Upen has totally ruined it for himself!! - Page 2

I agree completely with the TM. Uppen should have realized that painting himself in such light is not a good idea to revive his career. Instead of completely losing it, Uppen could have marketed himself as a clam, composed, and sensible man who is sincere and hardworking. I do not think anybody will bother him after saying that he is naturally a good man but also a bit introverted. Par usko toh Gautum jaise banna tha! Ab bano hero! Uppen toh sirf ek zero hi reh gaya.

I would like to dedicate him a song:

Mera career flp tha voh fflop hi reh gaya,

Joh bhi chaha, attitude sang beh gaya!

Originally posted by: ms.red_bird

Upen has totally lost sight of what he wanted to achieve from Bigg Boss. His aim was to revive his bollywood career!! He wasted the initial weeks by hiding in his bed being a teddy bear for the girl and living it up doing what he enjoys - being a casanova! He thought by being a casanova he will emerge as the hero but oh boy was he sadly mistaken!!

In the meanwhile Gautam emerged as the entertaining one and the hero of the house. Even his haters have to appreciate his resilience if nothing else. Slowly and gradually it hit Upen hard that he is not the hero - infact he is a nobody. In his head he is gods gift to (wo)mankind but nobody really cares about him outside the house.

Gautam Ali Pritam Praneet Puneet even Arya created their own unique personalities - good bad is debatable but each one of them has a very distinct and strong personality.

Gautam - The Hero

Praneet - The sensible mature one

Pritam - The funny man

Punz - Shatir villain

Ali - Clown of the house

Arya - Innocent childlike

Each week Gautam got praised for being the hero and Upen started feeling more and more jealous. Agar koi positive mindset wala insaan ho to he would focus on improving himself and enhancing his own personality. But he started imitating Gautam - trying to replace him! Proven baat hai nobody can copy anyone and succeed. Jis tarha SRK ek hi hai Salman ek hi hai Amitabh ek hi hai waise hi people who find there own distinct personality succeed. Upen ko kon samjhaye yeh baat.

When his copying did not work he started feeling more and more resentment towards gautam and issi mei he started plotting against him. But karma is a bitch. Jo khadda yeh gautam ke liye khodta hai usmei khud hi gir jaata hai hamesha. His consistent string of failures is frustrating him more and more to the point where now he has lost the plot totally and has no idea what to do next.

Ab baat iske ego pe agayi hai and instead of admitting he went wrong and turning a new leaf he is being as obstinate as a donkey and ussi raaste pe chalta ja raha hai. Sabse bari seekh to Gautam se isko yeh leni chahiye that criticism kaise lete hain and how you improve yourself.

His second mistake (also the biggest and most costly) is how he behaves with Salman. I am not talking about what he says as in the content but the way he says it. His tone and body language are all very arrogant as if he is mocking Salman. Gauhar bhi head on Salman se panga leti thi but wo argue karti thi apne point pe - she never showed him any attitude. Itna to Kushal bhi nai karta tha. For the longest time Salman ignored it and mazak mazak mei Upen ki leg pulling karke wo maan leta tha ke hisaab barabar but now clearly Salman has had enough. He just cannot stand Upen any longer and I cant blame him. Had I been in his place I would have blasted Upen by now.

The thing is Upen ki yeh harkaten aur yeh attitude dekh ke no one from the industry would want to work with him. I am sure Salman is not so farigh to tell others not to work with Upen but the thing is industry mei humility takes you far and arrogance kills you. Sab ko nazar araha hai Upen ka attitude. Which director would want to work with him? Ek to koi hero wali baat nai doosra itna dimaag kharab aur attitude teesra when he is not respecting SUPERSTAR Salman on national television then all directors would think ke yeh humen kya respect karega!

Upen is one person who has done more harm to himself than benefit from this show!

I think you guys are winding it over tight, here.

Lemm'e ask you couple questions,..

Pravesh rana, Armaan kohli, Raja chaudhari, Dolly , Sapna, and Vindoo also had same bad portray appearances in BB , did their career over,... or even after being a BB winner did their career sky rocketed - Shweta, Vindoo, Urvashi, ashutosh? NO. it's still as it is !

Did azaaz khan only surviing on Salmaan, that he only can give him work?

Did Gohar? Did Kushaal ? Did their career ruin by going opposite Salmaan ?

How about aakash deep -sky? Who was punched by Salmaan?

Kushal and Gohar were against Salmaan,..

is their career over now due to that?

Imaam was against Salman and so was sky,..

are their career over? In fact Imam recently asked more money that BB can not even afford recently,..

Aarya was rebuked tons of time by salmaan, is his career over?

Is his father Raj Babbar dead-left, if Salmaan did not give him chhoota mota roles in future?

Do you think, Upen who did 4-5 British model roles in UK companies,.. he had used any typical desi styled LGVG ( Laag-Vag ) to get those roles,.. or you think, even Salmaaa is so famous and having his statue in London a wax one, those companies had given those modeling to Salmaan so easily and without two opinions? I doubt.

Subhash ghai an excellent film maker has his list of movies,.. do you see a single role he ever gave to Salmaan except the coming one? He gave Upen in 36 chin atown which brought Upen 3-5 national awards. Now tell,.. where did he must had ranked Salmaan v/s Upen ?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subhash_Ghai - chk his movie list here, No Salmaan at all,.

So? Life goes on, yaar ! Salmaan who ? No one is god-father.

Career apne bal-boote aur kismet ke jor pe chalti hi raheti hai,.. If salman boycotts ya, someone else will give ya roles,.. ! Duniya bahoot badi hai ! Karan Johar even for last many yrs had never Salmaan called on his show and Ghai did not give a single film to Sallu-Lallu, ( Yuvraj a side role ) so far !

Originally posted by: Truth10

I think you guys are winding it over tight, here.

Lemm'e ask you couple questions,..

Pravesh rana, Armaan kohli, Raja chaudhari, Dolly , Sapna, and Vindoo also had same bad portray appearances in BB , did their career over,... or even after being a BB winner did their career sky rocketed - Shweta, Vindoo, Urvashi, ashutosh? NO. it's still as it is !

Did azaaz khan only surviing on Salmaan, that he only can give him work?

Did Gohar? Did Kushaal ? Did their career ruin by going opposite Salmaan ?

How about aakash deep -sky? Who was punched by Salmaan?

Kushal and Gohar were against Salmaan,..

is their career over now due to that?

Imaam was against Salman and so was sky,..

are their career over? In fact Imam recently asked more money that BB can not even afford recently,..

Aarya was rebuked tons of time by salmaan, is his career over?

Is his father Raj Babbar dead-left, if Salmaan did not give him chhoota mota roles in future?

Do you think, Upen who did 4-5 British model roles in UK companies,.. he had used any typical desi styled LGVG ( Laag-Vag ) to get those roles,.. or you think, even Salmaaa is so famous and having his statue in London a wax one, those companies had given those modeling to Salmaan so easily and without two opinions? I doubt.

Subhash ghai an excellent film maker has his list of movies,.. do you see a single role he ever gave to Salmaan except the coming one? He gave Upen in 36 chin atown which brought Upen 3-5 national awards. Now tell,.. where did he must had ranked Salmaan v/s Upen ?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subhash_Ghai - chk his movie list here, No Salmaan at all,.

So? Life goes on, yaar ! Salmaan who ? No one is god-father.

Career apne bal-boote aur kismet ke jor pe chalti hi raheti hai,.. If salman boycotts ya, someone else will give ya roles,.. ! Duniya bahoot badi hai ! Karan Johar even for last many yrs had never Salmaan called on his show and Ghai did not give a single film to Sallu-Lallu, ( Yuvraj a side role ) so far !

I see yr points and I also totally agree.

IMO,.. Upen is not a Hindi film hero kind of guy/material,...in/from any which angle you see him,...!! In 36 China town also, he was a side hero among many others and was woven into the story itself, but his own acting power or role was like nil and almost a clown, even worse than KRK joker.

Upen is the NRI movie material,.. say for example,..

NRI movies like

American Desi

American Chai

Monsoon wedding

Bend it like Beckham

He is a perfect suit material, as he would fit the roll very perfectly in those kind of movies.

In Namste London and other movies, I might had seen him but don't even remember when he came and when he go,.. just like Ali,. Who was in " Newyork" movie and still I do not remember !