifications for all failures in his life which he cordially extended to her for her own use and now she found a new friend,ego healer.
Its always easy to look down upon someone than to make some one look upto you. She has now lost all her sensibilities to Armaan as he provides comforting answers for her shortcomings. This will continue till the end and once out, the family will take another decision for her and Armaan will be forgotten forever.

I may be completely wrong. I cant bear to watch the way she has projected herself on this show. Hope she gets well soon.
Edited by atkt - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Vsoujanya

IDK but I feel like Tanisha thinks that he is her only support altogether, because everyone has some or another problem with her. Their families come from the same place, like when Arman said your family won't come to see you and mine won't like there is some connection there. i really don't know, but he was the one who started this whole thing. Im also guessing they both know each other from before the show prolly. But yea basically I think she believes that he will be the only "constant" supporter to her no matter what happens in the show.


I agree. Bw ties, connection has brought her closer to him.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: yellowflower

Ok let me start from the start.

At the beginning Tanisha and Arman were not very close to each other infact Arman sort of disliked the fact the Tanisha became captain twice and he didnt become captain.

Every one was trying to be in the good books of Tanisha and Shilpa and Tanisha were almost instantly best friends on the heaven side.

Next Arman started wooing Tanisha with cheesy line likes subah subah aapka chehra dekhne ki aadat ho gayee hai , ghar jaake baht miss karunga.

Tanisha fell for Arman and she was heard saying I am very loyal "I am loyal to fault" .

She starts lusting Arman. I am not saying lusting is bad. I am saying it in a positive way.

Next some keeda starts dancing in her mind and all her rational thinking flew out of the window.
She started behaving partial and asked everyone to wish for Arman ji to transfer to heaven side in wishing wall and sends Andy to hell side inspite of Andy being the best performer in task.

Then the famous Arman ji ka Anda episode happened when Arman was locked in a cage for 9-12hours and he couldn't eat breakfast on time. After he is unlocked Shilpa serves his breakfast without eggs because already the money minting task started and hell side was supposed to buy food from heaven side.

Tanisha got furious about Arman's breakfast and started being all vindictive with everyone and alienates herself from others.

Rest is all history.

What I think is Arman do not love Tanisha. He is started using her to be in the game as majority contestants wanted to be in Tanisha's good book. On the other hand Tanisha somehow fell for him and lost all rational thinking. She likes to be dominated in relationship and Arman does that to her.

Or both Tanisha and Arman decided to play this game for footage.

But I think first option is more realistic as I don't think Tanisha is so low that she will stoop like this for footage.



I think she is looking at armaan for a long term thing, cuz he is loaded (we have heard him boasting) and she 36.

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