How two panic attacks were treated in the house. - Page 7

Originally posted by: yakshini

Even forum treated two panic attacks differently. Sana's panic attack was mocked upon ridiculed with sadistic pleasure deriving gifs where as Arti's evoked compassion. Funny to see forum pointing fingers at certain contestants when they themselves behaved the same on this forum. Hypocrisy is everywhere.

There is a world of difference between the 2 people who have suffered these attacks. They also have very different disorders imo.

Arti has constantly and visibly displayed symptoms of a typical patient with mental health conditions especially depression and anxiety and she too was mocked for it before. TM described these symptoms in the first post.

Sana on the other hand shows symptoms of a sociopathic or anti-social personality disorder in my opinion. I make this judgement based on what I've seen of her and my personal experience in this field.

Also, here's an article for everyone's reference:
https://www.health.com/mind-body/sociopath-traits

Originally posted by: TheRowdiest

And how conveniently , just for the sake of bashing , everyone is ignoring that Asim asked Sid to leave the room and that’s why Sana said don’t go there . And anyways Arti was doing it because she is nominated .

Only Sid haters can’t see it . By everyone else can .

Okay i concede that it was a pretense. Bit her body language clearly shows how anxious she is. It cannot be ignored. Baki jise jo believe karna hai, they are free to! Thats the beauty if this forum, isnt it?

What the post is about how the people in the house reacted to both panic attacks/anxiety/meltdown. How artis issues were not only dismissed but actually was taunted.

Taunt sana ka bhi hua, here on the forum and in the bbh too. But this post is just about how bbh members reacted to both situations and not how forum reacted. No one used uncouth rude language to do that for sana, did they?

There lies the difference

Originally posted by: TheRowdiest

And how conveniently , just for the sake of bashing , everyone is ignoring that Asim asked Sid to leave the room and that’s why Sana said don’t go there . And anyways Arti was doing it because she is nominated .

Only Sid haters can’t see it . By everyone else can .

https://twitter.com/the_sneha/status/1199240408548556801?s=21

Wow! Don’t be so blind in love with your contestant that you’re going to belittle someone’s mental health in such a Demeaning way.

For your sake I really hope Sid wins, so you feel vindicated in supporting him and don’t need to resort to such horrible accusations to prove he’s the best and he deserves to win.

What happened to Arti was real- mental health issues and problems are as real as any other in life. Just because you can’t see their physical manifestations like you can in a physical ailment doesn’t mean that it’s not that bad.

Man we really need people to have a dialogue on mental heath awareness in this country, so people don’t make statements like you do.

Asim asked him to leave but he himself walked away from Arti when she was howling in the afternoon. A real friend could have just held her and given her a hug if not more.

Sana not going to her isn’t the issue but making the callous statement ‘ Teri mausi ki beti hai’ is.

I still don't know the root cause of my panic attack even after so many years.i would sleep for 3 -4 hrs only for years.I used to take medicines for piles and used to be super anxious.Felt as if hd to go washroom all the time..

It started somewhere like this.Then I was scared to go to theatres or anywhere or anywhere I feel trapped .Later I couldn't control myself when traffic signal would go red and get trapped in middle of people.Then I couldn't cross a divider and go to other side of road.I feared making mockery of myself.I stopped using vehicles.Nkw even if someone else is driving ,I do feel uneasy and feel choked on flyovers .

A dal boiling in cooker made be puke for 2 years .other boiling things also had same effect.

The day I m having fever ....I vomit even if I smell the vegetable cutting.

I used to use inhaler....not anymore.I used to do Pranayam nd I would keep breathing that way throughout months leading to lung exhaustion.

When I have panic attack....I feel I would lose control ...Before nobody wanted to accept ...there is a problem.

I and my family thought i m not making efforts to get well...It took 10 year for me to really understand .My friends who are doctors forced me to see doctor.Then no one in my family had history for it to be chronic.

So it got traced to not sleeping well.

Originally posted by: mamta.vineet

Hai na.

I am an avid bb fan and have been a regular (only reading) forum person since kast few years. Finally this year i had the courage to write something, only because i was finally able to accept my own issues and i could definitely relate to arti last night.

.the sher is by basheer badra sahab

Ahh...hard to believe U r a BB fan and have been just a silent reader. Your first post is so thoughtful ..infact I am lost for words. May the great god bless u and your little one with all the strength. 🤗

Regarding Aarti, I was initially very upset that she opted for this game as this caused her more harm than good. Felt this game was defn not for her. The only game she played was being a doormat to Shukla till few weeks back.

Yesterday felt very moved seeing her .....after Rashmi Debo’s eviction, I saw a strange confidence in her...a certain motivation to face the game. Her persona changed from a confused, restless, insecure person to a more calmer, positive and secure person. The magic of feeling wanted ( belongingness to Shuklapur) and the magic of Not being evicted renewed her energy. Suddenly the withdrawals yesterday, again the feeling of being discarded by her group put her back to solitude and she suffered a panic attack. Truly wish her friends do understand that there is more than a game in BB house ...something called as humanity.

Originally posted by: TheRowdiest

And how conveniently , just for the sake of bashing , everyone is ignoring that Asim asked Sid to leave the room and that’s why Sana said don’t go there . And anyways Arti was doing it because she is nominated .

Only Sid haters can’t see it . By everyone else can .

https://twitter.com/the_sneha/status/1199240408548556801?s=21

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

I still don't know the root cause of my panic attack even after so many years.i would sleep for 3 -4 hrs only for years.I used to take medicines for piles and used to be super anxious.Felt as if hd to go washroom all the time..

It started somewhere like this.Then I was scared to go to theatres or anywhere or anywhere I feel trapped .Later I couldn't control myself when traffic signal would go red and get trapped in middle of people.Then I couldn't cross a divider and go to other side of road.I feared making mockery of myself.I stopped using vehicles.Nkw even if someone else is driving ,I do feel uneasy and feel choked on flyovers .

A dal boiling in cooker made be puke for 2 years .other boiling things also had same effect.

The day I m having fever ....I vomit even if I smell the vegetable cutting.

I used to use inhaler....not anymore.I used to do Pranayam nd I would keep breathing that way throughout months leading to lung exhaustion.

When I have panic attack....I feel I would lose control ...Before nobody wanted to accept ...there is a problem.

I and my family thought i m not making efforts to get well...It took 10 year for me to really understand .My friends who are doctors forced me to see doctor.Then no one in my family had history for it to be chronic.

So it got traced to not sleeping well.

I’m so sorry for all that you had to go through. Good to know you’re doing better now. It’s never easy with these things and it’s a long journey but one step at a time makes a lot of difference.

Good luck and hope you keep getting better and better everyday!

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

Wow! Don’t be so blind in love with your contestant that you’re going to belittle someone’s mental health in such a Demeaning way.

For your sake I really hope Sid wins, so you feel vindicated in supporting him and don’t need to resort to such horrible accusations to prove he’s the best and he deserves to win.

What happened to Arti was real- mental health issues and problems are as real as any other in life. Just because you can’t see their physical manifestations like you can in a physical ailment doesn’t mean that it’s not that bad.

Man we really need people to have a dialogue on mental heath awareness in this country, so people don’t make statements like you do.

Asim asked him to leave but he himself walked away from Arti when she was howling in the afternoon. A real friend could have just held her and given her a hug if not more.

Sana not going to her isn’t the issue but making the callous statement ‘ Teri mausi ki beti hai’ is.

Honestly! It disgusts me how people pass judgements without even knowing the facts and to just prove how their fav contestant is right.

Originally posted by: shailzain

Honestly! It disgusts me how people pass judgements without even knowing the facts and to just prove how their fav contestant is right.

That’s the thing. I mean you aren’t related to these contestants. Three months later you wouldn’t care where they are. You can like a person with flaws too and don’t necessarily need to defend all their flaws. Problems hai accept Karo and say they did wrong but I’ll still support them for whatever reason! How hard is that?

When sana acted the way she acted....she was ridiculed because we saw her counting wrong on fingers on wkvs.She acted on wkvs.So peoplemde fun of her.Only when she used to sit alone...there was sympathy for her.Aarti was also bashed for her Shimla story and many more.

People who say....Aarti is getting sympathy and San was bashed....should please see the number of topics made in forum to mock Aarti .First 2 weeks Aarti got sympathy but her Shukla Jaap made people indifferent to her.

Yesterday all those dialogues she used to mouth about Sid....and her crying in garden is what made people realise what is happening.

When Sana had that...she had support of all.

For Aarti there was no support....plus they are making fun of her...

And next Sana's condition and Aarti's condition are two different.