My final conclusion - I think Sonali could be lying - Page 10

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: hippopotamus

specially when upen was besides sonali and aarya was behind ali

so he saw that time to feel her up? lol

of course it was just a touch that we do among friends..like some would massage your shoulder...type stuff




How YOU know that it was just a touch we do among friends???
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Posted: 10 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: novaturient



How YOU know that it was just a touch we do among friends???


how do you know it was not?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#93

Originally posted by: hippopotamus



how do you know it was not?


under the blanket handshake to kr nai rha tha...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: hippopotamus



how do you know it was not?



I dont know what it was under the blanket, but it shouldn't have happened.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#95

Originally posted by: novaturient



I dont know what it was under the blanket, but it shouldn't have happened.


when you dont know THEEE ENDDD

nothing comes after...be neutral
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Posted: 10 years ago
#96

Originally posted by: QueenOfMyCastle


Agreed...we cannot compare their relationships...and I mean "we" and in YOU and I. On what basis are you defining her relation with Upen and Gautam? and then compating it with her relation with Ali? Did she send you a memo? Right now...based on what is shown everyone there is either friends or housemates and they are all spending a lot of time with each other in groups or one on one.

Sonali was okay to sit and chat with him...she kept smiling at him, laughing at his jokes and twirling/playing with her pair...These are signs a girl is flirting with you...could be that Ali got the wrong message. She does have a habit of pushing and shoving during conversations too...



consent matters my friend...it matters a lot...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Okay I will resume tomorrow

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBjyJMrNGYA[/YOUTUBE]
Edited by hippopotamus - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: akankshaArsha


consent matters my friend...it matters a lot...

Exactly my point darling...consent from women matters...but she could forcibly enter another person's private space? I don't think G looked too happy with her putting her head on his shoulder...did she take consent?

Rules should work both ways if you are a true believer of Feminism. Feminism does not say treat women as superior but it demands equal treatment. If a woman wants to be respected physically, emotionally, sexually by the men, she should be prepared to give respect in return.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Prior Consent is necessary and not an after thought..
Ali touched, she did not like, he said sorry, and we should forget...nope doesn't work that way.. Moreover Ali is NOT her friend, he was always behind her. And even if he was her friend, still doesn't give him a right to touch without a PRIOR consent.
His luck is good that this is tharki BB who actually enjoys such stuff and hence gave him such a soft punishment.
Hippo, last time Gautam gave a BC gaali to Ali and you were worked up, and this time when a woman was actually touched without her permission and you call her a liar !
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: GkKgKklover


OH Plss Ali didn't even want to apologize in the beginning..he did only after everyone was telling him that it was wrong and Sonali complained to praneet and others.

i guess this is a new law according to u guys: "IF you flirt with someone and share the same bed, you have consented, automatically, to being touched by any other man. even the ones you do not like at all."


Um, excuse me, did you read the part where I said I didn't condone what Ali did or didn't do? Also, you seem to be taking a very strong stand in this. It wasn't a sexual assault, and nor was it an issue that Sonali herself persuaded further. I'm sure if the woman felt sexually assaulted, she wouldn't have quietened down as she did. Innit?
Let's be respectful of other peoples opinions. Hippo is sharing hers, as others are sharing theirs. There isn't a black or white. You have to be willing to see other perspectives as well.
Thanks.

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