Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
Calling someone dear isn't bad. But if they ask you to stop then you should listen. It is similar to how Sajid calls everyone 'Beta'...that needs to stop as well. Dear is not a bad word, it is not disrespecting anyone when one uses it however here, after realising she wanted him to stop he started mocking her -which he does a lot.
Tina was wrong to call out his mother and sister - noticed everyone does that in that house but it should be a rule not to drag in family. After all, everyone is playing a game so why drag in innocent family?!
Respecting women, and men, should be par of the course but you can't really apply it here cos Tina was being just as disrespectful as he was so she should be called out on it as well. BB has made this house where anyone can say anything and get away with it so too late to put some boundaries in but really there should have been some from the beginning!
Shiv and Tina have thrown their gloves of, in this case mask, and showing each other their reality. Shiv has always suspected Tina. One thing about him I noticed, he watches to see who is loyal and actually in his way respects them for it. With Tina, he noticed she is not loyal to anyone, not even Sha and he called her out on it yesterday.
When Shiv called Tina dear for the first time, she actually told him respectfully to not call her that. But he didn't listen and continued provoking her. Of course then Tina would retaliate.
Other than that, I'm far from a Tina fan and I know she's a snake and she has disrespected many contestants, especally Sumbul in this show. But that doesn't make Shiv correct in what he did.