'Loving' your hubby, but not respecting his decision? - Page 2

for me as a wife she was right...

Nobody can cry so much just for drama/trp. It was a spontaneous reaction in shock.
Once she calms down she will realise that she overreacted. Honestly they are a sweet couple who probably consult each other for desicions. even I would have been shocked if my husband had to suddenly get this hairstyle and would have def wanted to suggest my input on that!

@ TM agree with u..





and I think as soon as she speaks to apurva she will b ok with it, lets see!!

Originally posted by: littlesmile

I think she doing all this to bring apu to heaven by showing them he did such a sacrifice.As ratan is having high chances to go to heaven she wants to overshadow her task by creating all this drama 😉 Apu is not a kid if he took the decision then why is she over reacting ? 🥱

totally agree with you,i was thinking the same shilpa is playing the smartest game in the house showing herself soo sweet with everybody🥱

She likes it or not its her personal choice just coz half the forum think its okay she doesn't hv to feel it that way
Though her reaction was little too much she could firmly deny this rather than doing this tamasha
Saying that when I am angry even I scream and yell but not national tv so if I am in her shoes I don't know what reaction will be
Shilpa defo is going to get sympathy votes now ratan crowding might be overshadowed unfortunately

Originally posted by: josh135

Its not about control...Its about protecting him from shit things...bigg boss is at fault for getting this outrageous task...but obviously people are gonna get a lot of entertainment and trps are going to be sky rocketing coz of shilpas reaction also..added thing..no wonder they selected apurva !! they kind of wanted to see shilpas reaction coz she loves him a lot...very sad ...

I think Shilpa and Apoorva have a very dysfunctional relationship. She's too domineering and commanding, while he tries too hard to perpetually please her. It doesn't seem balanced and healthy at all.

That being said, I don't think Shilpa was being disrespectful' at all. Granted she was overdramatic and needlessly hysterical. Her behavior was completely uncalled for. But her crazy-ass behavior aside - as a wife she likes her husband in a certain way. She finds it unfair that she has to cut his locks for a task. Her anger is not at Apoorva's decision, but the fact that BB required it of him.

I've seen many women get mad at their boyfriends/husbands when they decide to cut off/grow beards, moustaches and hair - even on a voluntary basis. That doesn't mean they disrespect them or don't love them. It's just that when you are used to seeing someone in one way, change is jarring.

When I was a little girl, my dad started growing a beard - and I started refusing to even hug him because I didn't like it. Stopped loving him or started disrespecting him - No. Just stubborn in how I wanted dad to be. And there's a stubborn kid in all of us.

her reaction is overexaggerated but even i dont like such a hairstyle either

I'm not a rabid fan of anyone this season, but I think Shilpas reaction was bang on normal. Anybody seeing their loved one would have spoken against it. Just like Kamya had a reaction for the gobar task. And also, I'm sure she got back to normal, but it's a shock right, for a wife to see her husband being forced to get his hair cut, and he prob really loves that crazy hair of his, and his wife knows it. Give her a break, it's a human reaction. Has nothing to do with trusting your husband. Come on.

I think her reaction was normal coz firstly she is his wife and to see ur hubby loose his hair over a stupid task is a big thing secondly he is an actor and it's all abt appearances for an actor, this cut will take another round of cutting and months to be back in proper shape and that's a valid reason for being angry