Don't make mountain out of molehill. - Page 6

Originally posted by: YehRashiThi

You're contradicting your own statement. First, you stated why people are comparing his actions to the outside world, given that it differs from bb. Now you're claiming that if Swami Om did this outside, it would be treated as a criminal offence! if Pratik did this outside, people would beat him up black and blue. Both of them crossed their line in the name of game...

Sallu just made Pratik winner of Bigg Boss 15.

Originally posted by: pinufan

You're saying Pratik should thank Vidhi for not putting a false allegation on him? Am I getting this right? Putting a false allegation on someone is something which a shitty person can do. So Vidhi should be thanked just for not being a shitty person?

Yes he did apologize with humility but Vidhi started acting high and mighty by saying "yes you should be", which made Pratik revert because he genuinely didn't think what he did should be made such a big deal. And neither do I.

We don't know whether uski sister ki fat jaati ya nahi. Vidhi ka reaction dekh kar nahi laga ki uski fati thi. I'm talking just about this show. Not the outside world. In outside world such things shouldn't be taken lightly.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

My personal opinion on Pratik trying to open the bathroom door when Vidhi was taking a shower is that....it was not really a big deal and people are making a mountain out of molehill of it.

People think it's cool to be a pseudofeminist or a white knight. But to everyone creating a hoopla over Pratik's actions, why are you all forgetting that Vidhi locked the door from inside? If the door is locked from inside, what the hell can Pratik do?

The white knight Karan Kundra is saying Pratik can't do this thing in the outside world. Well, newsflash for him...this is not the outside world! This is Bigg Boss house where if Pratik even had the intention to sexually harass Vidhi, guards would've straightaway stopped him.

Even Vidhi knew that Pratik didn't have any wrong intention and didn't make a big deal out of it. She told Pratik she didn't like it and he apologized. The matter should've closed then and there. But how can white knights like Karan Kundra and Vishal Kotiyan leave this opportunity to get footage and act woke?

Salman is saying in WKV that Vidhi could've ruined her image if she wanted to. Toh kya karein Pratik? Vidhi ki aarti utaare aur thankyou bolein for not putting a false allegation on him?

Pratik was asked why he didn't tell Vidhi (when she was taking shower) what he's exactly doing. Well why Vidhi didn't ask what Pratik and Nishant were doing? I don't know whether she did or not because I don't watch live feed but Vidhi had this idea that what Pratik is doing. Toh baat ka batangad kyun?

This faltu ki wokeness aur har jagah maa behen ko ghusana to appear woke is irritating. Glad that Pratik didn't fell for it and straightaway answered that his opinion won't change. Overactor Vishal was trying to twist his words to make Pratik look like a monster. Even Salman would use the same words.

Well what Pratik said was that if someone is in his shoes, and does something to her mom or sister what he did to Vidhi, then he won't have a problem. Not that he won't have a problem if someone breaks in the bathroom door where her sister is taking shower to molest her. Context is important!

To phir why is awaam so angry with him?

And why was he crying after wkv 😂😂.

Agar woh sochtaa hain ki people showering inside he needs to remove latches outside. That’s his choice. He should say this to cameras daily. Mainey galat naheen keeya aur roz mein latch neekaloonga. When a girl showers inside. Mera dil saaf hain. …

Aur he should not worry also then. And keep bringing up this character assassination topic day and night like he does. Kyonkee luckily for him. Everyone says they don’t his intention. 😂😂

Originally posted by: guenhwyvar

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I don't see it as invasion of privacy. It would've been invasion of privacy if Pratik was trying to have a look at Vidhi from the bathroom window while she was taking the shower.

Which Bigg Boss season you're talking about?

Not seen guards before maybe because nobody has crossed that line yet or maybe they don't show it onscreen if such a thing happens. But I'm assured that the contestants are definitely not in any sort of danger in that house. At least that's what I expect from a show on National television where big celebrities play as contestants.

He apologizes like an apology should be. But since he didn't think what he did was actually wrong, it won't be genuine. So other contestants had to come to school him, and also get a chance to appear woke.

Vidhi should've asked or did ask. If you're feeling uncomfortable by someone, your first response should be tell that thing to the person. My "lodu logic" is because of the lodu argument of Karan Kundra. He was asking Pratik why you didn't tell Vidhi what you were doing. I'm asking why couldn't Vidhi say something if she felt uncomfortable?

What Pratik said about his sister was totally in the context of the show. Not the outside world. In outside world people don't have to play these tasks or games.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

You're saying Pratik should thank Vidhi for not putting a false allegation on him? Am I getting this right? Putting a false allegation on someone is something which a shitty person can do. So Vidhi should be thanked just for not being a shitty person?

Yes he did apologize with humility but Vidhi started acting high and mighty by saying "yes you should be", which made Pratik revert because he genuinely didn't think what he did should be made such a big deal. And neither do I.

We don't know whether uski sister ki fat jaati ya nahi. Vidhi ka reaction dekh kar nahi laga ki uski fati thi. I'm talking just about this show. Not the outside world. In outside world such things shouldn't be taken lightly.

I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news but there was not one genuine facet to the first apology he rendered to Vidhi. I found it to be nothing short of mockery. His body language clearly indicated his belief of having been right with doing what he did, when he did it. His timing was unfortunate and he should have apologised for it, not for removing the lock but for doing so when someone was in the shower, that's all.

Vidhi dealt with the whole debacle with utmost grace, she never paved the way for anyone to hurl accusations at her for crying and playing the woman card and that is precisely why she didn't break in the face of adversity. It doesn't matter where one does something like this, in this house or in the outside world, Pratik was in the WRONG for tampering with the outside latch of the washroom while Vidhi was inside TAKING A SHOWER. He should have apologised for his timing, not for the latch being taken off and not for not harbouring any malicious intent. No one was questioning his intention or the fact that he took the latch off, everyone was pissed about his timing and his inability to accept the idea of him ever being in the wrong.

A quick tip : If something isn't acceptable outside the walls of the BB house, it most probably isn't permissable inside it as well. Making another human feel unsafe in a space they live in is never permissable, no matter what your intent or justification is, especially when the person is of the other gender.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

My personal opinion on Pratik trying to open the bathroom door when Vidhi was taking a shower is that....it was not really a big deal and people are making a mountain out of molehill of it.

People think it's cool to be a pseudofeminist or a white knight. But to everyone creating a hoopla over Pratik's actions, why are you all forgetting that Vidhi locked the door from inside? If the door is locked from inside, what the hell can Pratik do?

The white knight Karan Kundra is saying Pratik can't do this thing in the outside world. Well, newsflash for him...this is not the outside world! This is Bigg Boss house where if Pratik even had the intention to sexually harass Vidhi, guards would've straightaway stopped him.

Even Vidhi knew that Pratik didn't have any wrong intention and didn't make a big deal out of it. She told Pratik she didn't like it and he apologized. The matter should've closed then and there. But how can white knights like Karan Kundra and Vishal Kotiyan leave this opportunity to get footage and act woke?

Salman is saying in WKV that Vidhi could've ruined her image if she wanted to. Toh kya karein Pratik? Vidhi ki aarti utaare aur thankyou bolein for not putting a false allegation on him?

Pratik was asked why he didn't tell Vidhi (when she was taking shower) what he's exactly doing. Well why Vidhi didn't ask what Pratik and Nishant were doing? I don't know whether she did or not because I don't watch live feed but Vidhi had this idea that what Pratik is doing. Toh baat ka batangad kyun?

This faltu ki wokeness aur har jagah maa behen ko ghusana to appear woke is irritating. Glad that Pratik didn't fell for it and straightaway answered that his opinion won't change. Overactor Vishal was trying to twist his words to make Pratik look like a monster. Even Salman would use the same words.

Well what Pratik said was that if someone is in his shoes, and does something to her mom or sister what he did to Vidhi, then he won't have a problem. Not that he won't have a problem if someone breaks in the bathroom door where her sister is taking shower to molest her. Context is important!

Originally posted by: BasKahDia

I blame him for sexual harassment. I do not know about his intentions, so putting that aside. I will go by his action, which was sexual harassment. A girl is showering and somebody breaking the door, what will be girl’s state of mind. Even a male person will get horrified and look for covering him. Pratiek is adult, he knows what is he doing. He was fully aware. He should be thrown out of house.

Originally posted by: BeingBlunt

This is something I completely relate with. Exact same Thinking. How can I or anyone judge intentions from watching on TV/OTT? We can only judge on his actions and his action amounts to sexual harassment. That's how he will be judged. Should have been kicked out of the house with a label of a pervert forever. He kind of did the same with Meisha isn't it? 🤪

Originally posted by: DaddyMarvel

I never took him seriously even during OTT. His body language, the way he talks, his style of responding to dire situations, all reek of immaturity and petulance. But we just can’t keep overlooking his antics under the pretext of context and whatnot. He should have been held accountable. Anyhow, that phase has passed. He has now become alert, so he will ensure that he doesn’t resort to any such antics in the future.