Is it an ultimate test for the husband?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: FleurBleue

I would have accepted the outlandish ways of Maya to test Arjun's commitment given she really doesn't grasp any better, but how do you test your partner by letting another man bite and feel you up? She loses me at that particular juncture. Don't start with the rubbish that she was compelled. Why would she feel compelled to frame Ayan? She could have smoothly thrown him out of the house but she didn't. She had this urge to play God and dole out punishment to him as he dared to come close to Arjun.

That's not testing. It's just plain and simple mindf**kery.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@vid it comes out more and more that Maya has issues with Saanjh. Even after putting Ayan to jail what she tells is if Saanjh again comes in between them, she will know it. Yesterday too she told Vandana I dont like Saanjh.

In many dialogues in season 2 I could see Maya talking about treachery of Arjun. As far as I could see Arjun has not committed adultery. If something is there which is not shown to us I dont know.

So I think it is Maya's perception that Saanjh will take her Arjun away. Actions of Saanjh in season 1 where she takes Arjun to restuarent without telling Maya. Their kind of intimate closeness which Maya witnesses, then Saanjh hugging Arjun after she saves her from fire and putting colors on Arjun before her, has added to Maya's insecurities along with her father's two timing with his wife and mistress.

Actually Arjun should have handled his relation with wife and friend in a mature manner which he didnt do. Saanjh should have known what a woman feels when her husband goes with another woman who loves him, is single. She will never be comfortable.

Talking about her relation with Samay now Maya is exactly giving Arjun and Saanjh the feeling of what she felt when these 2 went beyond limits in the so called friendship.

Question is once she finishes talking, what will be Arjun's reaction, what will be Saanjh reaction. Will they do something different than Maya. Will they be able to accept that closeness just like that trusting their partner. Because it is easy to tell others do this, do that. But it is not easy when you are faced with the situation.

Originally posted by: Fernandes43

Wife has to test the faithfulness of her husband only if she has some grounds to suspect!
Now let us check the ground realities with information known to us!

When season 1 ended Maya started really believing Arjun! True or False?
True, but Why & How?
Arjun slapped his longtime friend in full public view & declared that all their ties stood snapped for ever & pushed her out of their house! Did it not convince Maya?
Arjun called Ganesha as a mere stone after the miscarriage! And Maya accepted it, even though both believed in God till then! She threw away Ganesha & gave that place to Arjun!
If she could abandon her True friend trusting Arjun, then why should she still hesitate to trust him when he abandoned his friend for sake of his wife?

So, Maya started trusting Arjun finally, isn't it?

After that in those 3 years what happened, we do not know! But he got sick of Maya & when season 2 started he was almost hating her! Why this transformation? No clarity, yet!

Was it due to his infidelity? Then Maya should have hated him and not other way around! He can't be infidel & at the same time blame his wife for his misery!

We do not know about other girls! But definitely he would not have contacted Saanjh & Sharmas during those three years! His surprise encounter with Saanjh or Ayaan looked very genuine! Really, it appeared a meeting happened after a long time!

Looks like, Saanjh & Sharmas never came in Arjun's thoughts during those 3 years!
But, Maya did not forget them!

It was clearly confirmed more than once that Maya indeed set it up Samay for Saanjh! Samay was already in touch with Maya before he met Saanjh in London! How long Samay & Maya were in touch, after they fell-out some 8 years back, we do not know!

Still how did Saanjh fall for Samay, we do not know?! Somehow Samay managed to woo Saanjh abroad, clearly under instructions from Maya!

What we do know -is that Maya did everything behind Arjun's back, even though he never attempted to contact Saanjh!

Now, if one were given to believe that 'the so called affair of Maya & Samay' is just an eyewash & it is really meant to test Arjun's reactions, then we would like to know . . .

What kind of fidelity test is this?
What is the justification for Maya's actions, when she herself was clandestinely in touch with Samay -God knows how long - fully being aware of his amorous intentions towards a married woman?!

What kind of moral ground does Maya stand even to test her husband?

Originally posted by: Sdaren

How does any man tolerate this nonsense? There she is intimidating his mother and all he does is give the look... I mean how long will he stand by the side and watch Maya subjugate people around her.

Only Arjun can put her in place but instead he relies on his mantra ..." don't provoke Maya... she will get mad and destroy everyone". More than her... he needs to be sent to the psychiatrist. Another guy would have packed his bags and ran the hell out of there. (enough said by everyone about him not growing a spine?).

Waiting to watch what will break this camel's back...

Originally posted by: vid6

I completely agree with you on your post. Yes, Maya hasn't forgotten a single thing about the Sharmas or Saanjh. I am only trying to understand the way Maya is thinking in this season, at least in the first one we had an idea of what and why she had done. Now all that she is doing is going beyond my head. Ganesha was her anchor to her saner part of the brain, but now since she threw him away in the name of love and trust has created this bad black Maya which no one can digest. I do sympathise with whatever she had gone through as a child...but how long can she last like this is the question. I somehow feel Maya knows that her doom is coming soon.

Originally posted by: sunithi

Very interesting topic... waiting to know how it unfolds..superb post