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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shrutijest.


Thank you Shruti😳

Roopsha

Thank you for your Lovely post...
Cant tell you how much fun i had commenting on your remarks... LOL 🤗
Please keep writing such posts...


I m in red.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Moumimon

amaizing post roop... 😳

MD-Phool gosh eye blood ka mamla hain as UD saidboth are pampered ghost😡 well i don't get why Chittor's people pampering them this much🥱 i know political issue is there still🥱🥱🥱

well i am really not interested in maajboor US😡😡 that man had only clueless brain which is only create trouble😡😡 sometimes i wonder how pratap is like this😲 is he really son of US🤪🤣 khoonka mamla is not visible here😆😆

well is only hukum sing is available in chittor palace?? that only he saw the informer of HK😲 gosh how he killed Suleman😡😡😡

well after seeing phool from last two days i don't feel friendship belongs btwn ajab and her😲 her behavior gosh not tolerable😡😡😡 well there may be a relation btwn her and ajab..but is that was friendship??? is phool ever care about ajab
😕🥱 it's always from ajab i guess🥱 she was alone from her birth, poor ajab phool she is all in all meaning less🥱🥱


Thanks Mon😳. I dunno. But if Phool is RM's granddaughter then Pratap is US's son. There has to be a moment when his father's genes come out in him. And if it comes out in form of anger for sending Ajab away, I might as well overlook US's rather ridiculous hardheadedness.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pri_b

hey dear, have always lurved up posts, ur emoticons and specially how u describe pratap's passion for ajab.. 😳 , wot I really fathom is that these morons including mini DB (have officially named phool) 😆 think that pratap's luv is so so shallow that just by sending ajab away he will start a diff chap altogether with phool, geez how cheap.. 🤢 , seriously m waiting anxiously when phool is gonna be at the receiving end of pratap's wrath regarding ajab.. , rest all drama, hope pratap just end's this stupid wedding thingy sooner...


Thanks Priya😳. Even I want Phool to be at the receiving end of Pratap's wrath, she deserves it, 😡well somewhat. I was becoming really irritated with the ridiculous crying face of hers. I want her to feel the same pain which Pratap felt. I want her to realise that he doesn't want her, doesn't care about her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Intrepida

I love your post Roop!! very nice commentary and analysis!!!


Thanks Rati😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hiral_Halwa


I am in red.

Roopsha - such a beautiful post⭐️ and the anecdote u shared on the japanese cartoon story u saw...beautiful indeed and very potent words - its too late...😳

Thanks Hiru.😳

coming to RMD and UD - Marwar folks- OMG I wrote this elsewhere...I am like not shocked anymore at the treatment they metted out to Ajab for being a samant putri and literally pulling her down to fit into a daasi...when they can treat a fellow powerful state people like subordinates!🤢
DB and her crap...u made it easy for Ajab now DB...when she will come in married in Chittor palace - now it wont be just JB fighting and saving Pratap - Pratap will have two people, closest to him knowing about ur sick tendencies and hypocritic behaviour😈!🤢
Those people, they are just completely disgusting.🤢

Ajab - her trust in her friendship with Phool😭...her FBs on Pratap...her wanting to meet Pratap for whatever reason, even after she said that she wont see his face and all😉 and her getting humiliated inspite of everything she did to get this rishta done till here...its all gona blow up on all these people's face! they just threw out the string that attached Pratap to Phool...the only link that Pratap had with Phool - his Ajab's insistence on him marrying Phool...and now that she is out...they just made the biggest mistake...Pratap is definitely totally going to be furious at all of them - I hope they do show him mad at them!

Great analogy. Ajabde was the link between Pratap and Phool. Sending her away is like throwing away the marriage itself. I think Ajabde is aware of this and knows that if she goes away, PraPhool will never happen. Yup, its definitely going blow up. I just want Pratap to blast all of them especially Phool.
Phool - no comments, no words, expected reactions coming in from her...but the FBs she keeps getting, someday Ajab's goodness will make Phool a good person...some distant day...for the time being, I just want PrAja to help each other out...

I was expecting some, only a little, redemptionor at least emotion from her side but apparently her ego is bigger than anything in this world.
Ajmer down...and Rajputana unity barely holding on - tough times ahead for Pratap personally and politically...lots of trouble brewing in...
the problem is that coalition - or even this marriage doesnt look like its happening between equals - the way Marwar is treating Mewar...for an alliance to work, there has to be equal of amount of respect from both the sides...phool doesnt give a damn about respecting or caring for pratap...RMD-UD dont give a damn about US-JB...
Completely agree. Marwaris are too arrogant. Anyways, since history does say that Marwar surrendered to Mughals, it will be a sight to behold to have Jalal treat them like trash.

glad to see JB-US convo - it was expected and much needed...JB - oh I feel bad for u😭
Precap - I do hope that Pratap goes Ajab searching - but I still dont want to pin up my hopes...there is no clarity sofar whether he will actually go...the precap - where his horse is making noises could be when he was on his way back after inviting Chakri and all too...and with the war coming up with Jalal from 23rd...god knows what the CVs will show till then...can the so called marriage with Phool atleast come to an end next week please! then we can shaanti se enjoy the Jalal-Pratap war and PrAaj wedding😳😆

Bhagwan hi jaane yah sab kyaa ho rahaa hai. Can't they show a proper precap?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Fabulous post roopshas1 👏 Loooved your analogy 👍🏼 thank you 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: roopshas1


Thank you😳 I know this is a little late but I have forgotten your name. Can you tell it again? And are you a girl or a boy?

You are right. Phool is right now not even running on her crush. She's running on her ego. I don't know what's running inside her head but whatever it is, its not love.

As for Ajabde, its very hard to understand the extent of abuse she has suffered and the extent of its repercussions. Most abused people tend to see world through extremely pessimistic eyes. They are scared of entering new relationships or things because they are unconsciously scared of getting hurt. You see, Ajabde started pushing away Pratap even way before Phool was on the love scene. She is just using Phool as a shield and an excuse. She is not being mahaan. She didn't choose Phool over Pratap. She is being the typical abuse victim.

If you remember, Ajab was alright till the time Pratap suggested he give her private sword-fighting lessons. The moment he suggested so, she realised that he was seeking intimacy with her - whether it was her time or her care or just being physically close to her. She immediately reacted violently, telling him to leave Bijolia. This is a form of extreme subconscious self-defense mechanism which mostly seen in those who have suffered abuse from the time of birth. MM didn't just abuse her. He literally made her want to erase her own existence. He didn't ever let her build anything called confidence. For such a person to receive special personal attention from a person who is regarded as a messiah of some kind is extremely scary. She is frightened. Scared out of wits. She has accepted that she has feelings for Pratap but she has not accepted that she can have a relationship with Pratap. Especially one which is probably the most intimate of any relationships. The moment Pratap showed signs of wanting to share something special with her, she cut the bud at its nip by making him leave. Before she can even accept anything else, Phool confessed and Ajab single-handedly decided to make PraPhool happen, even if it meant forcing Phool on Pratap. She believes that she is doing something right for both of them as they are "worthy" of each other. A rather twisted logic but anybody here who has had an abusive past will understand and agree with it.


Roopsha, You have set me thinking and even if I am rambling😳, would love to hear your views especially where I am thinking on a wrong track... 😊

My views on your above comment-

True, Ajab has suffered being ostracized by her dad since childhood. And it has affected her self-esteem - i.e., she doesn't expect regard for herself from anyone. I agree that she has become pessimist about her own status but I felt that she brought out optimism in everyone- so much so that Pratap always asked for her opinion when in bijolia.

She doesn't expect people to accept her as someone worthy but somehow she knows her worth. My reference in point is when she says to Pratap- "don't feel ashamed of thinking that I am a dasi, hamare hao bhao hi aise hain' -She said that without any remorse. Which I thought was possible only if you have immense confidence in what you are. She knows her rehan sehan is un-princessly but she continues to be herself. Also she says to Phool and to Pratap a couple of times - "pata nahi par humein sab pata chal jata hai" .

Ofcourse her character built itself very strongly and rapidly with Pratap around in Bijolia but even prior to that i found her extremely meek only in presence of her father.

I agree she was hesitant to enter new relationships (especially when HB revealed her dream for PrAja to her) but I found her reason and way of reasoning more pragmatic than emotional. She has always maintained that she is unworthy of Pratap as she is samants beti. Which we see her doing even today. I feel Phool is not her shield. She was going to tell Pratap everything - about mala, her feelings for him; after mala scene before Phool confessed. And since then she only wanted to walk out for Praphool to happen, cutting off Prataps yearning for her. She simply wants to give up mostly for her best friend- her soul mate. Prior to this I don't think she ever retaliated to Pratap in the negative owing to her self misery. (please correct me if I am wrong)

As for the sword lesson episode- I thought she shrugged because she had already made up her mind to ask Pratap to leave for her parents sake. In The training scene though- she definitely wanted to avoid that closeness with Pratap (after she had a FB abt Phools confession).

I totally agree that she is not being mahan (for sometime I did hate her sacrificial mode but I understand now that in times like these, sacrifices were easily made). Ajab is like that, not mahan but a simple person with little aspirations.

Also another point is her conviction that she can affect Pratap. She does not use it to manipulate him. She reasons it out with him like a sensible confident person. She knows that they both come on the same page once they have discussed things.

Ok bash me up- i have gone all over ...

Edited by shrutijest. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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you are great your topic was really cooled me my M.i.l is also like DB.😆Imean worse than her.felt like blasting them all for seprating two love birds.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayalnee

Fabulous post roopshas1 👏 Loooved your analogy 👍🏼 thank you 😊


Thanks mayalnee.😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirmita

you are great your topic was really cooled me my M.i.l is also like DB.😆Imean worse than her.felt like blasting them all for seprating two love birds.


Thanks Nirmita😳

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