A lesson one may not wish to ignore from MB

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Posted: 7 years ago
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In Maha bharata, who is the villain?
There were some but chief among them is Duryodhana!
Many might dislike him but some loved him too!
Karna, Dhritarashtra and Gandhari were some who loved him till the very end, apart from his 99 brothers & uncle etc!
Everyone had their reason to love him!
The one very fascinating thing that comes to my mind is about the approach of king Dhritarashtra when it came to deal things with his heir-apparent son!!
The King was a blind man, by nature!
But he still got an opportunity to rule the country!
As a good king, he was expected to be fair, just & unbiased to everyone in his kingdom while he ruled!
Was he really like that?
No, he suffered a serious handicap as he was proving himself as a blind king!
No, we are not talking about his physical vision or handicap!
But his mental faculty & common sense etc as he was very blind to ignore his son's sins!
Whatever crime or sin committed by Duryodhana was condoned and ignored by his father till his very end, in spite of numerous counseling ,pleadings & representation by elders in his court to the blind King!
He was acting more like a father than a king to all! So, every good advice only fell in deaf ears!
His love & affection for his son was so great, that everything got justified & ignored to safe guard & support his son's adharma activities!
Eventually,when the war became inevitable & his son fell in the war, he was completely a broken man! He was inconsolable! He was even seething with anger & had attempted to crush Bhima for killing his son- in a very controversial manner!

Well, that is the relevance of this piece of story which is anyway known to many?
Sometimes we do forget, in our blind love & affection that we may tend to lose our vision - to distinguish or differentiate good from bad!
Our extreme attachment or love for a particular thing or person would always try to find an excuse or reason to continue supporting, come what may!
It may not be fair, but still will continue to over-rule our rationality as what Dhritarashtra did in his son's case!
Persons with bad behaviour- if they turn out to be incorrigible & hopelessly bad, should we continue to show our support to them, in the name of love and affection?
That is the moot question!
Is there a lesson here, to take home from Mahabharata?
It is a food for thought!
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Y12345 thumbnail
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Posted: 7 years ago
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It's hard to actually, blame one character only. Shakuni was responsible for instigating D, and there are so many factors that contributed to MB.
Karna, Bhishma and all were also bound by their promise and did bad things too. Pandavas, also were wrong in not rebelling when Draupaudi was disrobed, and the result they had to lose their sons..

But anyway, what is the relevance of it in Beyhadh? Saanjh loving duffer so much that she failed to show him the right path, and help him to break his own home?
Because here the parents aka Jhanvi, is a big hypocrite, can't even see her love for maya let alone be blinded by it
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Posted: 7 years ago
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In our epics, all the characters be it the heroes or the villains,all are portrayed in varying shades of grey. No one is completely black or white. Was Duryodhana the villain of MB? Were the Kaurava's solely responsible for the war? Then why were they given a glimpse of heaven if they were completely black? The parents who were blinds to their son's misdeeds, Pitamah who allowed the disrobing of his kulvadhu owing to the vacahan he gave to his father, Drona the teacher who was supposed to show them right and wrong, Yudhishtir Dharma raj who gambled away his kingdom, brothers and wife after he put himself at stake, the rest of the brothers, Panchali, Kunti, Karna, Sakuni etc etc have all contributed to the final war. If any one of them had taken a different decision or had reacted differently then, the outcome also would have been different. So it is not a person or his actions alone that decides the fate. But it is the chain reaction.

Now coming to Beyhad is Maya the Villain of the story?

Our parents teach us the first lessons of love. We learn compassion, empathy, kindness and forgiveness at our home. There is a saying that a mother is only as happy as her saddest child. In our superhero stories, Batman is just a human being who had a traumatized child hood who rose above those shackles and became a hero. In that series, Harvey Dent who had an abusive child hood has suppressed paranoia. But he fought against crimes alongside Batman, until he became "Two-face due to the acid attack. This second trauma brings his suppressed mental disorder out and he becomes a killer. But Batman saves him because he condemned his actions instead of condemning him. Isn't that the virtue of a true hero? In Beyhad that is what we essentially lacks. There are no hero's here. They are all humans with flaws who used her illness or obsessive nature, who drove her to insanity and more with their actions and complete lack of empathy and sensitivity. The only person you will feel for is the child who was so lonely and who was never heard. Her unheard cries are manifested as the madness in Maya. Does she deserve to be punished? Yes because she have also hurt innocents. But just like those innocents deserve justice the innocent child also deserves justice. So those who are innocent are free to condemn her.

"There comes a point where you no longer care if there's a light at the end of the tunnel or not. You're just sick of the tunnel.

Ranata Suzuki

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Posted: 7 years ago
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This was just an illustration how showering blind love to a person can only bring unbearable agony or sorrow to oneself when the loved one suffers & meets the destined fate or Karma, for their own wrong doings!

Particularly, if the person receiving our love & affection goes out of control and does not wish to heed any sane advice, then all one can do in such a case is to maintain a distance, emotionally from the person!
This is not only true for real life persons but also can work same way even if the person is just a fictional character!
Just like Duryodhana's sad end made his father sad, those who are overly attached to Maya's character-ignoring her sins or crimes and still rooting for her- might face some difficult moments, if a good emotional detachment does not come into play, if & when that is needed!!
But thankfully, Arjun & Jhanvi are keeping a lot of distance, so they are not worried about Maya!
And since no other person in Beyhadh is really concerned with Maya's well being or for that matter, her sad end -if it were to happen- it may not cause anyone to feel really sad!

Though, it will be a huge irony -as the person who was searching for love, all throughout her life- in return for her very own beyhadh love, will finally meet her end- whenever it happens, just loveless!



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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fernandes43



Though, it will be a huge irony -as the person who was searching for love, all throughout her life- in return for her very own beyhadh love, will finally meet her end- whenever it happens, just loveless!



Even her birth was as a result of a loveless union. She was just a pawn for her mother to get the love that was never her's. So what better end than that?
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Even her birth was as a result of a loveless union. She was just a pawn for her mother to get the love that was never her's. So what better end than that?

Indeed very sad!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Guys, this illustration is irrelevant, as Maya was never loved and Duryodhana was loved deeply by his parents who overlooked all his crimes.
Maya can be compared to Karna, as Karna was mocked and he wanted to earn respect and Maya wanted love.When Krishna, met Karna, he told him that one decision of his could change the whole destiny and he could have been the king but he chose adhrama and here Maya also chose adharma so that she gets justice as a child, same as Karna(also bc of his promise). The only difference is that, Karna was a better human being than maya, and he never got justice bc of the path he chose.

And another reference i can spot on, is Maya reading BG, and she will create the same illusion that Krishna used to create. Sab Maya hai.

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Originally posted by: Y12345

Guys, this illustration is irrelevant, as Maya was never loved and Duryodhana was loved deeply by his parents who overlooked all his crimes.

Maya can be compared to Karna, as Karna was mocked and he wanted to earn respect and Maya wanted love.When Krishna, met Karna, he told him that one decision of his could change the whole destiny and he could have been the king but he chose adhrama and here Maya also chose adharma so that she gets justice as a child, same as Karna(also bc of his promise). The only difference is that, Karna was a better human being than maya, and he never got justice bc of the path he chose.

And another reference i can spot on, is Maya reading BG, and she will create the same illusion that Krishna used to create. Sab Maya hai.

Maya was not loved by Rajiv in initial days but was loved by Samay aka Rajiv till he died! Only thing was she did not recognise his love!
Arjun started loving her reluctantly but then he picked up & held on under very trying conditions! But Maya proved too much for him & ultimately was forced to give-up her!
Jhanvi was her companion but difficult to say she hated Maya in her early days!
There are/were a few who helped her!
Mansi, Tulsi & Lalwani! Perhaps, Lalwani was only lucky!

But, in real world too, there are none to love her? I doubt!
Maya & Duryodhana both are bull headed!
It is my way or highway! -that is their policy & because of that they are/were in difficulties!


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Originally posted by: Fernandes43

Maya was not loved by Rajiv in initial days but was loved by Samay aka Rajiv till he died! Only thing was she did not recognise his love!
Arjun started loving her reluctantly but then he picked up & held on under very trying conditions! But Maya proved too much for him & ultimately was forced to give-up her!
Jhanvi was her companion but difficult to say she hated Maya in her early days!
There are/were a few who helped her!
Mansi, Tulsi & Lalwani! Perhaps, Lalwani was only lucky!

But, in real world too, there are none to love her? I doubt!
Maya & Duryodhana both are bull headed!
It is my way or highway! -that is their policy & because of that they are/were in difficulties!




Samay and Arjun lusted on her, they didnt love her. Jhanvi is the biggest hiprocrite
and mansi, tulsi etc, they didnt love her deeply, I mean to say romantic love, parental love, family love..

Maya and D cannot be compared. D never had a trouble childhood that made him struggle for the survival of the fittest and made him carve his own way or perish
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Originally posted by: Y12345



Samay and Arjun lusted on her, they didnt love her. Jhanvi is the biggest hiprocrite
and mansi, tulsi etc, they didnt love her deeply, I mean to say romantic love, parental love, family love..

Maya and D cannot be compared. D never had a trouble childhood that made him struggle for the survival of the fittest and made him carve his own way or perish

Did maya love or lust Arjun when he was under sedation or hating her & was desperately trying to escape from her?
What was on her mind -knowing fully well Rajiv's mindset- as she offered to oblige him in share deal?
Did she offer him love or lust when she asked him to bite her neck?
Later, when she was asking him to marry Saanjh,
When she was texting the deadly SMS to him,
When she was asking him to kill Saanjh before he double crossed her & she triple crossed him back!
Maya knew by experience with him what exactly he was looking for and she still chose to play along, stoking his lust for her only to grow unashamedly, despite her marital status to another man!
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