Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho
Alright even taking the line that Sana didn’t go to her, you think it’s okay for her to tell Sid- that why should you care for her, is she your mausi’s daughter.
You can support someone and be someone’s fan but you can call them out when they do something’s that’s just against any kind of decency. Sana for all her flaws and I mean I hate her basically didn’t lack empathy till now on the show. But suddenly in her quest to be loyal to Shukla she’s forgetting the very basic innate empathy that she did have.
Either she was faking it all along or she did do a callous thing by making that intensive statement. Hope you can Atleast recognise that.
The mausi’s daughter reference from Sana is absolutely not right and I will never deny that. But I am also thinking from her shoes, that of someone who has been constantly blamed and ridiculed inside the house and who is living with her life’s biggest mistake and nightmare under the same roof, constantly under the fear of some video exposure, suppressing it all and
yet smiling and laughing through and acting silly as if everything is alright in her world.
She has constantly received jibes directly and indirectly from Aarti (and Asim) who have tried to keep her away from someone she was interested in for game or otherwise, and who yet again brought up her name indirectly as causative of the distance between Aarti and Sid- we don’t know whether Sid conveyed that to her. Sana has a history of someone having been integral in breaking her relationship with a previous long term bf and she is on the edge herself inside given the context. That has left its scar.
We also know Sana is extremely possessive and she is quite aware that Aarti is interested in Sid. She would be required to be super empathetic to extend that hand of understanding in this situation. After all, she is only 25 and Aarti is older and as much as age is not a parameter for maturity, Sana would have expected Aarti to be more mature than this. When many educated urban people here haven’t been able to understand Sana, how can you expect someone like Sana to figure everything out? And as I have mentioned here earlier too, Sana herself would need therapy for her various issues once she is outside the house.
I am not giving anybody a clean chit here. But I also don’t hate anybody inside the house with the kind of vitriol people expend here. I can only see each person as those with with different needs. But as someone who has had to handle people with an unstable family background like Sana, I just know where this is coming from.
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To some who responded to my post, I have the same answer as the above to yours too and to some others, don’t expect me to reply to you or acknowledge you if you can’t be civil on this platform.
Edited by Uma2010 - 5 years ago
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