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Posted: 8 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

A women's modesty lies in her mind and then comes the body...Here Maya has lost it long time back when she allowed samay to stage take drama .Here Maya doesn't care about her modesty at all...Samay is a criminal and no one can do so even with animals.,same shoes to Maya ..I would say Maya never has any modesty nor goodness.,her every cell is corrupted with criminal tendencies...

But if the same thing happened to someone innocent I would have felt bad...But Maya and samay makes me feel disgust!?!

I really respect your opinion...I am not justifying Samay M,but Maya is not the victim but she is playing the dirty mind games and she was instigating samay.mhere Maya is not the victim at all!! And she doesn't have modesty to loose it in first place.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#32
Both are to be equally blamed. If Maya wouldnt have started this at first, nothing of this sought would have happened.
But Samay's role is just gettin worst, it seems like he is more mentally unstable.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Fragrance63


These are regressive and chauvinistic views. Rape is having sex forcefully and without one's consent. No one invites rape upon oneself. This heinous crime is committed by people who have rape mentality in their minds. A good person will find other ways to punish someone in a lawful manner.

Whatever Maya did she never thought one day Samay would control her and resort to sexual harassment/abuse.

'No' means No. Watch the movie, 'Pink.'


No one is denying that rape is an heinous crime. Where's the proof there was rape? Did they show any episode to indicate Maya was raped? On the contrary it was Maya who invited Samay to do an act of rape so that she could falsely implicate her BIL.

What is regressive is both Maya's and Samay's acts. Please don't quote Pink which is just a film. . If you want I could furnish statutory laws and case precedents to you where court has thrown out rape cases citing incitement.

What Maya sowed, she is reaping at leisure. If you live by the gun, you die by the gun. If you live a life of lies, deceit and treachery, you beget the same.

So before calling someone regressive, please pay heed to your view. Just because you like the actress playing the role, does not mean you have to condone every wrong doing of the character she plays.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: agastya_muni


No one is denying that rape is an heinous crime. Where's the proof there was rape? Did they show any episode to indicate Maya was raped? On the contrary it was Maya who invited Samay to do an act of rape so that she could falsely implicate her BIL.

What is regressive is both Maya's and Samay's acts. Please don't quote Pink which is just a film. . If you want I could furnish statutory laws and case precedents to you where court has thrown out rape cases citing incitement.

What Maya sowed, she is reaping at leisure. If you live by the gun, you die by the gun. If you live a life of lies, deceit and treachery, you beget the same.

So before calling someone regressive, please pay heed to your view. Just because you like the actress playing the role, does not mean you have to condone every wrong doing of the character she plays.


She so right. Even I am a big fan of Piyush I still Hate Samay.
About Maya Yes she did bring that on her self. even after watching their story, She still deserve it. but I do feel bad for her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: agastya_muni


No one is denying that rape is an heinous crime. Where's the proof there was rape? Did they show any episode to indicate Maya was raped? On the contrary it was Maya who invited Samay to do an act of rape so that she could falsely implicate her BIL.

What is regressive is both Maya's and Samay's acts. Please don't quote Pink which is just a film. . If you want I could furnish statutory laws and case precedents to you where court has thrown out rape cases citing incitement.

What Maya sowed, she is reaping at leisure. If you live by the gun, you die by the gun. If you live a life of lies, deceit and treachery, you beget the same.

So before calling someone regressive, please pay heed to your view. Just because you like the actress playing the role, does not mean you have to condone every wrong doing of the character she plays.


I am not condoning her wrongdoings, okay?

And even if I am a layman I feel rape is not the answer to incitement. This horrible mentality is formed in those men who think of women as inferior to them. And Samay is such a person. If he wants to punish her why not resort to other forms of punishment?

Samay is trying to control Maya by sexually harassing her which is a condemnable act.

And I am not talking about the past. I am talking about Samay telling Maya to sleep with him on the day he gets married to Saanjh. Who will condone that?


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Posted: 8 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: agastya_muni


No one is denying that rape is an heinous crime. Where's the proof there was rape? Did they show any episode to indicate Maya was raped? On the contrary it was Maya who invited Samay to do an act of rape so that she could falsely implicate her BIL.

What is regressive is both Maya's and Samay's acts. Please don't quote Pink which is just a film. . If you want I could furnish statutory laws and case precedents to you where court has thrown out rape cases citing incitement.

What Maya sowed, she is reaping at leisure. If you live by the gun, you die by the gun. If you live a life of lies, deceit and treachery, you beget the same.

So before calling someone regressive, please pay heed to your view. Just because you like the actress playing the role, does not mean you have to condone every wrong doing of the character she plays.


@bold Maya invited Samay to rape her?? She faked to be a victim of "attempt to rape" and not rape itself which is equally shameful...The point here is Maya never invited Samay to rape her... In past it was mutual consent and now she is forced to submit...Even if she is sowing what she reaped, she is getting her punishment so she shouldn't be punished by law right?


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Posted: 8 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Fragrance63


I am not condoning her wrongdoings, okay?

And even if I am a layman I feel rape is not the answer to incitement. This horrible mentality is formed in those men who think of women as inferior to them. And Samay is such a person. If he wants to punish her why not resort to other forms of punishment?

Samay is trying to control Maya by sexually harassing her which is a condemnable act.

And I am not talking about the past. I am talking about Samay telling Maya to sleep with him on the day he gets married to Saanjh. Who will condone that?



I am copy/pasting a response I posted on another topic

But in this serial, the so called victim (Maya) repeatedly sought Samay for favours. Let's assume she was raped by Samay when she went to him the first time asking for favours. A lawyer would argue it in many ways. The victim was given options. Samay did tell her that he wants something in return. Which was, either sleep with him to get her business back so that she could get back at her father or choose to walk out. I have not see him forcing himself on her. She was free to walk out. I did not see him forcing himself on her neither did she accuse him of rape. She was okay with it because she got in return what she wanted.

One thing to think here is would a rape victim repeatedly go to the perpetrator asking for favours? Would any victim do it?

Later, we are shown that Maya used him for her personal vendetta. From the beginning she has been using Samay. He was a pawn, a tool in her hands. All along she promised to love him and even made gestures to support the same.

Which rape victim would go after the perpetrator asking him to do another act of rape?

So where is the crime committed? Is she truly a victim? What are we arguing about Rape being a horrible act. The whole topic of Rape is another subject. Yes it is wrong, vile and despicable. No one should undergo such an experience. No one is condoning it.

All we are discussing is the circumstances shown in the serial. These are two separate topics.

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