Originally posted by: avidwatcher1
@LeadNitrate: thanks for your feedback. I'm not sure about Soni and Pritams equation. All these people are new to me, as I think they are to you, as you mentioned.
Not sure what the food rationing bit is, as we aren't there to actually see what's happening. We can only assume based on what they show us. Think there was a discussion between the women, as to why the men eat last, so they can take whatever is remaining, and not have to keep for next day, etc, or that the men finish whatever is remaining between them.
See, we don't actually know, what the daily food split is, they might have showed us on one day, but doesn't mean it's like that everyday.
I'm giving benefit of the doubt to both parties.
Also, re: fast, lots of men fast as well. So, even if it would have been a man, whom Pritams comment was towards, it would have been hurtful. Nothing to do with a woman vs, man. When Soni cried, I don't think she said cuz I'm a woman, etc. think she cried over her being accused for eating more and being partial with food.
Again, I'm not defending Soni or her actions, as I have no personal relationship with any of these people. I'm just trying to see both sides of the story. All contestants also have their own equation with each other. It's just important to allow each other to express opinions in a healthy manner, without passing judgement. Sometimes, interpretation of expression caused misunderstandings, as this is a global platform, and people in different parts of the world have different life experiences to go off of. Let's enjoy watching the show!😉
hey thanks for your comment. was nice to debate with you.
As for food rationing, Preetam and Gautam and Puneet are the sevaks of the house, last week only Preetam and Gautam were. Acc to BB rules, they are supposed to eat last after doing all work and after everyone else have had food. Praneet did not need to join in, he joined in later to show his solidarity.
The girls, who were in kitchen team, always finished distributing the sabji and other dishes and only kept leftovers for them to feed. That too, they were busy hoarding them, putting tadka right in front of them, when they were not even done doing their work and did not even start to eat. Zoom in was actually done twice. and the day ration did not come, praneet himself said as it is there is nothing in the daal. So its been going on for sometime. Also like Puneet raised the point but did not follow up, Soni actually, did talk about putting tadka and feeding Upen, right in front of preetam and Gautam. That is when BB actually zoomed to see what or how much they were having. I found it very offending. Who is she to assign food like that. Shouldn't food be equally distributed in the house? Its BB ka food, everyone are contestants, they are all on same footing.
As sevaks, acc to rule, PG could not eat before others, but it does not mean others would start treating them as real life sevaks. Tomorrow some of them can come down to floor and then the same behaviour might be meted out to them. I had discussed that two weeks back actually in a forum post and Preetam raised the issue the moment he was given a chance to raise it. I thought it was valid.
She has been partial with food, it has been shown time and again. Not just once. She has been found discussing how to feed upen, while "lesser" members of the house had to make do with average fare, hence the accusations were imo justified.
Now you may say why only soni and not karishma ? That I don't know, personal equation? Maybe he had enough of Karishma's kai kai in the confession room?
As for fasting I have no issues with it, men or women. But if you have watched last week's epi you can see how much importance Soni herself gives to her fast. She totally ruined the sanctity of self sacrifice self control, that is called fasting, by cursing gautam drawing on her fasting power. IMO thats religious bigotry.
If we can call out one member for a slip of tongue like calling maal, I don't think hypocrisy and bigotry should be condoned.
I do not put any faith in Soni and her fasting. She can take her drama fasting and shove it up her raspy throat.
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