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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sorry Cruiser for once I do not support your stand looking at the episode itself is not quiet enough just look at this video which was not featured in the main episode.

http://colors.in.com/in/biggboss/videos/elli-wants-to-slap-armaan-day-5sneak-peek3-44915-14.html#nav

Observe through 48s to 51s it is very clear she was not enjoying what was going on.
Edited by kaushikbasu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: alexstar



Much needed purva!
@ topic Armaan was on the wrong side. his mazak went overboard! ! if my guy friend says that he will gimme chumma or kapde faad dunga...then I would never ever be friends with that pervert again..btw if he was my friend he would not have insulted me like that. .Cruiser ji I do have punjabi guy friends but they always knew their limits. .I don't think it depends on the region you come from entirely. .it's the upbringing I guess 😊

Edit: pratyusha ki toh baat hi nahi karni...why should not a girl say thappad maarungi if she felt bad with a guys behaviour? weird girl..such girls spoil them..and so what if he's buzurg? ? ? we all have right to stop a person if he/she is wrong irrespective of the age.so what if he's forty or hundred years old??...



@BOLD: haha,,,,,,,hell no!...For God's sake don't think for a moment what I meant there is "Punjabi men are like that'! ...That line was merely for a smile! Had Armaan been a Bihari, Bhojpuri, Bengali, Telugu, Marathi, UPite or from some other part of India, I would have modified it accordingly!😛

Mindsets are same more or less, all over India. Its ridiculous to even consider that hormones rage more in a particular region of India.

Just 2 weeks ago, an Andhra Software Engineer, a grown up man of 48 years, has been arrested in US for groping and fondling a 65 year old American co passenger during a domestic flight in US, has been sentenced to 10 month imprisonment and is going to get deported after 10 months!...🤢

...Haalat kharaab hai Indian males ki...kaheen ka bhi ho...kaheen bhi ho! 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
#73
Arman was wrong in my opinion
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Rather than pointing a finger at Ellie stating she should have drawn a line I want o know why even such lewd comments are made to begin with. Just because a girl smiles politely and talks doesn't mean she is giving all and sundry the licence to talk crudely to her. Where is the guys manners? A girl shouldn't have to tell him to watch his language, he should be raised well enough and know well enough what is acceptable and what is not when talking to a female. Especially on a public platform like BB. Even if he felt encouraged by the girl or his friend (Pratyusha), he has independent brains and should have been more dignified. His language even today when fighting with Gauhar and Kushal was deplorable. All his class comes from being a big producers son and ends there. He thinks he is better than the tv stars that are not his friends. No hit wonder!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Picasso9

Rather than pointing a finger at Ellie stating she should have drawn a line I want o know why even such lewd comments are made to begin with. Just because a girl smiles politely and talks doesn't mean she is giving all and sundry the licence to talk crudely to her. Where is the guys manners? A girl shouldn't have to tell him to watch his language, he should be raised well enough and know well enough what is acceptable and what is not when talking to a female. Especially on a public platform like BB. Even if he felt encouraged by the girl or his friend (Pratyusha), he has independent brains and should have been more dignified. His language even today when fighting with Gauhar and Kushal was deplorable. All his class comes from being a big producers son and ends there. He thinks he is better than the tv stars that are not his friends. No hit wonder!

Totally agree with you but then it is very uncommon to find common sense.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

Sorry Cruiser for once I do not support your stand looking at the episode itself is not quiet enough just look at this video which was not featured in the main episode.


http://colors.in.com/in/biggboss/videos/elli-wants-to-slap-armaan-day-5sneak-peek3-44915-14.html#nav

Observe through 48s to 51s it is very clear she was not enjoying what was going on.



Unfortunately, I can not access the Vids posted on COLORS website. 😲

Not accessible for Russia and Central Asia region! 😕

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Posted: 12 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: SoPunk

@Cruiser - Completely agree with you. I also feel IF is highly OTT on the issue. It's a kind of preaching to Ellie rather than Aarman, that she shouldn't be ok with it.


it's a conversation of three friendly persons that didn't go well with Ellie, initially and that might also be miss communication & miss judgement due to cultural differences...

By this standard, Omresh puri should be responsible for 50% of the rapes that happen in India today.

It was not even a serious issue for the other contestants who witnessed it, as much as it was on IF...the incident has been stretched too much beyond it's merit.


Every human are different to react a situation. We cant draw an analogy on the basis of reaction of an individual among a group , sometime someone is smiling in her/his face even she/he feel humiliated , If one cant react on a situation that does not mean she or he enjoying it , one cant able to express in a situation due to many factors .

So it is irrelevant how a contestant react to an humiliation , clearly Armaan crossed a limit which should be strongly denounced ,Clearly the lewd comment drag towards a most pathetic comment which bluntly indicating rape . Rape is serious crime like any other heinous crimes, so instead take casually it should be strongly slammed and atleast BB should show some symbolic punishment , which will never happen by considering the tharki BB. Instead considering it is OTT , these type of reaction should be required and well deserved when someone pass such type of comment,
Edited by ramjaane - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey friends, everybody know that Armaan was wrong. Cruiserji has also acknowledged that Armaan should haven't used that phrase, "kiss kar deta hu ya kapree phaar deeta hu."
Although he has apologized for his actions and comments but to me it is not good enough. Each time he uses foul language towards women (Gauhar, Elli) and gets away with it. I think there should be some severe consequences for that kind of language/behaviour.
Today I was expecting Salman Khan to grill Armaan but I think BB 7 script didn't allow him to do so. May be creatives want to add some spice in the show.
Hey I also come from Punjabi background. 😆 and have spent some 18 years in schools, colleges and universities all over the world but never got any complaint against my behaviour or conduct.😆 Number of women repot to me at our manufacturing facility and I have never crossed that fine line but I do cut jokes as majority of Punjabis do.😆
I think Cruiserji has always been very respectful and polite to all our female members and he does respect women contestants on the show. He was just trying to come up with another Funny post, that's all. Keep up the good work Cruiser ji. Please try to avoid these sensitive and contagious issues in future.😉
Edited by JasToronto - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Cruiser-



Ayaan...I am not here to DEFEND or PROSECUTE any contestant.😊

For me all of them are paid entertainers who are paid, ...and perform on TV, so that I watch an hour's episode, and get entertained, just like all of you get entertained by their acts and antics.😛

I merely offer an observation. Its up to friends here to see merit in that or point out that my observance is at variance from what they perceive as reality!

As for your points...no, you are not correct. This 'Chhammak-Chhallo' bit was edited out from episode.

Check karo oopar se neeche was Pratyusha's comment and she was the one rolling her eyes up and down all over Elli's body. Someone even pointed out here that even when Pratyusha said this, Armaan's gaze was fixed at Elli's face only. You can re-run the episode again to verify.

Yes, I condemn this "Ya toh kiss kar deta hoon, ya kapde phaad deta hoon' dialogue. That was weird and totally avoidable!👎🏼


just because something was edited that dosent mean that it didntt happened look at the this video

http://colors.in.com/in/biggboss/videos/elli-wants-to-slap-armaan-day-5sneak-peek3-44915-14.html#nav

look at the expressions yuck and i know that pratiyusha said it but then armaan was doing that literally

i personally think that elli was clear enough but maybe we disagree on that

but every "normal" person should see how uncomfortable elli was at the moment



ps: i normally love your posts but on this i completly disagree with you

Edited by ayaan786 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayaan786

just because something was edited that dosent mean that it dosent happened look at the this video

http://colors.in.com/in/biggboss/videos/elli-wants-to-slap-armaan-day-5sneak-peek3-44915-14.html#nav



I feel like kicking COLORS...they do not make Vids available for Russian side...😡





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