So what r the rules of being ideal bhai behen

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praval

@praval

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Posted: 6 years ago

#81

This is my first comment on this topic so don't judge me. I am not saying it right or wrong just feel it's awkward- if bhai bahen grow up Together since childhood in same home than that bond is different. It's all natural but With Rakhi brother even if all genuine it's a bit awkward. I do have a Rakhi Brother since childhood but can't think of doing all this. Shaking hands is the only contact can imagine. Nothing more. I might be a little conservative I Guess.
Suddenly meeting some stranger in 30s and being together for 2 months and naming it as sibling and doing everything what we do with real sibling since childhood - ammm NO

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Sabhayata

@Sabhayata

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Posted: 6 years ago

#82

If some one goes around saying 'meri beti' 'meri beti' in the BB house tries to pacify her every time saying 'beti betI' even that will sound weird to me. More than weird just OTT.

Point is that you can make relationship in BB of course if you stay with some one for 3 months for 24 hrs you will make relationship but giving them names like Bhai behen and behaving as if that person is your real brother and saying Bhai Bhai is just too much.

It can't be real.

If there is a relationship of even normal friendship then just behave like that don't have to go around saying Bhai Bhai 😆

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Sabhayata

@Sabhayata

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Posted: 6 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: praval
This is my first comment on this topic so don't judge me. I am not saying it right or wrong just feel it's awkward- if bhai bahen grow up Together since childhood in same home than that bond is different. It's all natural but With Rakhi brother even if all genuine it's a bit awkward. I do have a Rakhi Brother since childhood but can't think of doing all this. Shaking hands is the only contact can imagine. Nothing more. I might be a little conservative I Guess.
Suddenly meeting some stranger in 30s and being together for 2 months and naming it as sibling and doing everything what we do with real sibling since childhood - ammm NO

Bold exactly my point.

They behave like kids with each other and think its like cute bhai behen.Its not.

Yes even till today me and my sister behave like kids with each other many times but its because we have grown up together and have known each other for 30 years.

Yahaan toh its juts too OTT.

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spicysagar

@spicysagar

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Posted: 6 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Kounsa video? Tell the name of video.

This is the video @timeout1 is talking about-
https://streamable.com/82t29

But, I love Deepika.

P.S: Deepikaji ki jai. 😡

Edited by spicysagar - 6 years ago

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Treason_Damon

@Treason_Damon

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Posted: 6 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: praval
This is my first comment on this topic so don't judge me. I am not saying it right or wrong just feel it's awkward- if bhai bahen grow up Together since childhood in same home than that bond is different. It's all natural but With Rakhi brother even if all genuine it's a bit awkward. I do have a Rakhi Brother since childhood but can't think of doing all this. Shaking hands is the only contact can imagine. Nothing more. I might be a little conservative I Guess.
Suddenly meeting some stranger in 30s and being together for 2 months and naming it as sibling and doing everything what we do with real sibling since childhood - ammm NO

You have a point but not every individual is same. What time you take to make bond may not be same as other person.

No one is right or wrong.

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

Trailblazer

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Posted: 6 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: Sabhayata
If some one goes around saying 'meri beti' 'meri beti' in the BB house tries to pacify her every time saying 'beti betI' even that will sound weird to me. More than weird just OTT.

Point is that you can make relationship in BB of course if you stay with some one for 3 months for 24 hrs you will make relationship but giving them names like Bhai behen and behaving as if that person is your real brother and saying Bhai Bhai is just too much.

It can't be real.

If there is a relationship of even normal friendship then just behave like that don't have to go around saying Bhai Bhai 😆

It might be her way of expressing. She will address him as bhai. Sree doesn't do that, he says Dipika ji. He doesn't say behna. So everyone has his way.

As shoaib said, dips kaa koi real bhai nahi hai so may be she sees sree as his brorher. Its completely their wish if the want to be bro sis. If they wanted to be just casual friends, I wouldn't have minded that too.

One shld have freedom to choose any reln as long as it not hurting anyone.

Jab un donon, un dono ke resp partners ko koi issue nahi, to baahar waalon ko kyaa problem😊