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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gauahargeous_N



Who's saying that's ok?! 😕


the person who said it is the one whom ur fav is supporting 😉 🤣


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Posted: 11 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: kankabhor


Love the way how you always manage to frame your reply concisely and up to the point😳

I try...but honestly this twisted feminism is beyond me...

I have heard/read the terms like chikna, loaded (in both sense), droolworthy, etc terms used for men so many times that I have lost count.
Honestly, the word is not the problem, it is the intent, context and tone that makes it problematic. shabd mat pakdo, niyat dekho.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gauahargeous_N

m punjabi. Any guy that's says maal is a huge turn off IMO... You might be ok with it but I find it cheap.



punjabi use tota often for girls same us someone from UP uses maal...its pretty normal word there...Mist girl usses for themselves are vaah aaj maal lag rahi hai...in UP maal is better word than MCP used by TM?...or I am just giving that its pretty much normal that noone even care for it...like for TM said mcp is comon word ...whereIit has pig...same maal is used for beautiful ...let me tell you it can used by your frnds...and even girls
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Posted: 11 years ago
#54
Pritam is truly MCP #1 i.e Most Charming Person in the BB house 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I always hate this "so called feminism "oh God spare us this season atleast..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Excuse me ? You need to re read what you wrote .. You are complaining about pritam's language and you yourself is calling him a pig ? Thats where pig came from .. And its a free forum i have right to gv my opinion .. If the best you can do is say that im attacking u personally what about your comment when u said girls who like pritam likes calling them a maal then .. My God ppl have such double standards
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Posted: 11 years ago
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'Maal' is a very cheap word and I do think it objectifies women. I personally do not like that word and find it insulting.

W.r.t grabbing women, I think you misunderstood here. In any game or activity such as what these teams played, it is quite possible that one could accidentally and unintentionally touch another person's private parts. In this case, that's exactly what Pritam was trying to say, that it could happen when people are moving, so he asked Karishma to not make a big deal of it. He's not asking her to stay put at one place.

And regarding his messing with the vehicle parts just so that he could fix it or give lift to a girl...my personal take is, it's fine as long as the other person is fine. This is more a college-like prank that friends pull on one another to mess with each other. I wouldnt make a big deal of it if the other person is ok with it. In this case, that person ended up getting married to him so what's the point.

Most importantly, all of us have at one point or the other have done or used words which may not seem appropriate to others. What may seem ok to you, may not be right for me, similarly what I think is acceptable, may not be reciprocated in the same fashion by you. You may think that Pritam is an MCP based on the instances you have quoted, but to me, he is the most level-headed person so far along with Praneet. And I do not agree that he disrespects women. I infact think he knows where to draw the line, what to say and when to say. I like him. (atleast until now)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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arey item ko hindi mein maal hi bolte hai...whn gal says item koi kuch ni bolta...ladke ne maal hi toh bola tht too whn he s speaking to his guy frnds n guys generally use such crude language among thr frnd circle...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: avidwatcher1


"Maal" and it's connotation was one part of the conversation. Would a classy guy, remove a part of your car, for it to stall, so that he would then come and fix it? Come on. That is not classy, and neither is the language he used. He was with that woman for 2 years, and he referred to her that way. Kinda sad. There's other ways to flirt.

Hey- since u took time to reply it is only befitting that I reply to you too...Yes he used the word and I heard and saw the episode. He was describing her in one word. Had he said hot (english equivalent) would it have been okay? SInce u mention connotation, I did not find anything like a leer in his look. Had he laughed or winked or used lewd gestures to describe her body, yes it would be MCP worthy. It was not. If I am walking down the street and someone calls me that or whistles at me, the situation is different and that makes it derogatory. I really did not get ur example and how it fits in this context.
Edit: I now remember what you were referring to...but isn't this the same as a girl "accidentally" dropping her purse/books so that the man of her dreams can help her pick things up and help start a conversation. Or even pretending to fall only to be saved by her man in shining armour.

And I understand that people speak that slang, but it was not just the use of the word, but his demeanor as well. Very creepy. 🤢
See...thats the thing...the demeanour u talk about was not apparent to me. To me it sounded like when I would say that Ranveer Singh has sexy abs.

ALSO, everyone seems to be ok with the fact that he was justifying grabbing the women in wrong places, if they didn't cooperate getting thrown into the pool. His justification was don't move then, if you don't want us to touch you in the wrong place. 🤔
I did not see it as him justifying. What Tanna was implying was what got me angry. She was saying that Puneet would knowingly touch them in the wrong places. To which his reply made sense that if your target is moving, it is hard to aim for the safe spots only. Unless u are TV NYPD cop and then u can always hit the moving target right through the heart. Yesterday Minisha was grabbing the men from the back and trying to bodily move them. I can bet $1000 that the men got a good feel of her boobs. Would that be sexual harassment in your eyes? The guys did not ask for a feel, it was forced onto them.

How many seasons have we watched, and I can't recall manhandling of the opposite sex.
In my defense, this is my first season.

And for all the ladies, who are justifying name calling, calling out the word "pig" in MCP, and letting his behavior as well as his name calling go as a minor infraction, maybe YOU'RE the ones watching too many movies, and find this ok. But, it's MY opinion, so please jump off the thread. Thank you kindly. 👍🏼
I never claimed that it was okay to call one maal or not okay to call a MCP "pig". Its completely okay. But for me context and not the word is trump. A man/woman can leer at a person of the opposite sex and use words like brother/sister. TO me that is way more offensive than what you are calling offensive in this post.

Edited by QueenOfMyCastle - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: Gauahargeous_N



I'm punjabi. Any guy that's says maal is a huge turn off IMO... You might be ok with it but I find it cheap.


I'm Punjabi too.. I don't find "maal" offensive. Its about how you react on it, take it or leave it. Maal is not a gali in Punjabi. MOST Punjabi men n women used this words in their regular talk so it shouldn't come like a alien to u.

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