Arman vs. Ellie - Page 19

I seriously hope nobody used the report button! For that discussion!!😕

Originally posted by: BB6_fan

I'm so delighted at having stumbled in on this thread where all jibes were good natured and taken sportingly (barring a few honorable exceptions-OF COURSE!)

The fricking Alpha male dude and the issues it raised led to some really hot tempered, abusive responses on Cruiser's thread (Yeah RIGHT-your favorite, BossB, and the WORST offender on his own thread!) So much so that for the first time-I think-one of HIS threads was closed down due to his intemperate personal attacks on "feminists" whom he called lecherous lesbians and piranhas. REALLY!! I am so NOT kidding! I was afraid to enter this thread-fearing vileness flying around!

So I was REALLY pleasantly surprised to land in this oasis of good sense! Congrats to all three of you who kept it good, calm, informative WITH a sense of humor...it was a real pleasure to watch the matching of wits, though, dare I say-the ladies kinda won...KUDOS Mansi and DIA!

PS-@ DIA=Your writing style is SO familiar-I wish I could guess your previous ID!

Thank you, thank you. I am glad our purpose of bullying each other came across as clear as we had intended 😆 And I know, I know, we clearly won, but let's not hurt BossB's alpha male ego with the obvious 😆

As for the unbolded part, no comments since someone seems to be actually irked with your comments (Mod note, Mod note). Only thing I'll say is that someone who keeps judging the members of the forum for their comments shouldn't be preaching about not judging these characters on screen when the purpose of the show is all about making swift judgments of these housemates and see the future unwrap in terms of their personality and struggle, Psychology 101. Oh no look what have I done, I am sure someone is itching to moral police me on how I should be watching this show 😆

PS bit: You won't be the first one, someone thinks I am "Maya" and the other thinks I am "Chandramukhi". Let's see what you come up with 😆

Originally posted by: mansimat

I seriously nobody used the report button! For that discussion!!😕

Oh Manimat, you are too naive. How can you forget "stalkers" who get irked with every so called "feminist" post 😉

LOL, I mean if someone reported stuff from where our discussions started, I am going to lose it!! All my good sense n objectivity n logic goes out of the window n out come the #$%^&**&^%$##$%^& and the !#$%^&*(* and the 🤬... 🤣 🤣

N what's funny is I myself criticized Prats to the highest degree, despite being her big fan! And in spite of Prats being a 'woman'.

Originally posted by: mansimat

N what's funny is I myself criticized Prats to the highest degree, despite being her big fan! And in spite of Prats being a 'woman'.

Oh Mansi, you think logic and balance can help you outta this tag, Nope, never, Nah 😆 Say anything against an alpha man and his wrong action and you are automatically a feminist along with a misandrist who hates all the men. I mean if that's the case, we need to start hating BossB as well or do we not hate him already 😉😆

Originally posted by: Diva-In-Armor

Thank you, thank you. I am glad our purpose of bullying each other came across as clear as we had intended 😆 And I know, I know, we clearly won, but let's not hurt BossB's alpha male ego with the obvious 😆

As for the unbolded part, no comments since someone seems to be actually irked with your comments (Mod note, Mod note). Only thing I'll say is that someone who keeps judging the members of the forum for their comments shouldn't be preaching about not judging these characters on screen when the purpose of the show is all about making swift judgments of these housemates and see the future unwrap in terms of their personality and struggle, Psychology 101. Oh no look what have I done, I am sure someone is itching to moral police me on how I should be watching this show 😆

PS bit: You won't be the first one, someone thinks I am "Maya" and the other thinks I am "Chandramukhi". Let's see what you come up with 😆

Originally posted by: BossB

You really think my ego is so fragile that it would be hurt by certificates of victories issued by anonymous posters on the internet? 🤣

I haven't budged an inch from my original position that while the "devil" erred in overstepping the limits of decency, the incident was blown out of proportion by posters here who were out to lynch him.

Where's the question of someone winning or losing? I didn't come here to win brownie points but to express an unpopular opinion because I genuinely felt that once he had apologised and the apology was accepted, the matter was resolved and done with..and that there was no need to project him as a monster deserving of being lynched.

The issue of winning or losing would have arisen, if someone was defending him and blaming the girl for the incident. But after reading all the 29 pages of Naag Man thread, I found that there wasn't a single person who defended Armaan, including Cruiser who kept repeating that he condemns the incident. The only ones defending him - the 13% who have voted for him - were missing from the discussion. (FYI, I voted for Ellie, not Arman..you can ask the mods if you don't believe me. So technically, I was on your side😆)

So what was the big fight all about?

My perception - one group arguing that lets not get hysterical over the incident and move on Vs another group arguing that the incident deserves severest possible condemnation running over 55 pages of the forum.😆

Your perception - one group being holier-than-thou and preaching non-judgement while being judgemental themselves Vs another group which has taken the correct stand but is being unfairly castigated as being a lynch mob by the other group.

How can anyone win or lose when we perceive the discussion differently and use a different lingo to define ourselves? But, anyway, if you girls feel so pleased about your imaginary "win" and want to keep congratulating each other and do high-fives and want to dance and party over it, keep doing so for 10 more pages, just don't imagine there is someone at the other end who is sulking and licking his wounds. 😆

LOL, so if the anonymous posters congratulating each other doesn't bother you, why this long essay justifying it all 😆

Ufff, aakhir ego beech main aa hi jata hain that took over the funny bone of certain some 😆 No worries even if someone is sulking and licking the wounds, we know how to turn a blind eye and not rub salt to his wounds 😆

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

Elli Wants to Slap Armaan
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_x-Ghx1XFU[/YOUTUBE]

Here is for everybody to see what is missed out Thanks to sscomp32 for uploading it in youtube

Ok from video it is clear that elli felt uncomfortable and she didnt like armans comment. Yes if armaan would have choosen his words carefully.But he also made clear that it was all in fun. I feel that Elli should have showed him discomfort right there rather than sobbing and crying later to others - actually thats sign of WEAK women(and sets bad example TOO). Anyways not defending naag arman he might be wrong because the words he choose (even though it was in fun) , but how does it make sense to call arman - MCP when Prats was laughing there , doesn't that make prats who is herself women wrong as well. I would like to tag such women WEAK .In this case I would also blame prats and elli just bz they cant voice out their discomfort if they felt so right away. INFACT this kind of behavior encourages other person to carry on the behaviour. If one sets limit for other person then such things wouldn't happen at first. Take stand for yourself and set good example of being strong women. Women doesnt seem strong when they crib cry and create drama...but is strong when they voice their opinion logically. So in this case both were wrong. Arman in saying what he said and Elli for not setting limits and voicing her opinion. If Arman is labelled as MCP , then what should Elli n prats be called in this case.

@Mansi: I have to say your thread has been a good base of discussion till now. I can't believe it is still irking few members of the forum who are out to ruin it by using someone else's shoulder to shoot their bullets 😉

Irking those members = Mission accomplished 🥳

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@Sarasingh: If you go through the thread, Pratyusha has been called out just as much as Armaan, may be even more. As for rest of your arguments, will reply later or may be Mansi will.